My Ritual for Offerings and Prayers
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I practice Hellenic Polytheism. This is not a reconstructed or historically accurate ritual.
When I first decided I wanted to make a personalized ritual, I asked myself what giving an offering means to me. I decided giving an offering means inviting the Gods into my home as guests.
Formality is important to me but I mostly do free form prayer. Formal prayers I do with offerings, informal prayers I do in the moment but only with Gods I’m closest to.
1. Preparation - I get everything I need for the offering before I go to my altar.
2. Ritual cleansing - I like ritual cleansing because it helps transition me from a every day state of mind to a spiritual state of mind. This could be traditional khernips, a shower, or just washing my hands.
3. Put on a Veil - This is a new step for me but I like it for the same reason I like cleansing, it helps change my state of mind.
4. Light my Altar Candle - I have a candle I use only for this, so lighting the candle is like flipping on my “offering time” switch. I also use a candle because I can’t use incense.
4.5 Grounding - Optional - I will take a few breaths to ground myself in the moment before I speak.
5. Invite the Gods to my Altar - “(God’s name), I ask you to join me at my altar as I offer and pray to you,” or if I’m offering to more than one god, “Dear Gods, I ask you to join me…”
6. Give the Offering - When I give the offering I say, “I am offering to you [name of thing]. May it please you and bring you joy.” My most common offering is a libation of water. (Why Water is not a Lazy Offering)
7. Prayer of Thanks - I thank the Gods for whatever I want to. This could be as short as, “thank you for what you do in my life,” or longer and more specific.
8. Prayer for Requests - This is optional. I won’t make requests of a God when I am praying to them the first time. Before I make a request of a God I like to say, “If it would please you,” or “If the fates will it,” because I know I am not guaranteed anything I ask for.
9. Repeated Steps 6 - 8 as Needed - If I am praying to multiple Gods, I give the offerings and prayers separately for each one. If I’m pouring a libation, I will pour a small amount for each God when I offer it.
9.5 Meditation - Optional - I use prayer beads to meditate at my alter and focus on the God/Gods and let myself experience the moment.
10. Closing the Ritual - “Thank you (God’s name)/Gods for joining me at my alter. I pray that the offerings pleased you and that you will join me again in my home.” After I say this I put out my candle and take off my veil.
Where do I put my hands? Sometimes I fold them together and sometimes I put them up or down in the traditional Hellenic way of praying.
What does my altar look like? Here is the most recent picture of my altar. More pictures are linked in the full post.
How long do I leave out my offerings? 24 - 48 hours
How often to do this ritual? Every 2 weeks at most, once a month at least.
Where do you get items for your altar? Most of my items are from thrift stores but I do buy some things from Etsy.