Hello essa handlerz! (and alzo my mutualz hi guyz love you thiz one iznt really meant for you though unlezz you guyz are essa handlerz??)
I'm conzidering getting an essa and I'd like tipz, um, herez a lizt of queztionz
what brand zhould i buy from? one that lookz nice and iznt too expenzive
anything I zhould know getting an essa?
what doez it mean to "train" an essa? Iz it juzt like roleplay or are you actually doing zomething? (hope thiz one doeznt zound rude...)
any tipz having them in public? ive heard zome zcary ztoriez and I want to avoid anything bad happening to them (I get really zcared about having my itemz taken or tampered with becauze zome kidz in my clazz would mezz with my itemz zometimez)
what zhould i know before trying to cuztomize them?
i tried pozting thiz on reddit but I chickened out... (I get zcared my reddit, im zcared people will be mean to me on there T.T)
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“Welcome, welcome!! I’m Aspen (🌲🌠), the host of the canis-constellation plural!”
[[[
ASPEN 🌲🌠
(PRONOUNS: They/them/theirs, it/its/it’s, he/him/his)
(AGE: MINOR, MENTALLY CLOSEST TO 16)
(VIVTERMS: CANINE, HUMANOID, BEAST.)
(AEGOSEXUAL, LOTUSROMANTIC) [aroace]
(TRANSMASCULINE GENDERFAUN XENOHOARDER.)
(CANINE ALTERHUMAN, GRIMWALKER/ WOLFDOG HOLOTHERE)
(AUDHD, APD [auditory processing disorder], MADD, TRICHOTILLOMANIA, TRICHORHIZOPHAGIA, MIGRANES)
(TITLES: They the creator, The first being, Emperexx of zenith)
(AUTOTHEIST, WRITERS PROJECT FAITH)
(DSSA HANDLER- ASTRUM AND MARLOWE. FAMILIAL SELFSHIP- HUNTER TOH)
(HOST OF A PARAGENIC, PROXY PLURAL.)
]]]
ᖽᐸᓰᘉᖶᖻᕵᘿS [kintypes]
theriotypes:
red fox
alexander archipeligo wolf
western coyote
sea wolf/ vancouver island wolf
magpie
kintypes:
SL-17 nebula
avian like being ?
fictotypes:
Hunter [TOH]
Scylla [EPIC] (hearttype)
Concepttypes:
Grimwalkers [TOH]
Tornados/supercell thunderstorms
'Mimics', Notdeer, 'looks but not is'.
placetypes/hearthomes:
Vermont
Cascade mountains
Vancouver island
Iceland
Coastal Oregon
holothere types:
f2, mid to high content, Mackenzie Valley Wolf/black sable, medium coat, working line German Shepard wolfdog
canid cryptid/lycanthrope
faelike being/changeling
grimwalker/wolf hybrid
Watcher [Evo smp]
ᖴᗩᐺᓍᖇᓰᖶᘿS [favorites]
Turn off the lights (Panic! At the disco), Odysseus (Epic), Running up that Hill (Loveless cover), Scylla (epic), Writing on the Wall (Will steton), All the Wolves are Gone (lespuls)
the owl house
Nox Winters, Izzy at the end of the World.
green <3
All seasons
Wolf walkers, Wild Robot, Castle in the Sky
Oh geeez; not again, panic at the disco, marina and the diamonds, cave town, EPIC, Rabbitology, Yaekolore, Loveless.
Spirit of the north, Zelda, Minecraft, Grow home, and STRAY.
ᖶᗩᘜ SᖻSᖶᘿᘻ [tag system]
#aspen yips: silly stuff
#aspen speaks (REAL): important
#aspen barks: alterhuman stuff
#aspen screeches: fandom/ hyperfixation
#aspen gekkers: neurodivergency and disorders
#aspen howls: creative
#aspen growls: vents
#its a QUEER!: lgbtqiaa2+ stuff (yes I type the WHOLE thing out. whatca gonna do about it champ?/ref)
#The Hunterverse : yapping about a Hunter Parascom. [ #[insert word or something] Au: AUs fll under this]
#the owl-ssey: my EPIC x TOH au
#oh titan there's twelve of them...: plural posts
#leaving the den: life updates/IRL posting
#pinned info: very important, stuff I’d like for every being to see!
