i took this picture sneakily while MY husband was pampering OUR son , explaining he will be back soon after his match ♡

translation: Itoshi Shohta (our son's name): "Daddy, don't go!!!"

Itoshi Sae: "If you come with me, Mommy will be alone. While daddy can't come home, you have to protect mommy. Can you do it?"

*sniffle..*

Do the best you can, not the most. We're doing this after all longterm and indefinitely. It can be very demotivating to do great Acts of sacrifice and self denial in an attempt to change something quickly and then nothing keeps on happening. This burns out and not everyone can necessarily do the most effective thing or even a lot.

Many people only doing a little bit (even if it is just refusing time spent on youtube or youtube hours or spending that time through a more privacy secured frontend like newpipe) is way better and more likely to succeed than few people doing a lot (completely quit youtube, Google and other alphabet services).

Try to become less dependent of YouTube and not enforce change by yourself

This is a marathon and not a sprint

Again, a marathon. Not a sprint (I cannot emphasise that enough).

it's helpful to have more than one reason to quit youtube and be that other reason only to quit or manage one's own youtube addiction

Even with that additional reason, remember that everyone can fall off a high horse.

Don't feed the trolls. You don't have to justify why you’re doing a boycott to other people. You don't have to Humor the assumptions of you just being mad at youtube, even when it is somewhat the case with the ai age verification policy.

Don't play the Inquisition here. It’s not your job to police or manage how others do their boycott or to demand more of them (see point 1). You don't know what’s going on in their life after all.

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⟢ mills !! 22, she/her, mostly writing & fics, some visual au’s

⟢ who/what i write for: the pitt (robby & jack), animal kingdom (currently only pope) & sometimes MCU.

⟢ rules & guidelines: i don’t write; smut, assault, racism/prejudice of any kind, incest etc. i will write; age gap, implied smut, hurt/comfort, angst, fluff, cannon/non cannon, occasional au’s.

⟢ my requests are currently open !! you can find a fic prompts list & the rules: here.

⟢ note: please give me up to a week to complete requests. i’m on here daily & am always working to get some type of fic out, please be patient. <3

⟢ if you have any questions, requests, or concerns, feel free to reach out & message me !!

⟢ join my taglist here !!

⟢ current writing event !!: just fluff june !!

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⟢ masterlist:

you can find my works masterlist: here!! — i try to update it as frequently as possible !!

i look forward to interacting with all of you & putting more of my writing out for you to read !! :)

Some of y'all r a little waaayyyyy to comfortable asking for zanka/janka smut in my inbox like yes I can still reach out and tell you "no I won't write porn of a minor" but it's getting difficult and repetitive especially with the anons. ZERO hate to the ppl who actually reached out and told me they'd want a sfw zankaxreader fic and actually respected my boundaries but the amount of times I've had to delete janka AND zanka smut reqs is diabolical like guys please stop. Also don't say I'm infantilizing Zanka by saying bs like "oh he's jst ONE yr younger than jabber stop babying him." One year is STILL a year. He's still 17. I am not writing smut of him bro 🫩 jabber can get it but Zanka is off the goddamn table. (Srsly tho there's so many adult characters that you could ask me to write abt why does it have to be the minor?????)

Below will explain a lot about this blog, the Patreon, what fandoms we write for, some small changes, and so on! I encourage you to read, especially if you're new!

esta 𓏲 she/her — twenty three & multifandom. 𓂃 𓈒𓏸‪‪ 𓇼

an archive of longing. ❀ •.˚⋆ about me | byf | masterlist | ao3. ᯓ‎˚｡⋆ˎˊ˗ ────── this blog is both a diary and a library. please be kind and respectful.

my most recent works ⋆｡𖦹°‧

rootbound — read on ao3 ; [midoriya izuku x reader]

at your best (you are love) — read on ao3 ; [itadori yuji x reader]

pet me pretty (fuck me feral) — read on ao3 ; [shidou ryusei x reader]

the shape of us — read on ao3 ; [bakugou katsuki x reader]

a hymn in rope — read on ao3 ; [tamsy caines x reader]

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all rights reserved © wadigrove. i do not own the series i make fanfiction of. i do not accept translations and please do not repost my works on other sites. thank you!