#hm odd

From what I’ve seen “bi lesbian” has historical precedent, is something that TERFs don’t like, and doesn’t necessarily mean liking men. Sometimes the distinction of bi lesbian as “women and nonbinary people” is something that individual person needs. Also, the shit I’ve seen people who exclude bi lesbians do to someone who just dares to express any amount of support is absolutely fucking disgusting and exclusionists should be fucking ashamed. Sexuality and labels are a guidepost, not a guardpost. Let people identify how they want. It isn’t hurting you.

But that is expensive so I don’t feel like I can go out to eat that without a Good Reason and also there’s nobody in this city for me to share a meal with so I’d be going alone and that was not a problem while I was travelling in Australia but right now right here going out to eat alone, especially if I dress Nicelylike I’d like to, feels like a Weird thing to do and I’d rather not have that kind of attention