#ace tag: tag for mutual @/aceywaceyy
#Tumblr relics : important Tumblr posts (EX: do you love the color of the sky)
#Aspen's Academia Hellscape : Schoolposting
#Aspen Lore Time: storytime/about me tag. basically stuff like "so this one time.." and "funny thing about me.." and so on.
#Letters drifting in the void: asks tag!!
#swallowed by moss: aesthetics tag!! I'm an aesthetic I call 'Sylvan Liminalism', basically "you fell through a rift in spacetime, and now you're in an endless coniferous forest with this lost woods theme playing faintly in the distance while the northern lights glow the same color as runes in the rocks." (also known commonly as gloomcore-Goblincore-lunarpunk hybrid)
#into the blender: ideas tag. basically "I need to incorporate this into a daydream". just for personal sorting :3
headmates will be tagged if they say something that is to be tagged to make sense.
ᕼᓍᗷᗷᓰᘿS [hobbies]
drawing
writing [in theory]
watching DIY videos
singing along to music
daydreaming to music
the occasional crafting
reading both original books and fanfic
reading wikis, going down internet rabbit holes.
kandi making!
Xenobiology
learning
ᑢᓍᘻᘻᑘᘉᓰᖶᓰᘿS [communities]:
The owl house fictionfolk!!
A community for Grimwalkers fans! (and Grimwalkers themselves?)
ᒪᓰᘉᖽᐸS [links]:
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvDB-vAxnNYMtPR4ljWPixQ?app=desktop (I don't post much)
AO3: https://archiveofourown.org/users/somethingintheaspens (very slow updater. expect it to take upwards of 5 months for updates.)
[this is my new account, so most of my boards are missing! Give me a while, it turns out that manual transfer of Pinterest boards is tedious :3]
(99% of my boards are unprivated. if you scroll around, you'll find about everything i'm even mildly interested in.)
Strawpage: https://somethingintheaspens.straw.page/ (its pretty simple, mainly the same stuff said here.)
{special interests in bold, hyperfixations in italics}
-Welcome to nightvale (hello listeners..)
-speculative biology (i'm fucking CRAZY about this holy crap)
-The Magnus Archives (Hello Jon. Apologies for the deceptio-)
-the owl house. (I’m Hunter)
-norse, icelandic, and scandinavian mythologies (its so cool..)
-vulture culture and oddities (✨bones✨)
-identities, labels, disorders, and etc
-Gravity falls (I be like dipper)
-Amphibia (frogs and polyamory)
-Nox Winters (BEST BOOK EVERTRT)
-wolfwalkers (favorite movie)
-LIFE series/Empires/Hermitcraft/EVO (blocky fuckers with lore.)
-FNAF (I look like Micheal 😭)
-Spirit of the North (gender in a game)
-stardew valley (ABIGAIL MY WIFE)
-STRAY (KITTY!!)
-Grow Home (Jack and the beanstarplant)
-Zelda (BLOND HE/HIM LESBIAN SAVES THE WORLD)
-HTTYD (Hiccup is #transtiongoals)
-Omori (CLOSE-)
-Wings of fire (dragons...)
-Avatar [the bender one] (I WILL DEFEND KORRA)
-Warrior cats (I've read the broken code but that's it)
-genshin Impact (I swear i'm not toxic i'm here from Razor and Sethos-)
-modded mc horror [TBS, no-moon.jar, etc...]
-ENA (polygonal enby)
-Go Go Go Loser Ranger!! (save me cocky little shit inhuman shape-shifter character save me...)
-Project Hail Mary (GRACE ROCK SAVE STARS *sobs*)
-Pokemon (Sun and moon is my fav series, fav Pokemon Is lycanrock)
-The Crane Wives (yes, before you ask, I am still stuck in the desert.)
-the Sea Beast (it's a metaphor for fascism! I yell as they drag me out the white room)
-bolt (my childhood movie)
-Moonrise [anime] (Minions! tonight, we steal, ZE MOON!!)
