like people do it with women too theyll see a girl who is slightly unconventional and start going off about how they Love Ugly Women and the features they talk about as Pinnacle Of Ugly Girls is like. body hair or big noses or teeth or being fat and shit like that that is literally just normal human features. and i KNOW its coming from a good place of like, body positivity and pushing back against conventional beauty standards but idk. drawing so much attention to how you think someone youre attracted to is Ugly And Wrong makes it feel more like youre saying, "yeah, there are some things that are beautiful and some that arent, and im such a body positive counterculture freak for finding you Uglies attractive" like damn its just a unibrow what makes you act like this.
its like that whole "embrace being ugly" thing again like maybe we just need to stop assigning arbitrary good or bad values to body parts regardless of what you personally like
