A JEALOUS HUSBAND

That skirt she was wearing today is very short. Who would that cake she bought be for? It seems that she has smiled at that conductor of the Paris subway. It could be him!  Probably I have captured the treacherous moment with the camera!

I have followed her from the Place Bérault until she has entered the office. I’m sure she’s cheating on me and I won’t stop until I find out who he is…

(From the diary of a jealous husband)

UN MARIDO CELOSO

Esa falda que llevaba hoy es muy corta. ¿Para quién sería ese pastel que ha comprado? Parece que le ha sonreído a ese revisor del metro de París. ¡A ver si va a ser ese! Tengo que haber pillado el traicionero momento con la cámara!

La he seguido desde la Place Bérault hasta que ha entrado en la oficina. Estoy seguro que me la está pegando con otro y no pararé hasta descubrir quien es…

Am i overthinking? (female,17) hey! my friend group consists of 8 people (including me). 4 girls and 4 boys. its not like we’re all couples haha.. but on that note, one of the girls in our group is like my bff and she’s dating one of the guys in the group. its totally not weird haha! they aren’t super serious and dont ever kiss around us or anything like that. hes been away on vacation though and who knows if that is why, but she has been kinda attached to one of the other guys in the group. idk why it bothers me though! like why am i jealous if i dont think i like this guy from our group in that way? weve just been becoming closer friends with the guys and im not like really attracted to them but i still get jealous idk maybe its because she already has a boyfriend and then its like okaayy i get it. idk like we’ll be sitting on the couch and she’ll sit right between us or if i get up she’ll take my spot next to him and get all cozy and refuses to move idk why it makes me so frustrated. maybe im over reacting or over thinking? or she’ll be texting him and im like oh yeah in the group chat with all of us and then i sound stupid because i realize she was texting him individually.. but its so annoying im like okay soo why are you texting him? i get we’re all close friends but i feel like im losing whatever this is like shes getting closer to him and i feel like he likes her more idk. and im mad at myself because i might be over reacting to everything. and like when we all watch movies - idk whats wrong w me - i just like being close to him sometimes that sounds SO weird but its kinda true and idk why but i can’t see myself dating him… i just like being friends but idk if its weird to like all get comfy for a movie or is it weird if i rest my head on his shoulder? idk what im even asking here overall, sorry this is all over the place. i guess im almost jealous. and im going to the dance with him and shes dating his best friend but i just feel like he almost likes her better. shell say stuff or make a comment and he’ll laugh or make a comment back, but for me i feel like he hardly finds what i say to be funny or interesting or anything. in our group theres another couple and i feel like my life can be a never ending third wheel situation.

honestly? yah I do think you’re overthinking everything a lil bit! D: it’s something for your friend to sort out -- if you care about this guy friend and you’re concerned that your friend is accidentally leading him on or something? then maybe you could make a small casual mention of this or something, but it’s not really something that involves you ): 

if you’ve always rested your head on his shoulder, then I see no reason to stop? your friend already has a boyfriend haha, she can’t “claim” every single guy she has as a friend! but -- if you haven’t ever rested your head on his shoulder before, and you want to start doing it? I wouldn’t, it feels like you want to do that as a way to compete with your friend? and plus it’s likely to send mixed messages to your guy-friend anyway ):

just let this go friend, let your other friends figure things out on their own! if you have real feelings for this guy friend then yeah deffs say to your friend “look idk what you’re doing but you have a boyfriend and the way you act with ____ feels kinda inappropriate, I like him” or something like that? but if you only see him as a friend then just let it be, it’s not worth wasting time over <3

Everyone is going to Japan.

F****** EVERYONE.

Everyone but me.