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To summarize my experiences with Des Moines escorts, it's a mixed bag of friendly, top-notch performers blended with emotionally numb, lackluster providers.

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DA GOOD

GOOD escorts are - obviously - great in bed and willing to go the extra mile to fulfill your wildest fantasies. However, they also recognize that their bedroom performance is just one part of delivering a great overall experience.

Popular escorts with long client lists are successful because they know how to connect with their clients. They're experts on building rapport as soon as their client walks into their hotel/motel room or as soon as they enter the client's house.

One motto I strongly believe in, "You take care of me and I'll take care of you."

Your overall sexual experience will be so much better over time as the two of you establish trust and build a stronger escort/client relationship.

As the client, you MUST ALWAYS fulfill everything you promise to do. Whether that means simply paying the agreed-upon fee without trying to negotiate for a smaller rate, providing the provider with extra when you said you would, or not pushing them into something that makes them uncomfortable per their request.

The more comfortable you and the escort become, the more interesting and fun your encounters will be.

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DA BAD

The BAD try to conduct their business like an assembly line.

It's never about making connections or building clientele. Their primary focus is getting paid for doing less than the bare minimum.

They'll appear miserable, try to rush you to blow your load, then act inconvenienced if you take too long.

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DA SCAMMERS

Finally, there are the SCAMMERS.

The selfish, narcissistic, waste of human space, who seek their fortune at the expense of naive horny men lookin' to cash in on the girl of their dreams, only to realize they just paid for an expensive hand job they'll have to provide to themselves.

Scammers cast a long, dark shadow over the entire sex industry, negatively impacting both providers and clients. In addition to losing their money, clients are left to deal with a cascade of anger and disappointment, which further damages a client's ego.

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IDENTIFYING RED FLAGS OF AN ESCORT SCAMMER

Every industry has its share of bad apples.

Those who are rotten to the core are definitely the fraudsters. They look to swindle gullible, horny, sex-crazed men for significant amounts of money over the internet with a false promise the woman of their dreams is available and ready to fulfill every fantasy they have.

There are a few red flags you should be aware of when dealing with shady escorts looking to get paid and then bail before you know what happened.

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RED FLAG 1: THEY WANT TO GO TO THEIR CAR TO GET OR CHECK ON SOMETHING

I fell to this scam three times.

The first one needed to 'go check on something real quickly' and be right back. The second claimed she really needed something that would enhance our time together. I asked if she planned to take off. She said no, and couldn't believe other escorts would do that. Well, she did it.

The third one was a huge kick in the balls. It was an escort whose services I'd used several times. Plus, we had a good business/client relationship where I'd occasionally helped her out when she needed a few dollars for gas, food, or to pay her phone bill.

She called the next day to apologize for bailing on me. She asked if I wanted to see her. I told her I was up for that. She then said she'd give me a discount. I declined the offer. I told her I paid for the service already. I told her to MAKE IT RIGHT and come over and provide the service I had already paid for. She started begging me to accept a discount. I didn't budge. Unfortunately, our business/client relationship came to an end.

Just goes to show you, even the escorts you think appreciate you for being a consistent source of income may, for whatever reason, take your money and provide no honey.

When an escort says they want to go to their car AFTER you've given them their payment, ask them to leave their phone, purse, or both behind. If they have an issue with that, or try to play the "don't you trust me" card, just know as soon as she gets to her car, she's looking to peel out of your driveway.

A few ways to respond to an escort who refuses to leave their purse or phone behind . . .

1. Ask for your money back

If she grabs her purse and phone, she's planning bail on you.

When confronting her, she'll pretend to be confused and offended by your request. Acting shocked and asking why you don't trust her.

If it's the first time you're meeting with an escort, make it clear you don't know them well enough to assume they won't leave. Also, mention you're aware of this scam. She may ask if you think she's that type of girl. Again, reintegrate, you don't know her, and trust will need to be built over time.

At this point, just suggest she forget about whatever's in her car and tell her to remember to bring it next time.

However, if she still wants to go to her car, carrying her phone and purse, ask her to refund your money. Get her to do it in front of you. Don't EVER believe she'll refund your money when she's in her car driving away. She'll PROMISE but the only guarantee you'll have is that you're going to get screwed, and not in the way you'd hoped.