-Carmen sandiego 2018 (mmmm... girl in red...)
-the hycalon project (Fnaf / toh AU by wolfsnooze)
-Epic:the musical (IT'S A LITTLE BIT ✨DANGEROUS✨)
-cryptozoology, local legends and weird stuff (shapeshifters! ghosts! not-deer!! runalongs!!)
-Minecraft (building with blocks :3)
-Minecraft ARG/unreality [sfawtde {FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T TURN LEFT}, mmwidi, M4TCHB0X, SHiMCa, etc etc]
i am a casual observer of the Subnautica, Hollow knight, Voltron, Riordaverse fandoms as well.
SᓰᕲᘿᗷᒪᓍᘜS [sideblogs]:
@canis-constellation (plural)
@aspec-warriors (Aspec mafia)
@aspens-hoard (label hoarding/coining)
@yourlocalangstdealer (writing/ horror/vent. ran by Salem.)
@phantom-w0lfbane (Phantom's personal blog)
@rivers-wolvesandtides (River's personal blog)
@itcamefromtheearth (Conri's personal blog)
@grimghostinthemachine (Hycan's personal blog)
our backup account is a secret cause we said so. in the event we need to use it we will make a post about it on the backup!!
ᕲᘉᓰ,ᗷᒪᓍᘜ ᖇᑘᒪᘿS ᗩᘉᕲ ᗷᓍᑘᘉᕲᗩᖇᓰᘿS [DNI,Blog Rules and Boundaries]:
DNI:
anti queer, people who ship canon (insert sexuality) with (insert gender that the person is NOT attracted to) ei, a lesbian with a male, anti-furry, anti-alterhuman, anti-vulture culture, anti-quadrobics, 18+ or kink blogs, ableists, racists, saneists, pro/neut contact for paras, exclusionist, anti-endo/willo/any other origin, anti polymind, anti POSIC+, anti LIOM/MOGIA, The works. adults are on shaky ground.
PLEASE INTERACT:
Alterhumans (Therians, otherkin, otherkith, otherhearted, animal hearted,otherlink,copinglink, furrians[furry therians], holotheres, soul shards, phytanthropes, fictionfolk, and ANY OTHERS PLEASE ) furries, TOH or gf fans, artists and writers and cosplayers and musicians, freaks and weirdos, Kandi kids, vulture culturists, quadrobists, mogia and liom, systems, queer ppl, POSIC+, Dssa/Essa/ssa/ handlers, Spec Bio fans,and people with decency.
BOUNDARIES/INTERACTION INFO:
-do not call me anything feminine or "cutesy", or a human.
-I am sensitive to any and all criticisms, forms of rejection, and negative emotions; and often beat myself up over small things (Ex- saying something accidentally offensive, accidentally breaking a boundary or rule, etc). if I sense i've upset you in any way, I may ghost or block you. do not take it personally, I would rather not be reminded of my past mistakes.
-in this similar strand- DO NOT BRING UP DISCOURSE FOR ANY OF OUR FANDOMS!!! I know this sounds childish but WE DON'T WANT THAT SHIT!! if you do YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.
-I do not know everything; as hard as that is to admit. i'm autistic, and often miss cues in the moment; or get lost on topics easily. if I say something offensive, get a fact wrong, misunderstand something, or get confused about a subject, please let me know.
however, do not treat me in a way that could be considered infantilizing/ as if i'm dumb/ talk down to me. It makes me feel uncomfortable and alienated; as if I'm not getting an inside joke. I am a knowledgeable person, and I would appreciate being treated like an equal.
-I've got a very low 'social battery', and i'm not super good with being constant. I often struggle with relationship maintenance, and tend to "drop off the face of the earth". this does not mean I do not care, or that i'm ignoring you, I just don't have the energy to interact/ don't have anything to say.
-I struggle with intrusive and impulsive thoughts. if I do something, say something, or tell you something, then later delete, change or ask you to forget something, it didn't happen.
-i am ok with most pet names, but 'hottie', 'babe/baby', etc I am not ok with. 'sweetheart', 'pookie', 'darling', etc I am chill with.
