@theslowesthnery Hey buddy... (tl;dr warning as well ^^ā)
So I just read about your latest post and thought I would reply.
(Even though you might never actually read this because Iām a nobody to you for not being brave enough to interact with you much in the first place...
Oh well, Iām taking the chance here.)
First of all: You did the right thing for blocking that person. Block their friends as well and let them be in their own little shitty circle.
I know blocking people feels bad but itās like closing a door on them. Youāre not a door mat. You have the right to close the door when thereās people you donāt want to come in. Thereās nothing wrong with it. Especially if theyāre jerks like you described them. (Also no, Iām sure you didnāt over describe them at all, I know there are a lot of jerks who are even worse than that in Tumblr and people with groups in them ARE DANGEROUS IF THEYāRE IN THE WRONG MIND SET, I know that for a fact.)
Second of all: Itās ok to be over sensitive.
I am too. So I know how you feel when everyone tell you not to be who you just are because of your past. Itās not as easy toĀ āgrow a thicker skinā as people say. Some turn heartless when they try to do it and then theyāll be the problem because they donāt understand anymore how others feel.
So please stay as you are. Thereās nothing wrong with that. You are valued like that, even if people are idiots and forget it when youāreĀ āoversharingā your feelings to them. Itās ok to do so because you need to do so to function properly.
Third of all: Itās ok to be tired about this shit. Especially when youāre so popular.
Please let me explain; Iām not a popular artist or popular anything really, but Iām an observer.
And when one people gains so much attention, it gets exhausting. Soon you donāt really know if people are really meaning the good things theyāre saying because all the bad things, big or small, are multiplying and clouding your vision, making everything look like theyād hate you or your thing youāre doing. Especially with snarky comments. They donāt understand that the way theyāre saying it is negative. And they might even actually be negative just to cause drama and shit storm to gain some attention themselves. Theyāre trying to leech out from the popular to become popular themselves.
Negativity grows so much easier than positivity because everyone can let their bottled up anger out that way as well as gain attention with their nasty words.
So when you see someone being a little shit about the stuff you do, block them.
You have the right to do it. You donāt need to feel bad about it since youāre protecting both yourself and your community from those idiots.
I hope this reply reaches you. And I hope youāll feel better after reading it.