2. Don't get anything from your car

Let her know, since it's your first time together, not to worry about whatever she wants to go get.

If she's still adamant about going to her car, let her know you'll accompany her. She'll attempt to make you feel guilty for not trusting her and accuse you of being judgmental, creepy, or making her feel uncomfortable. Again, if they're unwilling to leave their purse or phone behind, they're looking to bail.

3. Fake purse and bank card

One escort brought a decoy purse and a fake card with her. After conducting the transaction, she told me she needed to go to her car. I immediately said I would accompany her. She then did the usual, "Why don't you trust me?" routine.

To show me how serious she was about not leaving, she left her purse and her bankcard behind (so I thought). Since she left her purse with me, I was fine with her going to her car. However, after a few minutes, I texted her and got no response. I checked out the purse she left behind. The only thing in it was an old gift card. Plus, the purse was old and dirty. It looked like something a toddler might get as a birthday or Christmas gift.

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RED FLAG 2: SEND A DEPOSIT OR GIFT CARD

This is an old scam, but still used by fraudsters posing as a escort.

The fake escort will agree to meet with you AFTER you send them a deposit. They will claim they "get a lot of no-shows". Therefore, if you decide not to meet for some reason, they still get a little something. In most cases, they'll ask you to send them half of their hourly payment and tell you to pay the rest once you connect in person.

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PLEASE NOTE:

NO LEGITIMATE PROVIDER WILL REQUEST A DEPOSIT OR GIFT CARD BEFORE MEETING YOU !!

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When a deposit is requested, one of two things will happen once you send it:

1. You'll be ghosted

It won't take long to realize you were scammed.

The person who was responding to your texts in lightning-fast time will suddenly go silent.

Now, it might've been a small amount you lost, like $50 - $100. However, if the scammers' lucky enough to trick multiple sex-starved males into sending small deposits of cash, it'll add up to a huge payoff.

2. Once the deposits made, please send money for ...

You send the deposit and think you're good to go. Well, hold on!

Next, you're asked to send more cash to, let's say, reserve the room (which makes no sense since you're meeting them at the hotel where they're already supposedly checked in). If you do it, they'll then ask for another pay for something else. They'll keep doing this until you wise up.

Real escorts only charge one fee to meet with them. Not several fees for various reasons.

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RED FLAG 3: I NEED TO GET GOING HOWEVER I'LL BE BACK

This happened with a veteran escort who also lived close to where I reside.

She came over and got undressed. Talked 90 mph. I couldn't tell if she was on anything. She claimed she needed to get going soon because she had a room waiting for her in another town where she would be conducting business.

The only thing she did was play with my cock a little bit. I could tell she was in a rush. I explained I cannot be rushed, otherwise I can't perform. She understood and suggested we get together (free of charge, of course) in a couple of days for some fun, non-rushed bedroom fun.

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KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN AND REMEMBER THE RED FLAGS

These are a few red flags to be aware of when you're with an escort who may be acting and appearing shady upon meeting you.

Unfortunately, there's not much you can do to get your money back, which wouldn't be considered illegal. Despite taking your money and providing you no service, it's not worth your time to pursue them and attempt to get a refund or the service you were promised.

Just as the title says, "I went black, then had her back."

I've had the pleasure of hosting this gorgeous 30-year-old escort at my place on several occasions.

Kia is an easy-going and lively escort who comes with a lot of high energy and charisma, which perfectly complements her stunning and sexy figure.

Upon meeting her, you'll be captivated by her sweet smile, adorable laugh, and quick wit.

She generally arrives on time and has never cheated me on time or agreed upon services.

If I had the finances, I'd definitely have her overnight.

In addition to her dynamic rapport-building skills, this ebony goddess provides clients with a 5-star bedroom performance and stays the entire half hour or hour (two timeframes Kia offers), never cheating the customer out of time spent with her.

When Kia arrives, it's not uncommon for male neighbors to do a double-take as soon as she exits her vehicle. Of course, their lustful stares have a lot to do with the tight-fitting, stylish clothes, which show off her gorgeous physique.