-please call me/us by our chosen names/pronouns whenever possible. it is crazy euphoric.
-please affirm my identity. I struggle with imposter syndrome, and this would help a lot.
-please please PLEASE interact if sourcemates. I adore all sourcemates (minus belos) and doubles.
-we are source-positve and ARE your comfort character. please tell us your headcanons about us, ask questions about things you want to know, etc.
-This is a "Ship and let ship" blog. only exceptions are "insert orientation" with "a gender orientation is NOT attracted to" , Minor with not minor, [age] with [age more than 3-4 years apart] aroace with anyone, bully x victim (ie bochlow), abusive ships, or darkships. otherwise I can't give a rats ass what you ship.
-NO HATING/DISSING ON OTHERS SHIPS. ANY WILL BE BLOCKED. THIS INCULDES OC x CANON, OR SELF x CANON.
-any aggressive hating/ threats will be blocked.
-gatekeeping is not allowed. at all.
-support of KOSA, PROJECT 2025 and other things like this is not allowed.
-take your discourse and politics elsewhere. Our blog is our escape from stressors, and talking of those things.
-We are bodily and (for the most part) mentally a minor. please, please keep this in mind while interacting.
-I WILL SPAM LIKE AND REBLOG.
-I use tone tags on occasion.
-we struggle with an addiction to character.ai. despite of this, we are ANTI-AI. Ai art is not real art, chatgpt sucks ass, etc etc. If you don’t like it. block us, it’s ok! We want people to be comfortable following us. however, harassing us for it will get a block. <3
-we are not afraid of the block button and do not use it sparingly. if you're a hater, break our rules/guidelines, or just make us feel bad, hitting that red button.
-zoos, necros, pedos, and other harmful paraphiles are block on site. if you support/are these, *please* find help and leave this blog. this is not a space for you. i want to point out that I’m pro-recovery. I want you to get better. But I will block any and all zoophiles, pedophiles and necrophiles, regardless if you’re in recovery or not. not Sorry.
-our stances are: anti radqueer, anti harmful transid , pro choice, pro all plural origins, Pro polymind, anti sysmed , pro LIOM/MOGIA, 'misandry exists', anti KAM, anti ai [but for the recovery of +compassion towards those addicted!!], anti pro/neu contact, anti darkship/shotacon/lolicon but pro greyship, comship, lightship [we do not associate with the terms 'proshipper' or anything similar] we are also anti harrassment etc.
-we use lots of colored sections in our text. we have astigmatism and Dyslexia so separating our post with color helps us read the post better. it also allows us to break out thoughts into chunks.
Saw someone in public with the same ESSA as me!! Complimented them on it >:] more people should take their plushies out in public just so I can see them 👀
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hello!! I realized my blog intro is not very accessible. so for my friends with disabilities- a plain text, no image (as most images on our main intro are brightly colored) version of my intro. I also but things into categories to help with readability!! there are brackets though!! all under the cut!!
Titles: They the Creator, The First Being, Emperexx of Zenith
Beliefs: Autotheist, Writer's Project Faith
Other: ESSA Handler (Astrum), Familial Selfship with Hunter (TOH)
Host of a Paragenic, Proxy Plural
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Kintypes
Theriotypes
Red Fox
Alexander Archipelago Wolf
Western Coyote
Sea Wolf / Vancouver Island Wolf
Magpie
Kintypes
SL-17 Nebula
Avian-like Being?
