#datingfails

Hi everyone. I just wanna share something real and maybe serve this as a little warning. Please, for your own peace, don't date musicians from the underground scene. Why? Because most of them are absolute trash.

I know some of you might say, “Alaaa baru sorang kau kenal, dah kecoh.” Babe… it’s not just one. I’ve known many. And out of all of them, maybe only 5% are genuinely kind and decent the rest? Ego-driven, emotionally unavailable man-babies who think they’re the next Kurt Cobain.

Here’s my rundown and yeah, all three just so happen to be drummers. (Like, wtf is my luck?)

The first one? We were seeing each other for almost three months. Everything felt like it was moving into a serious phase until I found out he’s actually someone’s husband. Yep. Married. While entertaining me like he’s single and ready to commit. You know how crushed I was? I tried so hard to carry myself with dignity, to avoid being “the other woman,” but in the end I was, unknowingly because of him. I cut him off and disappeared from his life completely.

The second guy? He was soft, kind… but honestly, not the brightest. There was something lacking mentally and emotionally. I knew his attention was shallow. But stupid me still got attached, hoping maybe something genuine would grow. It didn’t. I had to let that one go too.

And the last one? Oh, this one really cracked me. At first, he came across sincere confessed he liked me, said he wanted to know me more. We met, vibes were good. It felt promising. Then slowly, the mask slipped. He started love bombing me showering with compliments, sweet messages, acting like I was something special. But then he told me he wanted our “thing” to be secret. Like, hello? Suddenly I’m supposed to play his invisible girlfriend normal and distant during gigs, but exclusive and "his" in private? Nah. That was the moment I snapped. I saw it for what it was manipulation, ego, and cowardice. I walked away.

Now I'm sitting here wondering… why do these people keep finding me? Is it because I like fame? No. Maybe I like attention yeah, I’ll admit that. But this? This is not the kind of attention I signed up for.

And honestly, it just makes me feel sick not just at them, but at our whole so-called “scene.” The hypocrisy, the pretentiousness, the fake deepness, the god-complex attitudes.

I loved this scene once. I believed in the music, the art, the people. But these experiences? They’ve tainted everything. And now all I see are egos with instruments, not real hearts with passion.

Broken Dishwashers, Dating Fails & The Race Against Time!

Paisley is getting creative, while Piper won’t stop chatting—what will they be like as teenagers?! (That’s coming way too soon.) 😬

Meanwhile, my dishwasher broke, but luckily, I scavenged some parts from the trash pile to fix it. Also found a big painting in storage… should I sell it for a sofa?! 🛋️💰 Decisions, decisions…

Dating is not going well. 😩

Blind date? Female. No new baby.

Blue-haired dude at the park? Not interested. 💔

Me? Feeling like I need to hurry before I can’t make babies anymore.

But wait—met a country guy. 🤠 Maybe this is the one?! Time for a date, because this baby train cannot slow down. 🚼🔥

You planned the perfect response. Maybe even rehearsed it in your head a few times. And then… K. That’s it. Just one single letter that crushes all your hopes and dreams. 😭

😂 First Date Fails We Can ALL Relate To! 😂

Not every first date is a fairytale… sometimes, it’s a total disaster! Here are some classic fails that we’ve all either experienced or feared:

❌ The “Accidental Overshare” – You meant to keep it light, but now they know about your childhood pet’s tragic demise… 😬

🍝 The Messy Meal Mishap – Why did you think spaghetti was a good idea? Now you’re dodging sauce splatters like it’s a sport!

😂 The Awkward Goodbye – Is it a hug? A handshake? A wave? Oh no, you just did all three… at once.

🚩 The Red Flag Realization – They “don’t believe in texting” but are on their phone the entire time. Byeee! 👋

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