I always spend an hour with Kia, with the first 20 to 30 minutes, indulging in my favorite fetish, pleasuring her sweet spot. Kia not only smells good, but also tastes fantastic! As I've mentioned in other posts, nothing turns me on more than listening to a woman reach her ultimate climax.

While not a big fan of kissing, Kia very occasionally gives me the honor of kissing her soft, thick lips (no tongue). If you decide to meet with her and find out what the Kia Epic Bedroom Experience is all about, don't be offended if she doesn't kiss you on the mouth. She's very picky about whom she locks lips.

She's in her 50s, and I thought I'd give her a shot.

It was a boring Friday night, and I was feeling horny. I decided to go with a 56-year-old escort based on her posted pictures. It appeared she kept herself in shape and had some great curves as well.

She looked great for a woman in her 50s so I thought I'd see what she was all about.

When she arrived, she did look good. The pictures did match the person who arrived. I was excited to see how well this would go. I mean, I thought she might be able to show me a few things.

She lives in Des Moines; however, that night, she was on her way to Dubuque for the weekend (where she gets a hotel room and services other clients).

She had me lie down on my bed and gave me a terrible hand job while constantly reminding me she was on a tight schedule.

I asked if we were going to do anything else because what she was doing wasn't enjoyable, and her constant rambling only made everything worse. She wasn't even trying to get me aroused.

She apologized and said she'd pass by my place on Sunday before she went home. Of course, she didn't. I thought maybe since she was much more mature than most escorts, she would show up and fulfill her obligation. I contacted her a few times on Sunday evening, but she just ghosted me.

Before she left my place on Friday night, she kept saying, "I'll be back on Sunday to give you a good time." Along with a number of comments about how she hates to hear about other escorts who don't fulfill their obligation.

I don't know why she decided to come over that Friday night if she felt rushed to get to Dubuque.

This blog is specifically for STRAIGHT MALE CLIENTS!

So LISTEN UP! I'm only going over this once!

One benefit to using one escort versus several has to do with routine.

She knows what you like, how you like it, and can simultaneously stroke your ego while at the same time she's stroking your cock. Therefore, not only do you leave physically satisfied, but also with a little more confidence then when you arrived.

For 30- or 60-minutes, she may offer you royal treatment of your life, however, it's important you keep in mind, what's she's doing is what you pay her to do. It's nothing more than a business transaction.

Never assume she's providing you with any special favors when it comes to services she offers (A FAVOR is either a reduced price for the same services or not charging you at all. Yet, the only way she'd ever reduce her price or not charge you at all is if she were getting something else out of it). Don't believe she's being totally honest when she tells you, "You're my favorite client". You maybe a favorite, but no client is really a favorite considering she wouldn't do what she does with any of them if she weren't escorting.

It's important you understand the mindset of an escort.

Because, the more you understand and willing to accept, the less likely you'll get emotionally hurt.

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KEEP EVERYTHING IN PERSPECTIVE

If you keep things in perspective, you won't find yourself spending thousands of dollars and several years in therapy continuing your lifelong journey to figuring out why you're still single.

The primary reason any woman chooses to become an escort will ALWAYS have to do with money.

Just like YOU, escorts have monthly bills they can't ignore. Some need to put food on the table and a roof over their head as well as their children's heads if they have any. Should they have extra money to spend, an escort may splurge on several expensive luxury items.

This job is NEVER about romance or a means to one day finding true love. Therefore, don't expect the happy ending portrayed in the movie 'Pretty Woman'. IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!

It's not uncommon or unheard of for single lonely males to find themselves desiring more from an escort they've grown somewhat attached.

Let's just begin with this . . . YOU'RE INCORRECTLY INTERPRETING NICENESS AS SOMETHING MORE!!

Being single, awkward, and lonely for years, you may struggle to understand the difference between a woman being simply nice to you and one who actually wants jump your bones.

Attractive women know they have power. They can destroy a man's self-esteem and self-worth by showing him little respect, constantly belittling him, and by ignoring him all together.

However, attractive women can also builds up a man's confidence and make them feel important and powerful. Feelings a man may not have felt in years. Yet, that's just part of their performance. They want you to come back and spend money to see them again.

