is when teenage white boys and women who feel like feminism is not a cool label do this.

Never mind the best bit, when they tell women and men who call themselves feminists to start using a different label, because feminism is corrupted now.

Yeah, sure, because using a different label would solve the problem. I find it particularly funny that atheists join in on this very often, because this last argument especially sounds like the "Don't use atheist, that's a dirty word, say agnostic instead./You are just an agnostic!" line I keep hearing.

By the way, agnostic-atheist is a thing. In fact, there are so many labels for atheism now, strong, weak, unicorn, that it's gotten ridiculous, and these people want me to call myself something other than a feminist.

I am a strong agnostic-atheist, a feminist, a humanist, a liberal, and bitch, I'm also a Unicorn. And the next priest king of Atlantis, once I get things settled with old Xenu here.

They tend to be one in the same when you think about it.The oppressed tend to become the oppressor eventually (i.e racial disputes, territorial disputes, feminism, family issues) 

Simple fact of the matter is once people are angry, they don't think. Or rather, they act based on conditioning. If you've learned nothing but the dynamics of oppression, you can't expect to have a different outcome than just that.

Basically, if change is what you seek, Stop acting like everyone else.

  O yea and LOVE.