Thinking about our collective gender, I think that "System" is our collective gender. Let me explain.
Bodily we are fem presenting and we are taking Estrogen and Spiro. I inherited this from a long long dormant host who was trans. But I am not trans. I do not feel trans, I don't relate to any of that. It's also open to interpretation whether or not we are bodily intersex as there is a variation there, but I don't really feel connected to that either.
We have a quite a few alters who are women and they have varying degrees of non-realization about the body. I think for many of us we are so detached from our body that it is just this sort of biological robot that we use to interact in the world.
We also have a lot of alters who are either non-binary or they don't feel that they have a gender at all. Then we have a couple of alters who are trans and do identify with all that. and there are also a couple of guys. No one wants to stop taking our estrogen though, so that's a thing as well. How do you integrate all these different ways of seeing ourselves? You can't really. So our collective gender is Dissocative System