You may have this fantasy of rescuing her from the sex industry, with promises you'll do everything in your power to provide her with the life she deserves. You'll even go so far to reassure her that her past means nothing to you when it comes to body count. Then, you'll try to seal the deal with your next statement - letting her know you're more than ready to step-up and take on the fatherly role (If she happens to have kids).

However, as you're pouring out your heart to her, in actuality, it's more likely about you, hoping to fill the void in your own life. You may not realize it, but you're wanting to be seen as her knight in shining armor, taking her to your castle, making her your wife, and living happily-ever-after.

What you haven't thought about is :

What's she REALLY LIKE when she's not working?

What you know about her is based on her role as an escort. In your head you imagine her being the exact same way.

However, she'll also have things going on in her personal life which upset her, makes her very depressed, situations where she feels overwhelmed with issues you're not able to help her with no matter how hard you try, or lets her emotions get out of hand, and will physically attack you if you piss her off.

She maybe an addict.

Not something many escorts feel comfortable enough or proud to share. They might not be ready to quit because YOU want them to. Plus, will become highly irate if you start trying to guilt them using their kids as pawns (pending they even have custody of them). Are you going to OK with her doing heroine, meth, crack, or whatever she's into?

She could be a compulsive liar, manipulator, or just completely insane.

Women in general know how to manipulate men. Especially a low-confidence guy who expresses an interest in them. This is where they start to take advantage of your hospitality, asking for more money claiming it's something they have to get handled with their children (at least that's what they tell you), then reminding you what a great person you are. May even add a comment about how excited they are to begin a future with you once she gets a several things handled. Of course, that'll happen WHEN THE TIME'S RIGHT. The RIGHT TIME will coincide with the same time hell freezes over.

IT'S NOT HER FAULT IF YOUR HEART GETS BROKEN

Sadly, if you desire more from an escort - in terms of a relationship - she'll have to break your heart and remind you she's a provider and you're a client.

This tends to upset many men to the point they either never contact the escort again or become an unhinged stalker. While you may feel betrayed, it was your unrealistic expectations she was wife material in the first place. Therefore, get the white knight fantasy out of your head.

Again, KEEP EVERYTHING IN PERSPECTIVE!

According to her bio, she was a poor 30-year-old college student from Chicago who had recently moved to Iowa. She claimed to need money to help pay for her standard monthly bills and finance her education.

To no surprise, several people (all male) were quick to step up and take action to ensure this gorgeous, Ebony future entrepreneur completed her education. Because, you know, a mind is a terrible thing to waste. Right?

Unfortunately, that entire story was bogus!

The more I met up with Crystal, the more I realized how manipulative and entitled she was. Character traits that led me to completely cut ties with her.

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HER STORY WAS A SHAM

Crystal looked young enough to pull off 30.

I say young enough because after a few sessions with her, she revealed to me she was actually 41 years old.

She wasn't escorting to get herself through college. She was doing it to pay her monthly living expenses and - most importantly - support her meth habit.

Then she dropped another bombshell, informing me she had EIGHT CHILDREN! No step-children. All eight birthed by her! Each one either living with immediate family members or their biological father's family.

Remarkably, for a woman who nearly birthed an entire baseball team, Crystal's body was in fantastic shape! You'd never think she'd ever been pregnant. Nor did she look anywhere near 41.

Crystal credited her figure and youthful appearance to good genetics.

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PSYCHO, ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND

When Crystal and I started meeting up, she was dealing with an ego-driven, controlling, abusive boyfriend who constantly blew up her phone.

Out of fear, she'd answer it while we were in the middle of a session.

He'd demand to know her exact location, who she was with, and threatened to give her a potential ass beating if he ever found out she was escorting.

He'd also checked in with Crystal to see if she made any money selling the illegal drugs he'd given her. I only know this because he was always extremely loud on the phone, which allowed me to hear everything.

Initially, I assumed Crystal's boyfriend was in his 40s or 50s. However, he was actually 26 years old!!

Now remember, Crystal was 41 and her boyfriend was 26. Yet, her boyfriend had complete control over her.

