#hypocritical

i love how most girlbloggers are super into self care yet simultaneously love destroying themselves

People are always saying that there should be more sex ed in schools, but they never actually say what needs to be taught. When I was going through sex ed, 90% of it was a mix of mentioning various STDs, and the rest of it was talking about enthusiastic consent. Don't get me wrong, both topics are important, but there are so so many other topics that need to be covered.

i was just recently attacked by someone under my tamed story. basically they said i was invalidating a canonically gay character for writing will byers with a female. i tried to explain very respectfully that in my story it's an alternate universe meaning he isn't gay. i also write the canonically gay will byers with males so no i'm not erasing him. i don't write noah (will's actor) with women though because he is openly gay. will byers is a fictional character! now this same person is literally a byler shipper, their whole account is about byler, and about how they read byler. don't get me wrong, i don't think there is anything wrong with being a byler shipper!! but when you ship will byers which is a canonically gay character with mike wheeler a canonically straight character and then try and jump down someone else's throat for "shipping" will with a female you come off as very hypocritical! i won't say who it was, but i hope they learned their lesson on how not to be hypocritical.