if you ever wanna stealth yourself around transphobes, this is the best way okay. this is if you don't entirely pass or if people transvestigate you. this is more for people who still go by he or she alongside other pronouns, you don't have to be binary but at least lean one way or the other.
if you are a trans woman, you say you have pcos/endometriosis or a testosterone issue. say you had a really hard time growing up, because you have more testosterone than you should. you aren't exactly wrong by saying you have to high of levels of testosterone. they will usually back off
if you are a trans man, opposite issue. say you have low testosterone and high estrogen levels that led to your voice not really dropping and low development of facial hair and your height and whatever
people really pity cis people who have issues like this, i would know bc this is how i have stealthed my friends around transphobes. sometimes it's easier to be safer this way rather than trying to stand your ground. but this does work.
you can always lie, always always always about medical shit if it is to save your ass.
i am a trans man with pcos, had naturally high levels of testosterone prior to being on t. i give any trans woman or trans femme permission to use that as an excuse to stealth. love you all stay safe