Whenever I met with Crystal, the first thing I wanted to know was if her boyfriend was anywhere near Des Moines. According to Crystal, he was either in Dubuque, Iowa City, or other locations that were an hour or longer away from Des Moines.

Regardless, I never felt comfortable doing an incall with her. I always did outcall.

I'm confident that if her boyfriend had known she was escorting, he'd likely have made a surprise visit to Des Moines. With my luck, he would've come on a night when Crystal was at my place. Then, considering how bat-shit crazy he was, go to great lengths to figure out where I lived, then come pay me a visit by shattering my the front door and busting a cap in my ass.

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A SQUIRTER WITH ODD SENSITIVITY ISSUES

Crystal was a squirter!

Similar to other escorts who were also squirters, I'd spent the majority of our hour-long sessions just eating her out and taking in her delicious juices.

The one odd thing about Crystal was how supposedly sensitive she was to being touched.

When I sucked on her breasts, she'd request I go easy on them as they were sensitive. Once, when I tried to massage her back, she immediately stopped me because it was too hard on her. Yet, I barely squeezed the muscles on both sides of her neck. Even when I kissed her stomach, she'd flinch and say, "Careful now".

I could never tell if she had a legit condition or if she was just messing with me. When I asked her why she was so sensitive to touch, Crystal shrugged her shoulders and said she didn't know.

If Crystal was extremely sensitive to touch, as she led on, not sure why she'd choose to be a sex worker where she gets fondled by different men during each session.

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DO IT RIGHT!

Just before the summer of 2024 was officially underway, I invited Crystal over to my place.

As usual, I immediately began to eat her out. This time, Crystal wasn't squirting at all. After 20 minutes of making no progress, she started yelling at me to "Do it right!".

I started to wonder who the f*@k she was talking to. I'm the paying client! I was performing the same act on her that I'd already done several times before that night. Therefore, the reasons behind why she wasn't climaxing could've been a result of many other things.

As the paying client, there was no reason for Crystal to get upset over not climaxing. Her job in that moment was to just lie there and let me continue to lick her sweet spot, hopefully leading to an orgasm.

Even if I was unsuccessful in making her squirt, there'd be another opportunity through intercourse. Unfortunately, she'd go on to ruin that opportunity for both of us.

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WAKE THE F^@K UP!

After failing to help Crystal climax, I asked her to lie on her back as I wanted to have sex with her missionary style.

Crystal, however, rolled onto her left side, facing away from me, then requested I give her a few minutes. I just laid down next to her, waiting for her to tell me when she was ready.

Following 5 minutes of complete silence, I sat up and realized Crystal was asleep. I gently shook her shoulder to wake her up. I told her she had dozed off. Then, for whatever unexplainable reason, Crystal got offended when told she had temporarily had fallen asleep. She raised her voice to me - AGAIN - as if I were one of her eight kids, yelling, "No, I'm not!"

Then, no joke, she rolled back on her left side, with her back to me, and dozed off again. I gently woke her up a second time, only for Crystal to snap at me, that she hadn't been falling asleep.

When Crystal dozed off a third time, I got up with the intention to gently position her on her back. She woke up as I got out of bed.

She demanded I lie on my left side, get behind her, and do her from the back. I declined, telling her I don't want to do it that way. Crystal then said we've had sex in that position before, which we hadn't.

I didn't know if she was high or confusing me for another client of hers. Regardless, at that point, the only thing I was sure of was that I was done with her.

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JUST ORDER YOUR UBER AND LEAVE!

At that point, I'd finally had it with Crystal.

As I got dressed, I went on a long rant, explaining how frustrated I was with the level of disrespect she was showing me, especially as a paying client who used her services often.

Plus, I reminded her how generous I'd been when I sent her a few dollars to pay a bill or when she needed to get something to eat.

I tried to help her understand how my preference should've been honored, as I was only looking to have sex in the missionary position. A simple request that wasn't beyond what she was willing to do based on her online profile and conversations we'd had.

I went downstairs to my kitchen, where I did some work on my laptop

Minutes later, Crystal came down and apologized. She offered to refund me half the money I'd paid her. I told her to forget it and to order herself an Uber and leave.

That was the last time we'd meet.

