#composite asks

Composite Venus conjunct Composite Ascendant

Two people come off to others as friendly, charming, sociable, and generally the kind of couple who has similar tastes and interests. Since the Composite Ascendant is the relationships "face" as it were, others perceive the union as an amorous but agreeable partnership. A relationship where two people generally like each other and complete each other well. This aspect can also indicate the "handsome" couple. The couple that looks "good" together in matters of things very much about the senses, i.e: Clothing, money, aesthetics, grooming/style. The couple that comes off as compatible on a superficial [Venus] level. Very easy cooperation. The couple will exemplify Venus and act her out in the day to day. The blending of the desires will be seamless and there won't be a lot of trouble with this aspect alone. A lot of love here and perhaps a financial pay off, too as Venus is ruler of the 2nd house. Good placement for two people who want to invest together. Great placement for the literal "law of attraction". The couple that will be physically comfortable with eachother AKA the PDA types. Hand holding, kissing, hugging, etc.

Now throwing Pluto in the mix might will change things...

Composite Venus/ascendant square Composite Pluto can be dealt with. It will just make the sexual fascination hard to ignore. Two people will be very turned on by eachother. The problem is, with a square it'll exacerbate the issues in the relationship and bring the hidden and buried issues to the surface where what is, on a surface level a picture perfect relationship, might manifest with a closer look as a toxic one. Especially if Pluto is heavy in the charts of the natives and afflicted or two people are just underdeveloped in general. The drama is biblical. There is a push-pull aspect here. Make up, break up. Hot and cold. Power struggles. Why? Because you're dealing with the 2nd house 8th house axis. Classic Venus Pluto. Taurean and Plutonic themes. In this particular case you've got another difficult pairing, Venus and Saturn in hard aspect compatibility wise.

Someone always wants the power but as this is composite and analysis of the relationship itself, no one fully has the upper hand. It goes back and forth. Typically. However, if one person is more plutonic, they will usually be the aggressor while "Venus is the victim". This will be the couple that loves eachother one moment then has a blow up at a dinner party with all the friends because Paul took too long of a glance at Nancy behind Olivia's back. VERY passionate about each other. These people will remain attracted to eachother for the long term. Why? Because of the psychological intensity. You two can't get eachother off your minds. Lots of manipulation with the square. Perhaps even sabotage. Lets say these people go on a break, if one sees the other too happy with someone else, they'll find a way to shut it down. Sliding into the DMs. Intimidation of the new lover. Future Hendrix-esque messages about how they'll never find anyone who loves them as much as they do. The Toxicity *System of a down voice*, smh lol. There's a spell two people are under with this aspect. It will be very hard to let go but often two people might need some space and need to lead separate lives because of the pressure-cooker vibes this aspect creates.

"I can't live with you but God forbid I live without you. [I'll friggin die]"

Two people are obsessed with eachother and since Pluto is also aspecting the rising of the Composite, others will observe this about the couple. Think Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big from Sex and the City. It looks glamorous, glittery, and it's clear there's a deep attraction here, but behind the scenes there's betrayal, affairs, the inability to leave eachother alone. Power struggles. And oh! The Drrrrraaammmmaaaaaa. So much drama. You secretly love it though because that's Venus/Pluto [and throw in the Martian 1st house]. You don't feel alive if the relationship doesn't have a dash of Broadway with Garnish of a daytime soap.

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My partner and I have our synastry and composite with a bunch of social cluster houses (ex: sun overlays in 10th, venus in 9th/11th). Many say it won’t last since these only beneficial for work or friendship and we’ll fall out soon. But I’d like to know your views on this ((our composite has like a 10th house stellium)) 😞

Hello, love

9th, 10th, and 11th house overlays aren't hard indicators of falling out with someone relationship-wise. Why? 

Because the 9th house is the house of beliefs, spirituality, higher learning, and travel [etc]. Venus here in synastry can be an indicator of two people sharing the same belief system, going to the same colleges, or just the feeling of general acceptance of one another. Jupiter/Sag rules this house and Jupiter is all about benevolence and forgiveness. Two people will typically give each other the benefit of the doubt, especially the house person towards Venus.

Venus in the 11th is typically an indicator of someone two people who meet in a friendship group/circle. The nature of your closeness has "peers" involved. You could have become friends before you graduated to lovers. I believe that some of the best couples are friends before they become romantic interests.

Sun in the 10th is usually an indicator of two people who come together in the professional sphere. That's where the Center/Purpose [Sun] lives. Career and reputation are involved somehow. Again these are not doom-and-gloom placements

As for potential long-term, You'll want to see some Saturn here. I don't know If you two have any significant Saturn involved in Synastry or composite but it's important for him to be around and forming harmonious aspects for something to have true longevity.

Squares to the north node or Venus especially from Uranus will usually be more of an indicator of breakups or the love being for a "season". A lot of plutonic energy in synastry can make romance incredibly intense but more karmic than anything. The relationship is meant to teach you something. If Neptune is involved there can be a strong spiritual and creative link but if forming challenging aspects [squares, oppositions, etc], this can indicate not only fleeting romances but deception/cop-dependency/unfaithfulness.

Here are a few resources that might be helpful to you: Composite 101

HEY!! 🖤💖🦇🖤💖🦇 Sorry this has been sitting here for so long ;; 🖤💖🦇🖤💖🦇 I don’t usually talk about composite charts? But I do have a few asks about them so I’m.. probably gonna try to talk about them more possibly.

I’d say these placements can point to possibly uplifting each other up, and learning about each other’s specific circumstances/experience, opening up to each other and learning from one other’s opinion (respecting them) rather than just sympathizing and feeling emotionally compelled can be helpful. I think the Mars, Jupiter and Saturn in 10th can talk about your influence (your relationship together so both of you) on other people around you. The things you give off to others, and that’s mostly your strength, conviction and ability to emphasize/sympathize and support others (outside your relationship) up as well. You may become the source of dependence for other people, looking towards your relationship as something they may idealize/aspire to have (Pisces). 

Yeah.. I think that’s all I have for now? I think all your personal placements in 9H Pisces could point to helping each other out with opportunities (from far away/less close distance) that would be good for each other. And to encourage good-will with each other as well, in pursuing paths that could make a social impact/personal impact on you guys individually too. 

Hi again, how are you? I’m glad you’re active again. Been waiting for you. I have a quick question, Do you know anything about composite chart? If you do, what does it mean to have your Composite south node in 7th house? Thank you💕

Hey there!! 🖤💖🦇🖤💖🦇 thank you so much aaaa!! 🖤💖🦇 welcome back to u too?? 🖤💖🦇 I usually don’t get asked alot about composite chart so I don’t? really know if I can answer. Especially if you’re looking for more of an explanation/interpretation about karmic influence/past lives etc.? 

That’s really cool!!! 💕💕💕💕 Synastry usually overlays two chart together-- kinda like squishing two person’s chart to see how ‘compatible’ they are. Composite is more about the mid-points between the two people (1 chart total) --- this is an over simplification but there’s fun stuff to learn in both💕 

If you want to start with just one chart to look at maybe try composite chart, if you’re looking to get some juicy overlays in synastry are fun too!  💕💕