all the comments are cis women being like "i guess estrogen doesn't take the man out of you" and "she's complimenting you and you choose to put another woman down." and "why are trans women always putting down cis girls" so i NEED y'all to confirm/deny if i'm absolutely making stuff up or not
Is this (the cis girl's) compliment backhanded?
Backhanded (trans/intersex/etc.)
Backhanded (cis/perisex)
Just a compliment (trans/intersex/etc.)
Just a compliment (cis/perisex)
I have a hard time with passive-aggression and social cues, but I like polls.
EDIT: the "etc." is for all gender/sex-expansive individuals, since I think there's generally a shared "you're not a REAL (gender/sex) though" mentality pushed towards all of us. Sorry for the confusion lol. Also, I didn't expect this to get so big... I really just was confused because so many of the original replies were freaking out about misogyny. I got my confirmation pretty fast 😭

