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HER DAYS MAY BE NUMBERED

I have no idea if Crystal's still in Des Moines, residing somewhere else in Iowa, or if she's moved on to another state.

Sadly, Crystal's just another lost soul who doesn't take accountability for the poor life choices she makes; instead, she prefers to lash out at the world as if some dark and evil entity were responsible for the mess she's in.

It was a few minutes after midnight. Even with the trillions of entertaining websites to browse, I was craving some face-to-face human interaction. Preferably with an attractive woman willing to come to my place, hang out for a while, and engage in some full-contact bedroom activities.

I went online to check out the latest profiles on the website SkipTheGames.com. I didn't have to scroll much as one profile immediately grabbed my attention.

A ravishing 20-year-old woman who went by the name 'Dutchess'.

She arrived shortly before 2 a.m. and - thankfully - looked just as hot in person as the pictures she posted on her account. Dutchess was short with an athletic build, along with a sweet, gorgeous profile.

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SIDENOTE:

There'll be times when the escort posts pictures of themselves, which are either from years ago or someone else.

True story, a while back, I reached out to a young white woman with a killer figure. However, when she arrived, she had somehow transformed into a PREGNANT BLACK GIRL in her 20s.

She was attractive and, overall, fun to be with as she wasn't extremely pregnant. When I asked about the pictures she posted, she said it was for her safety.

Now, it's easy to understand why an escort would post pictures that may not look exactly like them. Yet, to completely deceive someone in this industry is not smart. Doing so could get an escort hurt or maybe something worse. Some escorts tend to forget people want what they pay for, not a substitution.

A few escorts shared with me that the primary reason sex workers don't post their actual pictures had to do with being stalked by either a former client who wanted more than the occasional sexual encounter or an extremely jealous and violent ex-husband / -boyfriend.

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SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND

As we were chatting, Dutchess mentioned her boyfriend dropped her off.

Confused, I asked why her boyfriend would be OK with her working as an escort. Not many men worldwide would support their girlfriends/wives giving themselves to other men.

According to Dutchess, escorting was his idea.

The more Dutchess spoke about him, I got the impression he was also her abusive pimp. She mentioned being hit a few times. Then told me once the hour was up, she had 5 minutes to get dressed and be in the car. Otherwise, he may break down my door and come looking for her.

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NOT ENOUGH BANG FOR THE BUCK

Dutchess was only willing to give oral and vaginal sex as long as I wore a condom.

Which totally pissed me off!

I understood her concerns regarding pregnancy and STDs. That wasn't the issue. The issue was the lack of services Dutchess offered for the amount she was charging.

An hour of her time ran $500. A rate that SHOULD'VE included more than two services. In fact, more-seasoned escorts offer more services for $200 or $300 an hour. Therefore, her boyfriend was using his woman to screw people (not in a good way) out of money.

According to Dutchess, she and her man supposedly split the profits.

Fortunately, I was able to convinced her to allow me to at least give her oral. Dutchess was very clean and a major squirter. For the majority of the hour, I just licked her sweet spot and enjoyed some of her tangy juices that overflowed.

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LET'S GET THIS OVER WITH

I spent most of our time together basically pleasing her.

That was because Dutchess was attempting to rush the session so she could leave and go meet her next client. Plus, I assume it also had to do with the so-called boyfriend's demands.

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SIDENOTE:

It's not uncommon to choose an escort who agrees to an hour-long session then attempts to leave in 15 minutes or less.

For men like me, we schedule 60-minute sessions because there are times when it may take a bit for us to raise our flag poles. Escorts who attempt to rush men, like myself, to quickly blow their load, don't understand the more we're rushed, the more difficult it is to get harder.

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AVOIDING AN ASS-BEATING

Once we reached 60 minutes, Dutchess got dressed and asked I not to mention anything to her boyfriend about eating her out. Very odd request considering I had never met him, nor was I interested in meeting him.

Apparently, if he was made aware of it, that would qualify Dutchess to receive a major ass beating.

I asked if she wanted help getting away from her boyfriend. She declined. She said physical violence was just how they dealt with certain things, justifying it by saying she hits him too.

I tried to explain how unhealthy and toxic that type of life was, and if she doesn't leave him, she's likely going to end up in a hospital or worse.

