If you decide to get married, have you thought about what you'd do with your last name? Hyphenate? My last name is a bit long, very uncommon... and a bit difficult to pronounce, whereas my SO's last name is like your every Green, White, and Brown. I thought I would hyphenate... but then it might just be a bit ridiculously long.
Welcome, ladies, to another round of That Girly Stuff. This episode is titled, "Girl, what yo name is?" and is brought to you by the letters M and D and the number 4.Â
Name changing seems to be a bigger issue for ladies in medicine, for whatever reason. Personally, when/if I get married, Iâm changing my name. No hyphens. My last name isnât hard to pronounce or weird or anything, but Iâm a traditional girl and I want to take my husbandâs name. Simple as that.Â
But there are some issues to consider when it comes to name-changing.Â
1. Are you already an established doctor before you change your name? Some women choose to keep a âprofessional name,â just for simplicityâs sake. It can be very confusing for patients when their doctor changes her name.Â
2. Is your name difficult to pronounce? If I was formerly Dr. Szczepanski and was marrying a Smith, I would probably lean towards changing to Smith. But if I was a Jones and was marrying an Nzeogwu, I might stick with Jones, just for ease of pronunciation (especially if I lived in the South, cuz y'all know how we butcher names).Â
3. Is your husband a doctor too? Because no one wants to be called He-Dopke or She-Dopke (as we called two of my chemistry professors). That whole professional name thing might be helpful in this case.Â
4. Is your hyphenated name super complicated? If it's more than 2-3 syllables, folks aren't going to say it. Most people I know who hyphenated ended up being called one name or the other, even though they constantly corrected people.Â
Thoughts, ladies? What name are you going with?