When I was in high school, like most of us, I was told who to be.
Or, based on how I looked, people would treat me a certain way because that's who they wanted me to be.
For example, since I'm six foot, half islander, it was automatically assumed that I was going to play American football.
So I played American football.
I sucked at American football.
But because nearly every person my size was playing American football, not only was I trying to play, I was trying to be the quarterback.
I was spending all my time and energy trying to be something that I didn't want to be.
Can you say - exhausting 💅
And I'm realizing choosing to do what you think people want you to do, and just being who you are are two different things.
It's scary to think I could have lived my entire life this way - doing the things I thought people wanted me to do, instead of just being me.