#daian rant

SUPER JUNIOR IS IN HAWAII!

Now that my excitement is over, I'm gonna say this. Waiting for your KPOP idol outside their hotel for multiple days is creepy.

That's it. Plain & simple.

Think of it this way, if you do this to a normal person, you go to jail. Why do people feel entitled to stalking because they are idols & famous? NO. That's not how it works.

One guy told me they were asking for fans to stalk them because they posted pics on twitter. Where is your logic? That just sounds like the people saying "she was asking to be raped because of her outfit"***

A lot of fans refuse to see how creepy that is, but it is. I'm not saying I'm better than the fans who do it, I give kudos to you for dedicating time to get that picture of his back. BUT to the Hawaii fans, they came to HI for vacation. They probably wanted not to be noticed & here you are drawing attention. They can't even function in their own hometown without fans bothering them. I'm sure they love you all & appreciate it. Fans are fans no matter how creepy. As a fan, though, you should realise they like space too.

[rape & stalking are both serious, if you give me shit about this, just no]

Ok, I saw some dumb shit on FB yesterday & today it escalated to some other worldly shit. Here it is everyone:

Now that you have seen the dumb ass shit, let me say why I was so annoyed & pissed with it.

On my FB I have repeatedly said that I do not accept  the N word & don't stand for it. This case in particular got on my nerves because he did it for $20. Apparently he thinks this is a game & it's ok. Let me say this to all of you who don't know: this shit ain't a game.

Another thing that got me to comment a third time [in case you didn't realise, I'm Dianne Maríe] was that he said he was going to get stabbed. WTH? Nobody was thinking about stabbing your ass until you said some ignorant ass shit like that. Stop it, just shut the hell up.

Then 10 hours later after I forgot about this shit, his girlfriend comes in trying to tell me it's a joke. NO. I had to get real with this chick.

It's not like Hawaii is in the middle of nowhere, but apparently we don't exist on the globe of KPOP or most Korean performances in general.

I know other countries & states don't have the pleasure of seeing their KPOP idols either, but let me explain why I'm kinda bummed. BAP had their tour recently [idk if it's still going on, but the buzz has died down] & the name of the tour was Live on Earth Pacific. At first we assumed they were going to stay in Asia BUT they said they were coming to the US. Since we are the only state in the Pacific Ocean all of us 808 Babies thought "yes! they're gonna come!" They didn't even have to do a concert, a fan signing would've been adequate. Hey I'm not asking for much.

Then we heard they were flying right over us to LA. I'm not gonna lie, I cried. I was so close to seeing them it hurt & "boom kanani, bye bitch we in LA."

Why am I bringing this up? Because Infinite had their livefeed of the Hangout on YouTube & 808 was not called to stand up.

They did release a statement:

List of the world tour: Seoul, Tokyo, Fukuoka, Hiroshima, Kobe, Bangkok, Singapore, Taeipei, Kuala Lumpur, Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Los Angeles, New York, Lima, London, Paris, etc... Please wait for the list to me fully confirmed.

Like why? WAE? I don't care about the fact that you should be preparing for the arrival of the baby & you should be working out a co-parenting relationship with said baby daddy before adding another male into the equation. Not my business. Especially since a lot of them seem to have their ish together.

My thing is when do you stop? Are we gonna have "In College & Dating" with college kids balancing school work, finals a job, & a few blind dates? "Police Force & Dating" where we have cops who leave the beat to try to beat traffic to be at their date on time? "Divorced & Dating," "Athletic & Dating," "A Seniour & Dating," where does it end?

I watched the EXO comeback with every other KPOP fan & EXOtic in the world. I was totally happy & excited. They did great & everyone looked hot.

But after talking to my girl I got kinda sad. A lot of EXOtics forget how much work this group is going to have to do afterwards. Like I said in "Stop Leaking Shit," most fans don't know how much work they have to do to get what they have, which isn't very much compared to what most have seen with stars.

I hate to be a downer, but EXOtics are going to be THE most needy fandom out there since they waited so long for this comeback. People were complaining about the time it got released, they were leaking photos, videos, & albums. EXOtics are pretty fckin' vicious.

EXO [now that they are combined] will be doing twice as much work in the same amount of time.They are going to do promos, dance stages, commercials, dance video tutorials, new music videos, & teasers in 4+ languages in 4+ countries in the next 6 months. I know they signed a contract for this [& please don't get me started on SM & contracts, that's another rant] but do you guys think leaking stuff made it better? If you do, go in a corner & think about what you've said. Just go.

You maybe saying "Daian what does this one fandom have to do with the rest of KPOP?" Well I am so tired of fandoms trying to tell artists what to do with their career & complaining about what videos & songs the artist does release. It's nice to suggest. I understand. If you have something legit to say about a video, I got you boo. There is a fckin' difference between suggesting & not liking something & just being a stuck-up, complaining *sasaeng.

I want you to know that KPOP & the way it's set up is designed to make you want more. They tell you about debuts & inundate you with interviews & photoshoots. Then you get a teaser & more photos. Then you wait & wait for the video to debut. By the time you see the video you've got hopes & dreams & you've made your own video. Of course you will be disappointed. It's not your video & you probably feel you utilised everyone's skills better & your concept was better & blah blah blah. Nah fck outta here.

Please sasaengs, realise your idols have ideas & feelings, that go through record labels who also have ideas & feelings, that go through this group & need this approval. These people have plans. Now while I don't agree with the way SM is going to handle EXO, part of this stems from the  fans. Please accept what your idols do for you, they do it for very little & they do indeed do it for you. I really don't wanna hear too much crap from the EXOtics. Y'all are too much. The boys did a good job. Oolf trees & all. 

GHETTO KAI ♥