So lately i've been curious on ways i can connect more with Lady Lilith in worship & involving her into my everyday life. I see that you're a Lilithian, so i'm just curious on how you do these things!
here are some tips and offerings you can give to her , but first a tw : slight mentions of abuse , kidnapping , child murder , food , wine , sex , a painting involving nudity , and religious trauma . btw , the underlined part is a link !
1. you can start by reading about Lilith in judaism , although her origins go back to ancient Mesopotamia . deities and other guardians love when we read about their myths as long as we understand that they are not their myths ( like in Greek mythology ) since the myths were written by humans who mostly feared the deities . however , you can always choose to believe anything from the myths . personally , i believe that there is some truth in every myth , and i believe Lilith was not allowed to be in the Garden of Eden after she refused to submit to Adam because she wanted to be equal to him
2. unlearn the bad things you might have been taught about Lilith . she is thought to be evil and many people think that she likes to kidnap and murder babies , but that is not the case , in fact , she is very motherly and she can help women who are in abusive relationships . i can confirm this for you , as she made sure my angel babies are safe and she is keeping abusive people away from my life for as long as possible
3. offerings : chocolate or dark chocolate ( you can eat it in her honor , i promise itās not disrespectful ) , choosing yourself and stepping into your power , roses , the colors red and black , dark crystals ( such as obsidian , red jasper and / or ruby ) , apples , snake imagery , cinnamon , wine ( especially red dark wine but if you are not fond of that , you donāt have to give her a wine offering ) , figures of her for your altar ( if you cannot afford an altar , thatās okay , just remember that you are a living altar ) , self care / self love , sex magic ( same as the wine situation , if you are not comfortable with sex magic you obviously do not have to do that ) , shadow work , which is looking at the parts of yourself ( mind , emotions , behavior , etc ) that you avoid the most / are most ashamed of . while doing shadow work , you give those parts of you a space to speak . itās going to be painful sometimes because you will be noting down the parts of yourself that you tend to hide from the others , but remember Lilith will not force you to do shadow work if you donāt want to or if you need to stop it . you can vent and / or rant to her instead . also , a couple of personal offerings i gave to her are on my discord bio i added the black moon Lilith sign ( āø ) , which i think is more connected to astrology but she still appreciates it , the another offering is my pfp on my main tiktok being a painting of her by Dante Gabriel Rossetti :
4. Lilith is understanding , and she will give you space if you need time from your practice due to mental health reasons . if you struggle with religious trauma , she will reassure you that you donāt need to ask for her forgiveness . even if you donāt feel her presence , even if you donāt see her , she will be there for you . you can ask her for signs , and she will eventually deliver them ; for me , she makes sure to land readings with messages from her through tiktok on my fyp . the way she sends signs might be different for you , but she is not subtle when she wants to give you a message . she will also be honest and she will tell you the truth . you can talk to her about everyday things in your life to connect with her , and if you need , you can ask her for reassuring cuddles
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some people are just plain cruel. I was picking up plastic as an offering to Gaia/Mother Earth and someone told me that the wind had to pick it upā Iām sorry what? you know that the wind will only spread the plastic further and that not only it damages our planet but an animal could eat it, right? And someone else said that I did it for the food? for your information I didnāt want to eat here in the first place . They also laughed at me when I said I did it for gratitude to Mother Earth. Obviously I didnāt leave the plastic back in nature but I feel so bad for Gaia because I wanted to give her a wholesome offering and it has been ruined. I really hope she knows I did not want those motherfuckers to react like that
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I am sometimes just contemplating life and reminiscing about the way I diverge from some of my kintypes
like
1. Vel going āburn it like the witches who wore itā . maāam , Iām the witch
2. Lute being homophobic . I am one of the queerest people you will ever meet . not even my hair is straight in this life . ( plus I identify as Vaggie , which clashes with kinfirming Lute )
3. Blitz using the r-slur . I wouldnāt actually say that . /srs
the urge to shift realities as some of my kintypes because i want to make up for stuff that i caused back then and to avoid doing the same mistakes all over again
uh yeah so the TUA finale had me violently tearing up . not only was it an insult to survivors of childhood abuse ( I mean , really , there were better ways the writers could have gone with it ) , but unfortunately my kin memories align with it for the most part . it kinda feels ironical Idk . anyway , Iām missing the whole troop
( I donāt want to spoil much so hereās a side note that will make sense only for the people who watched the finale : I didnāt get to tell you , but if you are out there reading this , I genuinely forgive you , despite everything . you know who you are . also , I do hope this life treats yāall well , and it wasnāt your fault things ended the way they did </3 )