#ghagiel

I woke up at like nine am briefly (I only went to sleep at seven) after having a weird dream. I wrote myself a memo so I could remember it later. Now I'm awake and I've read the memo. It reads:

Michael: ok so same deal

 1 million dollars a year

 but ur eyes have lips like a vagina

Me: lolol NO OK

Michael: so it like a vagina. but ur eyes are where the slit is

Me: NO

dat r so creepy michael

so creepy

Michael: from a distance it ust look like u have swollen eyes ok

Me: lolololol i like to do eyemake up ok

Michael: u still cud

 it mite even be more striking in some ways

 lololololol

Me: wait would it be like

da mound area be da eyelid

or like

da inner bits

Michael: no it be like a vagina on its side

 so but small

 so like da inner labia wud be like eyelid i guess

Me: yuh dat's wat i thought

so i couldn't do make up on dat

Michael: sure u cud

Me: it wouldn't stick even wiv a gud primer

Michael: lolol i love dat ur main concern

 about this hypothetical situation

why the living FUCK are you commenting on someone’s real life relationship on your shitty tumblr blog?

That’s what Tumblr is for?  I got upset knowing that a narcissistic woman in the world is potentially going to harm children.  It upsets me whenever I know that a narcissistic person has children under their care as I know from personal experience and studying it exactly how harmful it is.

So I expressed my feelings on a public blog that is made for expressing feelings.

especially if you’re going to tag them DIRECTLY INTO IT?

Because I knew it would really upset all his fans.  More importantly, I hope that by pointing it out (as I have seen other people point out what a terrible person his fiancée is) that people who feel uncomfortable by her will realize that it is okay to break free from a toxic relationship.

It’s hard. 

like could you be more of a trollish hate-mongering asshole?

I could post more often than I do.  But I have a pretty awesome life outside of Tumblr.  I know.  You and other people like you probably don’t believe that.  And that’s okay.

And you know why that’s okay?  Because there is no reason for me to care what you and other people like you think about me.

in what world do you think that is okay?

The one you currently live in where we have freedom of speech on a public blogging platform.

i would say you should be ashamed of yourself, but you’re clearly not familiar with the concept of shame.

I am.  Because I have a mother like Brit and know very well that children raised by such monsters become very familiar with shame.

ghagiel said: How do you feel about minorities that prefer to date within their own minority though?

This is not a sexual preference, though. That's a cultural restriction on dating, which happens in many cultures.

And "minority" is a very subjective term depending on location, I'm assuming you just meant non-Western/European? That would still be a cultural restriction based on something other than saying "these candidates for marriage/other relations are better/worse or sexually special due to x, y, and z because they're *this* ethnicity."

I’m not sure if it’s binarist, since ‘transsexual’ is more binarist than ‘transgender’, but I get the same feeling you do. Trans* is technically just a shortening of transgender… and yet.

i feel ridiculous being uncomfortable with the word because i KNOW trans* is a shortening of transgender, though i feel like to be more accurate trans is a shortening of transgender, and trans and trans* are different. trans* sort of became its own thing for me.

"transsexual" is just hells creepy to me and has the same gross clinical feeling as homosexual? and the sexual part feels unnecessary. it has nothing to do with sexual orientation and you're not "changing your sex." sex is a lot more than genitalia and innards and there's no clean-cut division, that just enforces the bullshit male/female sex binary.

maybe because trans* men tend to dominate online spaces for some reason? especially spaces like tumblr. so there are probably more submitted posts form trans* men?

there's actually never been any submitted posts here. i find everything on my own. i follow a few of you on my personal and then there's some people i don't but i follow enough queer blogs that there's usually a lot on my dashboard that suits being reblogged here.

but i feel like since trans* men dominate spaces due to our male privilege, other blogs can handle calling attention to trans*masculine issues while non-binary and trans*feminine issues may need a bit more boosting up to get the same attention.