Fictotypes
Hunter (TOH)
Scylla (EPIC) — Hearttype
Concepttypes
Grimwalkers (TOH)
Tornadoes / Supercell Thunderstorms
"Mimics"
Notdeer
"Looks but not is"
Placetypes / Hearthomes
Vermont
Cascade Mountains
Vancouver Island
Iceland
Coastal Oregon
Holothere Types
F2, Mid-to-High Content, Mackenzie Valley Wolf / Black Sable, Long Coat, Working-Line German Shepherd Wolfdog
Canid Cryptid / Lycanthrope
Faelike Being / Changeling
Grimwalker / Wolf Hybrid
Watcher (EVO SMP)
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Favorites
Songs
Turn Off the Lights (Panic! At The Disco)
Odysseus (EPIC)
Running Up That Hill (Loveless cover)
Scylla (EPIC)
Writing on the Wall (Will Stetson)
All the Wolves Are Gone (Lespuls)
Books
Nox Winters
Izzy at the End of the World
Shows
The Owl House
Color
Green <3
Seasons
All seasons
Movies
Wolfwalkers
The Wild Robot
Castle in the Sky
Project Hail Mary
Artists/Bands
Oh Geeez; Not Again
Panic! At The Disco
Marina and the Diamonds
Cavetown
EPIC
Rabbitology
Yaeklore
Loveless
Games
Spirit of the North
Zelda
Minecraft
Grow Home
STRAY
Tag System
#aspen yips- Silly stuff
#aspen speaks (REAL)- Important posts
#aspen barks- Alterhuman stuff
#aspen screeches- Fandoms and hyperfixations
#aspen gekkers- Neurodivergency and disorders
#aspen howls- Creative posts
#aspen growls- Vents
#its a QUEER!- LGBTQIAA2+ stuff (Yes, I type the WHOLE thing out. Whatcha gonna do about it, champ? /ref)
#The Hunterverse- Yapping about a Hunter parascom. Any tag formatted as: #[insert word] AU falls under this category.
#the owl-ssey- My EPIC x TOH AU
#oh titan there's twelve of them...- Plural posts
#leaving the den- Life updates / IRL posting
#pinned info- Very important information I'd like every being to see
#ace tag- Tag for mutual @aceywaceyy
#Tumblr relics- Important Tumblr posts Example: "Do you love the color of the sky?"
#Aspen's Academia Hellscape- Schoolposting
#Aspen Lore Time Storytime/about me tag.
Basically things like:
"So this one time..."
"Funny thing about me..."
#Letters drifting in the void- ask tag!!
#swallowed by moss I'm into an aesthetic I call Sylvan Liminalism, which is basically:
"You fell through a rift in spacetime and now you're in an endless coniferous forest, with Lost Woods music playing faintly in the distance while the northern lights glow the same color as runes in the rocks."
(Commonly described as a gloomcore, goblincore, and lunarpunk hybrid.)
#into the blender- Ideas tag. Basically:
"I need to incorporate this into a daydream." Mostly for personal sorting. :3
Headmates will be tagged when needed so posts make sense.
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Hobbies
Drawing
Writing (in theory)
Watching DIY videos
Singing along to music
Daydreaming to music
The occasional crafting
Reading both original books and fanfiction
Reading wikis and going down internet rabbit holes
Kandi making!
Xenobiology
Learning
Communities
The Owl House fictionfolk!!
A community for Grimwalkers fans! (and Grimwalkers themselves?)
I may not write them, but you can always ask me about them.
Kandipad
kandipad.com/profile/somethingintheaspens
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Follow Me? Follow Them!
@rampaging-angel
@deargoditsallperidot
@paranormal-paracosm
@extinctavialae
@aceywaceyy
Fandoms and Interests
Special interests are marked with bold. Hyperfixations are marked with italics.*
Welcome to Night Vale ("Hello, listeners...")
Speculative Biology (I'm fucking CRAZY about this holy crap.)
The Magnus Archives ("Hello Jon. Apologies for the deceptio—")
The Owl House (I'm Hunter.)
Norse, Icelandic, and Scandinavian mythologies (it's so cool...)
Vulture culture and oddities (✨bones✨)
Identities, labels, disorders, and etc.
Gravity Falls (I be like Dipper.)
Amphibia (frogs and polyamory)
Nox Winters (BEST BOOK EVERTRT)
Wolfwalkers (favorite movie)
LIFE Series / Empires / Hermitcraft / EVO (blocky fuckers with lore)
FNAF (I look like Michael 😭)
Spirit of the North (gender in a game)
Stardew Valley (ABIGAIL MY WIFE)
STRAY (KITTY!!)
Grow Home (Jack and the beanstarplant)
Zelda (BLOND HE/HIM LESBIAN SAVES THE WORLD)
HTTYD (Hiccup is #transitiongoals)
Omori (CLOSE—)
Wings of Fire (dragons...)
