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I became snarky because I realised that I was discussing with someone who had no idea of the basics of why one is anti-kink to begin with and how you asked me for sources on something you originally posted about. Like it or not, males created pornography AND the formed the kink sphere itself.

Be nuanced about eating whip cream off your partner or whatever, IDGAF. But don't pretend that these ideas exist in a vaccum and weren't influenced by males.

you are a strange and inflammatory individual who has not actually addressed what i was talking about in any meaningful way. you took my corrections to your misunderstandings and request for a source on your hyperbolic claims to be some sign that i'm actually in denial about the link between porn and kink.

there COULD have been proper conversation on the link between these two, there was plenty of room for that discussion. my point was "i don't think the concept of kink (in the sense of unusual sex is inherently harmful, but i'm disgusted by the abusers who use the label". i'd be glad to hear from someone with a differing view on why they think that maybe the concept can no longer be claimed in good conscious because of its harmful connections... provided that person was informed and knew how to engage with others.

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