She's a pleaser with a passion for serving others.

Before becoming a highly sought-after sex worker, Kat was a hospital nurse. Due to insane working hours and being constantly on her feet, the job began to take its toll on her body and mental health.

Therefore, Kat decided to give escorting a try, which allows her to make her own schedule, spend less time on her feet, and still put smiles on the faces of the men she's served.

Kat has become somewhat of a minor staple in and around the Des Moines Metro area.

Unlike most escorts, Kat has been in the industry for several years and has successfully built up an impressive list of regular clients.

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CURVES IN ALL THE RIGHT PLACES

Kat falls into the Big Beautiful Women (BBW) category.

She has nice curves, an attractive profile, and the ability to connect with anyone. Kat will make you feel at ease before your pants are off and your flag pole begins to rise.

She offers 3 services:

Standard Blow and Go. If you just need a release, she's the one to call. Just lie back on the bed and let her work her magic (aka talented tongue) on your throbbing cock. If you ask her nicely, she'll even let you film it for free, A nice souvenir you can watch anytime you're alone so you can handle your own release.

30-minute full service. If you want more than a great BJ, and you have no difficulties getting aroused and blowing your load somewhat quickly, Kat will deliver.

60-minute full service. Finally, if you have an hour to spare and want the company of a fun, attractive, and talented woman who's willing to go where no wife has gone before (within reason), Kat will ensure, once the hour is up, you'll feel completely drained and leave with a satisfied smile.

DON'T PUSH HER BOUNDARIES

While Kat loves serving people and fulfilling fantasies, she does have certain boundaries she doesn't cross, even for extra money.

I once saw the hostile side of Kat after I kept asking to do something specific, which she was uncomfortable with. She made it very clear my request was denied and it would be best that I drop it. Which I did.

In my biased opinion, she was the full package. I'd schedule time with her even when I knew it'd overdraw my bank account. With her, I was the ultimate sinner in an epic battle against the 'lust of the flesh', and getting completely annihilated.

She goes by the name Chloe.

When she and I got together, Chloe was always freshly showered, had a stunning profile, and one fine-ass, gorgeous, 26-year-old body. A beautiful frame with smooth curves, firm tits, and a nice round bubble-shaped ass. Plus, an outgoing, cute personality to go with it.

Again, in my opinion, she was a gorgeous bombshell!

As I've mentioned in previous posts, my primary fetish is giving women oral. Chloe always tasted good and, from what I remember, reached climax two or three times during each of our sessions. Upon climaxing, she'd asked me to stop and give her a few minutes to recover and catch her breath as her vagina pulsated from each orgasmic release.

After several meet-ups, it almost seemed like I was paying her for permission to pleasure her. I always took my time within the hour timeframe. Then, with only minutes remaining for the session, I'd be extremely aroused enough to put myself inside her then bust a nut all over her firm stomach.

I miss those days! ____________________________________________________________

NO RESPECT FOR CLIENT'S TIME

Chloe has a bad habit of either being extremely late or a no-show.

Despite how much I enjoyed being with Chloe, I stopped using her services for over a year due to multiple broken promises to meet up.

She'd text me specific times she planned to arrive at my place, only to let me down. To make matters worse, she'd then ghost me for two hours or longer. When she did finally respond, she'd just give me a different time when she'd come over, only to be a no-show!!

Despite how much I enjoyed being with Chloe, I eventually cut ties with her. She had asked me for a $200 advance, PROMISING to make it up to me later in the evening (can you guess what happened?).

At the time, I thought we were good enough friends to make requests and honor our agreements. I never do cash advances, nor anything on a gift card, as it's common knowledge those are tricks scammers use to steal from innocent people. Sadly, I fell for it because I trusted Chloe.

We'd been more than the standard client / sex-worker business relationship. When I say more, I DON'T mean romantic or dating. We were NOT a couple. I would NOT date an escort. Chloe and I had hung out briefly from time to time and became friends. Yet, I learned even the nicest people may stab you in the back and take advantage of your hospitality if you're not careful.

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FROM DROP DEAD GORGEOUS TO HARDLY RECOGNIZED DRUG ADDICT

After a year of no contact with Chloe I decided to give her a call.

