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If there's one thing seeing people on this site articulate their gender presentation goals has amply illustrated, it's that there are no gender boundaries on aspiring to be a Fancy Little Lad.
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If there's one thing seeing people on this site articulate their gender presentation goals has amply illustrated, it's that there are no gender boundaries on aspiring to be a Fancy Little Lad.
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This is your permission post to get a little bit goofy with butch/femme culture btw
yāall take this too seriously sometimes. āThatās not femme enoughā āThatās too femmeā My angel honey sea anemone pea princess. We are in gender buffoonery land. It has always been like that. We are clowning around in the face of gender essentialism. Stop trying to reinvent gender essentialism.
If youāve ever accused yourself of not being femme enough, or not being butch enough, I need you to remind yourself that the culture is there to serve you. It exists so you can cope. It exists so you can feel at home. It exists so you can do gender tomfoolery and feel good.
Reminder that associating hair length with gender is not a culturally universal concept and that many indigenous folks in North America donāt cut their hair for cultural reasons that have nothing to do with gender.
Reminder that a native guy should be allowed to wear his hair in long braids without people calling it gender nonconformity or saying heās breaking gender norms, because hair length has nothing to do with his gender norms.
Reminder that a queer native woman should be allowed to wear her hair long without being automatically read as femme presenting, that she can be butch with long hair, because long hair is not associated with femininity in her culture.
Reminder that many native folks cut their hair for solemn reasons, usually mourning, and remarking on it as a reflection of personal style or gender presentation can be deeply disrespectful. No, she didnāt just get a fierce butch haircut - she cut her hair because someone died. No, he didnāt cave to a gender conforming haircut - he cut his hair because someone died.
Reminder that this is not universally practiced by native folks and, like all cultural practices, some people are more strict in their adherence than others.
The difference is completely subjective due to the nature of gender and things like femininity/masculinity as social constructs, but I will say, there is a difference for a lot of people between being a feminine guy and being a masculine or androgynous guy who also just happens to be flamboyant and maximalist, while still entirely self-perceiving as more masculine or androgynous leaning and trying or wishing to present in a way that they see as reading as such. As a guy who is flamboyant and maximalist but distinctly not feminine, it can be frustrating to see these things conflated.
Again- itās subjective, everybodyās ideas about what femininity and masculinity look like to them are different, depending on the ideas theyāve personally absorbed- but the distinction matters to some people, and therefore itās worth noting.
"I think one thing a lot of people - even many gender-savvy folks or fellow trans people - sometimes forget is that there are a lot of components to gender and that knowing someoneās gender identityā doesnāt provide much information about what their gender expressionā or presentation will be. Plenty of people, whether cisgenderā or transgenderā , have gender identities and expressions that donāt fit neatly into a rigid and binaryā system of genderĀ norms."
Mo Ranyart, As a trans person, how can I navigate authentic gender expression and avoid the identity police?
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A presentation term where the sun and / or sun-related aesthetics play into how one presents.
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Boyfemme pride flag
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individuals who are femme and male/masculine or use masc. terms for themselves.
Color meanings (from top to bottom):
ā¢ 1: queer femininity & boyfemmes of all kinds
ā¢ 2: self-love
ā¢ 3: gender nonconformity
ā¢ 4: intersex, trans, bipoc, indigenous & marginalised boyfemmes
ā¢ 5: man/masc gender identity or a connection to manhood/masculinity, etc.
ā¢ 6: femme power & androgyny
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