#istandwithharmony

Hands in the Spotlight, Coward in the Dark - A Ticklish Interrogation

Leelahstoes insists she doesn’t know anything… which is exactly what makes this interrogation so much fun. I’m not looking for a name, I’m looking for the man behind the voice, the one who lets others do the talking while he hides safely in the shadows. With every question comes another wave of tickles, and with every giggle the truth gets closer. By the time Leelah cracks and blurts out The Ventriloquist, it’s clear: the loudest messes are often made by the quietest hands.

Harmony comes out with ACTUAL FUCKING EVIDENCE that she's had her boundaries and concerns dismissed, EVEN GETTING INJURED BECAUSE OF THE BLATANT DISMISSAL... and she's the one that's somehow sexually assaulting people? 🤨

Some fucking "community" we have here. Fuck all of you that are blaming the victims & defending Rez. Y'all are just as despicable as he is, and I don't give a fuck if I've never interacted with you or him. Pretty sure I blocked the ones I saw victim blaming already, but I'm not afraid to make my block list bigger!! 🖕🏻

This community is completely unreliant on any members. There is no hierarchy. Hosting an event every year does not prioritize somebody on an individual level.

Every person, regardless of who you are, needs to listen to consent. No ifs ands or buts. If somebody says no, you STOP!

I don't give a shit why they set a boundary. Do you jump fences when you see them? Do you break into houses? NO. The walls and fences are boundaries. You recognize that and do not cross that line. Treat people the same.

Its not hard. It's so unimaginably easy that you've done it your entire life without even noticing, ever since birth. If you whine when someone sets a personal boundary, you are not a serious person and you should not be taken seriously. You are not an adult. Toddlers do that. You are an infant child.

This isn't drama. This isn't wrecking the community. This is life. This is a victim of an irresponsible person's blatant disregard for safety, comfort, and enjoyability sharing her story. This is not an accident either. This is someone who put their own self first and did not so much as think of the other party. Too eager. Too uncaring.

Hearts out to @tickleharmony for what she's been through. Mad props for speaking up about it. I appreciate you bringing this to light so that it can be solved, instead of just sweeping it under the rug.

Lets try to make a change so this never happens again.

In the middle of reblogging posts to protect myself while a police car was literally sitting in my driveway, I unintentionally reblogged a comment that revealed Daisy’s real first name. I was unaware of that information at the time. When I noticed it about an hour later, I immediately removed the post.

Even though Daisy is the catalyst for this entire situation, no one has the right to dox her. Full stop. I will not participate in that.

That said, let’s be very clear: this does not absolve her of her actions. It does not excuse what she did. It does not mean I’m backing down or retracting anything. It means I’m doing the right thing, as I have consistently done throughout this entire ordeal.

Because I was forced to take legal action and file police reports, my own name will be part of the public record. Apparently that’s acceptable. I’m not a hypocrite, and I’m not afraid.

In that spirit, and in support of Daisy on this one issue and this one issue only, I’m stating my own first name openly.

My name is Carol.

I want to state a fact that people are welcome to ask him about directly: @reztkl was previously married to a woman who was a prominent and well-loved member of the foot and tickle community. She left the community abruptly around the time of their divorce. Out of respect for her, I will not name her.

What I will say is this: Rez did not disclose to me that he knew I had been friends with his ex-wife until we were already well into our friendship. I only discovered this after referencing a private conversation I had once had with her, at which point he stated that he remembered it. When I asked how that was possible, given that it was a private exchange, he struggled to explain.

That interaction made me deeply uncomfortable, and I told him so at the time. I raised concerns directly, and he defended himself. I accepted that explanation then. In hindsight, I regret dismissing my instincts.

I am no longer willing to protect other people’s secrets at the expense of my own safety or credibility. If there are questions about this history, they should be directed to him, not whispered around me.

HEY REZTICKLER! FUCK YOU!!!

This video shows a small but real piece of evidence from my consent violation at NEST 2022.

Ispoke up then. I tried to stop it then. I was new, I had no platform, and I wasn’t believed.

What you’re seeing here isn’t an isolated moment. It’s part of a consistent pattern that has followed me and others for years.

Silence protected the wrong people. Evidence doesn’t lie.

I’m not asking to be believed anymore. I’m showing you.