I really missed her. I'd hoped she might've learned the importance of respecting her clients' time. Because it sucks staying home waiting on someone who never arrives knowing there were other things you could've done.

Plus, if escorting was going to be her main source of income, she couldn't afford to piss off people who preferred her services.

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ON A SIDENOTE:

Chloe and other sex workers complain about clients canceling and ghosting them.

Yet, when escorts arrive late or not at all, upsetting a valuable client or potential new customer, escorts hysterically get offended. In their minds, every excuse they provide is justification for their actions and poor choices. Many escorts believe their clients should just be 'understanding' and 'compassionate'.

Can you sense the irony?

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When I got ahold of Chloe, she told me she'd moved.

Upon getting her new address, I let her know I was on my way and provided the approximate time she could expect to see me.

Yet, once arrived, I waited in my car, parked along the street, for over 30 MINUTES. No idea what the hell was taking so long. Especially since SHE KNEW I'd arrive when I said I would. When I asked why it took her so long to come out, she told me she was packing a few things and had to do her hair.

Didn't take long to realize Chloe hadn't learned a damn thing in over a year. She was still clueless.

Right away, I noticed there was something different about her.

Chloe's face was extremely broke out. While she still managed to maintain her figure, something was off about it. It appeared she wasn't taking care of herself or managing her hygiene.

As I drove us back to my place, she took out some tin foil, placed some heroin on it, and began ingesting it. It made sense why she wasn't looking like her former healthy and attractive self.

Upon getting back to my place, we fought over her lack of respect for my time and the $200 I gave her, for which I got nothing in return. To no surprise, Chloe didn't care. According to her, since the whole thing happened so long ago, she wasn't obligated to honor her end of the deal, and I needed to get over it.

Chloe ended up taking a shower and then just left my house on foot. No idea where she went and haven't spoken to her since.

I hope she hits rock bottom and seeks the help she desperately needs. My biggest fear is her facing a fatal outcome before getting help. ____________________________________________________________

Sadly, many sex workers are resorting to meth, cocaine, heroin, and a variety of other addictive and deadly drugs.

This benevolent Caribbean jewel came to Des Moines ready to entertain midwestern clients with special skills she's acquired while growing up in Colombia.

She offered a 30-minute thrill ride or an entire hour of unforgettable pleasure. Jennifer showed me why American men desire and pursue her attention.

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For those who prefer escorts to come to them, Jennifer was worth the drive.

Upon my arrival, Jennifer greeted me wearing a tight black dress, just low enough to hide the fact she was wearing a thong.

The dress perfectly showed off her gorgeous figure, and the perfume she wore just added to her appeal.

She greeted me with a warm smile and a friendly hug. Jennifer isn't well-versed in the English language. She uses a translation app on her phone to communicate with clients.

Once business was handled, Jennifer got undressed and we began with some light kissing, which gradually turned into intense French kissing.

It wasn't long before I made my way down her petite body, arriving at her money-maker, where I gave her oral.

At first, Jennifer came off a little shy, but once she got aroused, she'll let you know! She even demonstrated her flexibility when I pushed her legs over her head. I asked if that was OK, and she said it was fine (at least I think that was what she said as she nodded and said something in Spanish).

Jennifer takes good care of her body and keeps her vagina nice and clean.

Following a few minutes of licking her sweet spot, Jennifer took the initiative to switch it up by giving me a great blowjob.

Normally, it takes me a long time to blow my load when getting a blowjob. Not sure if it has to do with age or some other reason. Normally blowjobs just don't do it for me. HOWEVER! Jennifer's oral skills are beyond awesome! I had to stop her because I was getting close to cumming and I didn't want to miss out on having sex with her.

WAIT! I'M NOT DONE!

I prefer the missionary position. I love making eye contact as I thrust myself inside whoever I'm having sex.

It didn't take long after inserting myself inside her before I was cumming. As I was cumming, Jennifer wasn't done. She told me not to move. She finished and got hers too.

It was one of the hottest experiences I've had with any escort I've been with before Jennifer. For me, it's much more enjoyable when the escort reaches climax too.