Confessions of an almost tempted Girlfriend
If you are weak, you lose the game.
Honestly, there were so many temptations. You just gotta be brave enough to refuse from them. Because if you are into something/someone that's really special to you, you will do what's best.
Using social media platforms, they are the best example. You can talk and meet anyone on it. Not realizing that you were only tested by Him, just to know how true you are.
Truly, I was the best example from this. Some guys just pop up notifying that they want to add and be friends "kuno". But not really the intention, they are up to something. Something that might break you and your current relationship.
At first, they will just gonna say "Hi, kumusta?" And then later on, "Pwede manguyab nimo?" From there, you'll ask yourself, "What are the odds?" Like how do they know that I needed someone to talk to nowadays? But still, all you wanted was just someone to talk with, NOT MORE THAN THAT. I admit, usahay nindot kaayo motubay. Labi na'g imohang partner, wala nay pake nimo. Kanang dili namo almost mastorya. Puro na lang mo selosan, puro na lang away. And of course you, tao ra ka. You wanted someone to comfort you. Pero ingon pa sila "ayaw'g kumpyansa anang mo-comfort nimo, kay may hidden agenda pud na sila". How true this statement is: tinuod jud kaayo siya.
To think nga sila imong gi-openan sa imong problema, of course they know how to play with you. They know what to do.
But in my case, I'd prefer not to talk with any other people aside from the ones I really know, I mean personally. I always ignore messages, especially when it comes from strangers. Bahala na'g na'g storyahan ko nila'g "arte, strikta, feeling gwapa", basta kay ako, allergic ko anang mga in-ana.
It happens nga mapul-an ka's ka-boring. Pero kung tarong ka, you know the difference between right and wrong, of course temptations will just be nothing to you. I mean, we all get tested. Faith and loyalty, are two of the most tested aspects in a relationship. And if you are not strong enough to fight against these temptations, then probably you will bite all the baits.
Luckily, I know what I want and who I love. I wanted us to be happy and stay in love. But as to you, you were weak. And so we ended up being apart.
Temptations, they can really break you I say.