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don’t shorten your words, i like your details.
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The intimacy of someone waiting for you the whole day just to have a small conversation with you.
Jason : Dick, I need your help.
Dick : Oh my god it's finally happening my little brother needs help!
Jason : Dick listen-
Dick : Alright so you know how to bury a body and make it disappear. You're good at cooking and stuff so no household help. You definetly don't need a pickup after drinking...... So what kind of emotional mess are We in?
Jason : First of all, rude!
Dick : You'd hang up on me after said "I need", I am nothing but polite here!
Jason : Well you're not wrong.
Dick : See?!? So, emotional mess?
Jason : Yeah OK listen, I did a Bruce.
Dick : You did a what now?
Jason : A Bruce. There's a kid sleeping on my couch and -
Dick: Oh my god. Are they an orphan?
Jason : Yes? No? I don't know.
Dick : Black hair, blue eyes?
Jason :..... Yes
Dick:..... Well,.... Are you gonna let them fight crime after they discovered your secret identity and/or force their way into your nightlife by being a sidekick you never asked for but can't get rid off any more?
Jason : OK Listen, he came like that!
Dick, whispering: Oh my god, you did a Bruce.
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if you feel like you're always getting talked over, or if you feel like you're always accidentally interrupting people, you should consider looking into some of the linguistics research about conversation style and turn-taking. lingthusiasm podcast has a great episode called "how to rebalance a lopsided conversation" that goes over some of this research in a really accessible way; Deborah Tannen's book You just don't understand is an early book¹ that's aimed at general audiences on the same topic.
the thing is, when there's conflict in how a conversation flows, often what's going on is a mismatch in norms or expectations -- not that one person is necessarily acting "wrong" and the other person is "right." the mismatches in norms/expectations can and do align with existing power structures in society, but being more aware of them can really help you as an individual trying to navigate them.
you can train your brain for more linguistic awareness! start listening for pauses, intakes of breath, or back-channeling that's meant to support, not interrupt. try it out!
¹ I am linking to the wikipedia page for the book rather than a link to buy the book because it's kind of outdated and the criticism section on the wiki page is pretty reasonable. If you do read this book, be prepared for uhhhh period-typical gender essentialism that, to my knowledge, Tannen has not particularly updated her views on in the intervening time. But it is an influential and important book, just read it skeptically imo
Sketchbook drawing. Skizzenbuch II. Heinrich Kley. 1910.
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