Avatar: The Last Airbender / The Legend of Korra ("I WILL DEFEND KORRA")
Warrior Cats (I've read The Broken Code, but that's it.)
Genshin Impact (I swear I'm not toxic. I'm here for Razor and Sethos.)
Modded Minecraft horror (TBS, no-moon.jar, etc.)
ENA (polygonal enby)
Go! Go! Loser Ranger! ("Save me, cocky little shit inhuman shape-shifter character, save me...")
Project Hail Mary (GRACE ROCK SAVE STARS sobs)
Pokémon (Sun and Moon is my favorite series. Favorite Pokémon is Lycanroc.)
The Crane Wives (yes, before you ask, I am still stuck in the desert.)
The Sea Beast ("It's a metaphor for fascism!" I yell as they drag me out of the white room.)
Bolt (my childhood movie)
Moonrise (anime) ("Minions! Tonight, we steal ZE MOON!!")
Carmen Sandiego (2018) (mmmm... girl in red...)
The Hycalon Project (FNAF / TOH AU by wolfsnooze)
EPIC: The Musical ("IT'S A LITTLE BIT ✨DANGEROUS✨")
Cryptozoology, local legends, and weird stuff (shapeshifters! ghosts! not-deer!! runalongs!!)
Minecraft (building with blocks :3)
Minecraft ARGs / unreality
SFAWTDE ("FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T TURN LEFT")
MMWIDI
M4TCHB0X
SHiMCa
and many more...
I am also a casual observer of the following fandoms:
Subnautica
Hollow Knight
Voltron
Riordanverse
sideblogs:
@canis-constellation (plural)
@aspec-warriors (Aspec mafia)
@aspens-hoard (label hoarding/coining)
@yourlocalangstdealer (writing/ horror/vent. ran by Salem.)
@rivers-wolvesandtides (River's personal blog)
@itcamefromtheearth (Conri's personal blog)
@phantom-w0lfbane (Phantom's personal blog.)
@grimghostinthemachine (Conri's personal blog)
our backup account is a secret cause we said so. in the event we need to use it we will make a post about it on the backup!!
[Image: Decorative divider]
DNI, Blog Rules, and Boundaries
DNI
Please do not interact if you are:
Anti-queer
Someone who ships canon LGBTQ+ characters with genders they are not canonically attracted to (for example, a lesbian character with a male character)
Anti-furry
Anti-alterhuman
Anti-vulture culture
Anti-quadrobics
An 18+ or kink blog
Ableist
Racist
Saneist
Pro-contact or neutral-contact for paras
Exclusionist
Anti-endo, anti-willo, or anti-any other origin
Anti-polymind
Anti-POSIC+
Anti-LIOM/MOGIA
MAGA
Adults are on shaky ground.
Please Interact
Furries
TOH fans
Gravity Falls fans
Artists
Writers
Cosplayers
Musicians
Freaks and weirdos
Kandi kids
Vulture culturists
Quadrobists
MOGIA and LIOM folks
Systems
Queer people
POSIC+
DSSA / ESSA / SSA handlers
Speculative biology fans
People with basic decency
Alterhumans of all kinds
BOUNDARIES/INTERACTION INFO:
-do not call me anything feminine or "cutesy", or a human.
-I am sensitive to any and all criticisms, forms of rejection, and negative emotions; and often beat myself up over small things (Ex- saying something accidentally offensive, accidentally breaking a boundary or rule, etc). if I sense i've upset you in any way, I may ghost or block you. do not take it personally, I would rather not be reminded of my past mistakes.
-in this similar strand- DO NOT BRING UP DISCOURSE FOR ANY OF OUR FANDOMS!!! I know this sounds childish but WE DON'T WANT THAT SHIT!! if you do YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.
-I do not know everything; as hard as that is to admit. i'm autistic, and often miss cues in the moment; or get lost on topics easily. if I say something offensive, get a fact wrong, misunderstand something, or get confused about a subject, please let me know.
however, do not treat me in a way that could be considered infantilizing/ as if i'm dumb/ talk down to me. It makes me feel uncomfortable and alienated; as if I'm not getting an inside joke. I am a knowledgeable person, and I would appreciate being treated like an equal.
