#is useless

(via A $2 Sticker Let Me Bypass The Meta Glasses' Anti-Creep Feature)

just call these what they are:

1) You're far too behind with owes already & 2) You don't want to overwhelm.

If you've seen the show Seinfeld and get my reference*, we are truly seeing the bizarro world spn experience -- and it just busts my mind straight open like a pinata. (x_x)

- 🌠

*re: Seinfeld if you've never seen it:

it's like Jerry and the gang walking into "their" NYC corner diner and seeing a slightly different version of themselves, sitting in "their" booth, acting in just a *slightly* different way, all at the same coffee shop, but like at a different regular hour??? And their paths never crossed???? Just parallel and divergent lives???!??? And we're like slightly divergent unhinged monkeys living parallel experiences rattling the bars of our enclosures every time they get enriched???!?????

....I feel deeply unwell lol

Hey Nonny!

*HUGS* Honestly? I don’t.... I’ve never had to do the thing, and when I did come out, it was only to a select few people I trust. The most frustrating one was my open-minded aunt who didn’t understand asexuality and didn’t understand how I could possibly not want sex, so I tried my best LOL. Everyone else I told – My sister and my three closest friends – just shrugged and was all good, LOL. 

When I did, though, I went from “people I trusted the most” to “I just need a close family member to talk to”. My sister was the first, and she took it all in stride. My first best friend, it was on a drive home late night and I just blurted it out; she thanked me for trusting her so much to do that. Her partner was next, since I guessed she told him already, and then my aunt because she mentioned her best friend came out to her as pansexual, which I used as an opportunity to spring on that discussion LOL.

So yeah, it’s all about comfort levels and trust, and if you feel safe: See, I don’t have many consequences in the sense that if I tell someone I don’t live with and they don’t accept it, well, fuck ‘em, I’m not talking to them anymore. It’s a lot different if it’s your parents that you are living with and dependent upon.

I don’t think it’s really my place to say how to handle this, since my experience is really not helpful this time. Logically speaking, I say “when the time feels right” and “if you know your parents are okay with LGBT then together” or “tell the parent you trust the most”. It’s a tough call Nonny. 

Anyone able to help out better than me, here? I know we have a lot of older fandom folks here <3