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This blog is specifically for STRAIGHT MALE CLIENTS!

So LISTEN UP! I'm only going over this once!

One benefit to using one escort versus several has to do with routine.

She knows what you like, how you like it, and can simultaneously stroke your ego while at the same time she's stroking your cock. Therefore, not only do you leave physically satisfied, but also with a little more confidence then when you arrived.

For 30- or 60-minutes, she may offer you royal treatment of your life, however, it's important you keep in mind, what's she's doing is what you pay her to do. It's nothing more than a business transaction.

Never assume she's providing you with any special favors when it comes to services she offers (A FAVOR is either a reduced price for the same services or not charging you at all. Yet, the only way she'd ever reduce her price or not charge you at all is if she were getting something else out of it). Don't believe she's being totally honest when she tells you, "You're my favorite client". You maybe a favorite, but no client is really a favorite considering she wouldn't do what she does with any of them if she weren't escorting.

It's important you understand the mindset of an escort.

Because, the more you understand and willing to accept, the less likely you'll get emotionally hurt.

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KEEP EVERYTHING IN PERSPECTIVE

If you keep things in perspective, you won't find yourself spending thousands of dollars and several years in therapy continuing your lifelong journey to figuring out why you're still single.

The primary reason any woman chooses to become an escort will ALWAYS have to do with money.

Just like YOU, escorts have monthly bills they can't ignore. Some need to put food on the table and a roof over their head as well as their children's heads if they have any. Should they have extra money to spend, an escort may splurge on several expensive luxury items.

This job is NEVER about romance or a means to one day finding true love. Therefore, don't expect the happy ending portrayed in the movie 'Pretty Woman'. IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!

It's not uncommon or unheard of for single lonely males to find themselves desiring more from an escort they've grown somewhat attached.

Let's just begin with this . . . YOU'RE INCORRECTLY INTERPRETING NICENESS AS SOMETHING MORE!!

Being single, awkward, and lonely for years, you may struggle to understand the difference between a woman being simply nice to you and one who actually wants jump your bones.

Attractive women know they have power. They can destroy a man's self-esteem and self-worth by showing him little respect, constantly belittling him, and by ignoring him all together.

However, attractive women can also builds up a man's confidence and make them feel important and powerful. Feelings a man may not have felt in years. Yet, that's just part of their performance. They want you to come back and spend money to see them again.

You may have this fantasy of rescuing her from the sex industry, with promises you'll do everything in your power to provide her with the life she deserves. You'll even go so far to reassure her that her past means nothing to you when it comes to body count. Then, you'll try to seal the deal with your next statement - letting her know you're more than ready to step-up and take on the fatherly role (If she happens to have kids).

However, as you're pouring out your heart to her, in actuality, it's more likely about you, hoping to fill the void in your own life. You may not realize it, but you're wanting to be seen as her knight in shining armor, taking her to your castle, making her your wife, and living happily-ever-after.

What you haven't thought about is :

What's she REALLY LIKE when she's not working?

What you know about her is based on her role as an escort. In your head you imagine her being the exact same way.

However, she'll also have things going on in her personal life which upset her, makes her very depressed, situations where she feels overwhelmed with issues you're not able to help her with no matter how hard you try, or lets her emotions get out of hand, and will physically attack you if you piss her off.

She maybe an addict.

Not something many escorts feel comfortable enough or proud to share. They might not be ready to quit because YOU want them to. Plus, will become highly irate if you start trying to guilt them using their kids as pawns (pending they even have custody of them). Are you going to OK with her doing heroine, meth, crack, or whatever she's into?

She could be a compulsive liar, manipulator, or just completely insane.

Women in general know how to manipulate men. Especially a low-confidence guy who expresses an interest in them. This is where they start to take advantage of your hospitality, asking for more money claiming it's something they have to get handled with their children (at least that's what they tell you), then reminding you what a great person you are. May even add a comment about how excited they are to begin a future with you once she gets a several things handled. Of course, that'll happen WHEN THE TIME'S RIGHT. The RIGHT TIME will coincide with the same time hell freezes over.

IT'S NOT HER FAULT IF YOUR HEART GETS BROKEN

Sadly, if you desire more from an escort - in terms of a relationship - she'll have to break your heart and remind you she's a provider and you're a client.

This tends to upset many men to the point they either never contact the escort again or become an unhinged stalker. While you may feel betrayed, it was your unrealistic expectations she was wife material in the first place. Therefore, get the white knight fantasy out of your head.

Again, KEEP EVERYTHING IN PERSPECTIVE!

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