#infpproblem

5. Well, shit.

As you know I am an INFP and we often get in trouble with daydreaming and not paying attention, here's a story of mine which happened only an hour ago. So one hour ago I was watching an episode of "the Vampire Diaries" with my mom. It was very chilly, we both drank tea, ate cookies and crisps and it was the first warm day about 20 degrees since a long time. As we were watching this super interesting episode which we've never seen before I took my cuppa and held it in my hands. It was an important scene so I just held the cuppa in my hand and watched carefully. Then my thoughts drifted away as usual and I was asking myself what it would be like if vampires existed, in which I believe, and that I would really wanna see one and how some characters annoy me so freaking much. I wanted to take a sip and BOOOOM my cuppa slipped right through my left hand and aaaaall of my really hot tea went over my pants. I have to add that I feel really bad today, headache, my stomach hurts, I feel dizzy and weak. So I jumped from my armchair, got rid of my pants and ran into the bathroom to get something cold, but as if one of my leg burning as hell wasn't enough I fell down while running and my arm still hurts so much. And as this still wasn't enough I also pushed my tacosauce off the table and it was mixed with my tea all over the floor. Thank you clumsiness and daydreaming my leg is still hurting after an hour.. Conclusion: always put your cuppa down before thinking!

Hey there! I as an Infp yesterday forced my older sister to the mbti-test on 16personalities.com and it turned out she's a Esfj. As soon as I find my dad he also must do the test because I really wanna know if there's someone here who really understands me. My mom as an Infj and I somehow think about different things the same way, but it turns out she is 100% dominant and sure about what she wants and I am let's say 14% sure about what I want. My sister on the other hand [Esfj] is recognized for a lot of mood changes and she needs to organize everything and can't easily accept other's opinions. This is absolutely the truth! I always wondered why we have so many conflicts, it turns out: we are the complete difference. She's an extrovert, I'm an introvert, she is 100% logic focused while I'm maybe 30% logic focused and and and. Over the years she always had the ability to make me cry and she usually tells me that I'm weak and don't have a chance in society and won't ever find a boyfriend and have no chance in "the world of men". When we are in a fight she ALWAYS wins. I'm serious, I just can't stand the idea loosing her, hurting her, and as an introvert I need to think first while she talks and talks and talks. Advice for Infp's or introverts: Avoid fights with Enfj's if you haven't thought about arguments for your opinion yet! Furthermore she has this ability making me feel totally worthless. She makes me feel unloved, dumb and meaningless, but I love her because she's my sister. So I have a question: what can I do against this people believing hard in their opinion? When we are not in a fight and don't talk about our opinions she is the nicest person ever because even if she needs to fight for her opinion, she's also very interested in solving social conflicts. One can say that she's really double-faced . In addition I'd like to tell you that even if you have a lot of comebacks, an Esfj will shut you down! I'm telling you a typical conversation of my lovely sister and me: She: Why do you think that? That's total crap! Me: yeah well but it's my opinion, I believe in that. She: haha yeah well so you're really dumb. Me: you are dumb. She: fuck off you can't stand any criticism you'll never have a chance in society. Me: and why do I have friends and hobbies? She: I don't know, I'm asking myself that question everyday, I mean you never leave your room and if you behave like that it's a miracle that people even wanna talk to you. You can see a really nice conversation.. Full of harmony and sister love. I have a question because I didn't search and read a lot about the different types yet, but is this normal for Esfj and Infp [sisters] ?

Yes, definetely.