#dear men

Uhm, stranger on the internet, you do not get to tell me how **my owner** wants my body modified. He wants big, milky tits on **his cow**. So do his cakes. It's another visible reminder that they're superior to me, because they aren't just dumb livestock. Not every cuckquean dynamic is the same. Keep your damn mouth shut about how other men's property should serve. Maybe this is why you're so single and lonely you have to harass women on the internet.

This message applies to any other men thinking to speak to me. Respect that fact that I am owned and following instructions of my longer term dynamic. Anything less will get you blocked. If you can't show basic respect, simply don't speak to me. I use the block button enthusiastically.

and then those guys go on to shame other men and call them gay for those things alas keeping the patriarchy up and running

guys. men. boys. please. do not be afraid to do "girl" things. its not bad its not weak its not gay its not weird its just living your life. wear whatever you want, sit how you want, like whatever "girl" hobbies you wanna like !!

As a woman, I can’t tell you what a man should or shouldn’t do but as a sister, I can say that you shouldn’t invest and commit to a woman that isn’t worthy of that time and energy.

I have two brothers. I hate it when I see them spend money, emotions, and time on a gal that is only going to backstab them in the near future. Men seem so much more heartfelt and honest when it comes to love but good hearted men get taken advantage of unless they are careful.

So I know it’s not Movember but hear me out.

Some background: After talking to one of my guy best friends and my fiancé (in TWO SEPARATE conversations!) they both individually brought up how isolated they feel since they can’t hang out with their friends. So I suggested picking up the phone and calling them instead. Their immediate reaponse was, “No way, that’d be too weird. I totally would love to but that’s just not how guy friendships work these days.” You all are craving friendships and intimacy but you’re too afraid of the push-back if you do. You know what I said back? “That will never change if you don’t help.” Quarantine is the perfect time since everyone is isolated and needing friendships and community now more than ever. Plus any changes we make now can continue into normal times.

The challenge: pick up the phone and call at least 1 guy friend this week. Take this time to catch up, tell him how you’ve been dealing with quarantine and ask the same, make sure he’s doing okay, etc. Maybe even make plans to call each other the week after. You get the idea. Guys have got to stick together for one another. Tag me in your post or reblog and put the hashtag #BroCall