-I've got a very low 'social battery', and i'm not super good with being constant. I often struggle with relationship maintenance, and tend to "drop off the face of the earth". this does not mean I do not care, or that i'm ignoring you, I just don't have the energy to interact/ don't have anything to say.
-I struggle with intrusive and impulsive thoughts. if I do something, say something, or tell you something, then later delete, change or ask you to forget something, it didn't happen.
-i am ok with most pet names, but 'hottie', 'babe/baby', etc I am not ok with. 'sweetheart', 'pookie', 'darling', etc I am chill with.
-please call me/us by our chosen names/pronouns whenever possible. it is crazy euphoric.
-please affirm my identity. I struggle with imposter syndrome, and this would help a lot.
-please please PLEASE interact if sourcemates. I adore all sourcemates (minus belos) and doubles.
-we are source-positve and ARE your comfort character. please tell us your headcanons about us, ask questions about things you want to know, etc.
-This is a "Ship and let ship" blog. only exceptions are "insert orientation" with "a gender orientation is NOT attracted to" , Minor with not minor, [age] with [age more than 3-4 years apart] aroace with anyone, bully x victim (ie bochlow), abusive ships, or darkships. otherwise I can't give a rats ass what you ship.
-NO HATING/DISSING ON OTHERS SHIPS. ANY WILL BE BLOCKED. THIS INCULDES OC x CANON, OR SELF x CANON.
-any aggressive hating/ threats will be blocked.
-gatekeeping is not allowed. at all.
-support of KOSA, PROJECT 2025 and other things like this is not allowed.
-take your discourse and politics elsewhere. Our blog is our escape from stressors, and talking of those things.
-We are bodily and (for the most part) mentally a minor. please, please keep this in mind while interacting.
-I WILL SPAM LIKE AND REBLOG.
-I use tone tags on occasion.
-we struggle with an addiction to character.ai. despite of this, we are ANTI-AI. Ai art is not real art, chatgpt sucks ass, etc etc. If you don’t like it. block us, it’s ok! We want people to be comfortable following us. however, harassing us for it will get a block. <3
-we are not afraid of the block button and do not use it sparingly. if you're a hater, break our rules/guidelines, or just make us feel bad, hitting that red button.
-zoos, necros, pedos, and other harmful paraphiles are block on site. if you support/are these, please find help and leave this blog. this is not a space for you. i want to point out that I’m pro-recovery. I want you to get better. But I will block any and all zoophiles, pedophiles and necrophiles, regardless if you’re in recovery or not. not Sorry.
-our stances are: anti radqueer, anti harmful transid , pro choice, pro all plural origins, Pro polymind, anti sysmed , pro LIOM/MOGIA, 'misandry exists', anti KAM, anti ai [but for the recovery of +compassion towards those addicted!!], anti pro/neu contact, anti darkship/shotacon/lolicon but pro greyship, comship, lightship [we do not associate with the terms 'proshipper' or anything similar] we are also anti harrassment etc.
-we use lots of colored sections in our text. we have astigmatism and Dyslexia so separating our post with color helps us read the post better. it also allows us to break out thoughts into chunks.
-if you know us IRL no you don’t.
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A cropped screenshot of a Pinterest comment section against a white background. The black text says, "personalize everything or die with nothing to your name." Beneath the comment are Pinterest interface elements showing "1mo," a "Reply" button, a heart icon with the number 4, and a three-dot menu.
A rectangular "userbox"-style graphic with a dark red background and black border. On the left is a cartoonisly drawn orange-yellow cartoon face with wide eyes, a annoyed grin, and a red anime-style anger symbol on its forehead. On the right, large black text reads:
"This user will not read your pinned post just to like a fucking post"
A cropped screenshot of a Pinterest comment section against a white background. The black text says, "Hmmm. this heterosexual ice cream is tasting different. Oh, it's a bit fruity!" Beside it, the username "thatoneg✣ygrimwalker" appears in bold black text.
A pride-themed userbox with a closet door illustration over the progress pride flag and the text: "This user is closeted."
