#dysfunctionality

Featuring Serenity Style and {What Next} So I think I may have said this last year, but saving my little build of my winter/Christmas home was one of the best things I have done in Second Life. I think this is the 4th year that I have just been able to rez it all out on a platform and have an instant winter wonderland. I spent a good bit of time decorating it originally so it is filled with my…

Featuring LouChara and What Next I live in Alabama now but lived most of my life in Michigan so I know a thing or two about the snow. I had a love/hate relationship with snow and the winter season in general. I loved it for its beauty and hated it for how cold it was. I remember those mornings it was below freezing and I dreaded having to go out to scrape the ice off my car. I always thought of…

No, I chose forgiveness for me. I did it for me.

It is not in my nature to carry hatred with me. I am not that person anymore because I choose to be better. I choose to be free of that burden. I am a victim of childhood abuse, both physical and psychological. The triangulation to isolate sisters and gaslighting to the point of complete loss of self will not work anymore.

I say no and draw a line in the sand. No more.

The people who were supposed to love and protect me were my abusers. They don’t even fully understand what they did or why it was wrong. The semantics don't matter.