"Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength." - Eric Hoffer
seen from United States
seen from Malaysia
seen from China
seen from United Kingdom
seen from Australia
seen from Germany

seen from Malaysia
seen from United Kingdom

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from Czechia
seen from China

seen from Malaysia
seen from United States

seen from Germany
seen from Malaysia
seen from China
seen from China
seen from Indonesia

seen from United States
"Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength." - Eric Hoffer

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
Incivility
Whitkin
Ink on paper 9x12â
[3 images. A man and a woman standing in a kitchen. A sign on the side of a road. A group of people standing in a kitchen. Captions: Every savage can dance. Let us have the luxury of silence. Is not general incivility the very essence of love?]
Guest Speaker Peter Rollins
You create the monsters you fight. And Nietzsche was brilliant on this; he said âBe careful when you fight monsters not to become one.â Thereâs some weird thing where youâre creating monsters of âthe other,â and you become a monster fighting it. Bad people will always do bad things, a small percentage of people for whatever reasonâthey donât need an excuseâbut to get good people to do bad things you need to give them ideology. You need to come from a place of purity culture and thatâs when you get good people to do bad things, because thatâs when they will do bad things in the name of love. They will do bad things in the name of âbeautiful soul.â They will do intolerant things in the name of tolerance. To get good people to do bad things you need ideology.
âŚ
War is the inability to have conflict. Conflict is when I can sit down with you and say âYou donât like me and I donât like you, but hey, weâre living in the same place; weâre going to have to sit down and work this out.â Thatâs conflict. War is when I say âI cannot tolerate being around your otherness, so Iâm going to kill you. Iâm going to get rid of you, purge you from the world, vomit you out. Now that petri dish creates more and more violence because, as I mentioned, when you treat people in such a way that you see them as intolerant and evil and irredeemable and stupid and you put all of that onto them, they willâto some extent, some of those people willâacquire that projective identification. They will take that into themselves.
âŚ
Heigl says that every time you think you know what utopia is, death is around the corner. Stalinâs the perfect example of course, who talked about the end of history. So you can justify anything if youâre doing it âfor historyâ or âfor Godâ or âfor humanityâ or whatever in some capital-H, capital-G way. But what happened in the troubles was an apocalyptic moment. Everybody had to set down their vision of what the perfect society would look like. Everyone had to set down their idea of âOh if only we got rid of you, it would be greatâ and say âOkay, letâs put everything on the tableâ ⌠When it gets so bad weâll either end up completely destroying each other, or weâll have to sit down with our enemies, and not say we like them or we love them or anything like thatâno, say we hate themâbut say like âI know you hate me too. Letâs talk about this.â
All of this talk is amazing, but in particular the second half of it. đĽ Peter Rollins is so good at articulating what bothers me about purity culture right now.
âIf they respect you, respect them. They disrespect you, still respect them. Do not allow the actions of others to decrease your good manners, because you represent yourself not others.â
This quote is just ridiculous.
Throwback to the time when I hung out with a bunch of people, some older, some the same age; who relentlessly gossiped about others, spoke of stalking their targetâs social media, exhibited superiority, discussed othersâ private medical conditions, and on the surface - surgery sweet. Honestly I enabled it, and didnât like who I became as a result, but good manners doesnât always work. Good manners can be seen as complicit, and you absolutely do not have to respect people who disrespect you, or others.Â
These last few weeks have taught us that.Â
Speak out, it isnât about manners; itâs about the quality of speech, what you wonât tolerate that will stop enabling the disrespect

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
âBoth sidesâ are not the same. Republicans are the clear and present threat to social justice and democracy, more than any foreign power could ever hope to be.
Pride and Prejudice (Chapter XXV) by Jane Austen
"Across the three studies, we found consistent evidence that women reported higher levels of incivility from other women than their male counterparts," Gabriel said. "In other words, women are ruder to each other than they are to men, or than men are to women.
"This isn't to say men were off the hook or they weren't engaging in these behaviors," she noted. "But when we compared the average levels of incivility reported, female-instigated incivility was reported more often than male-instigated incivility by women in our three studies."