#commitment problems

I’m always planning to write long, multi-chapter stories on AO3, but I’ve never finished any of them! :( 

I start off so optimistic and excited about writing and then I never finish anything except drabbles and short works with two chapters or less. :( 

One of my goals for while I’m staying at home during COVID is to go back and finish, or at least keep writing, some of the projects I never finished. 

I’m putting this on the internet to give me a little extra motivation. :) 

I will work on: 

Half of a Whole (Inception, the Avengers, Agents of SHIELD)

We Take the Engine And We Control the World (Inception, Snowpiercer) 

A Not-Quite Mid-Life Crisis (Inception, Torchwood) 

Together We’re Invincible (Good Omens) 

Anthony J. Crowley, Private Investigator (Good Omens)

A McGonagall series ?? (Harry Potter) 

If it feels like your boyfriend has been drifting away, creating distance, seeing you infrequently and making lame excuses why he is too busy to spend time with you as much as he used to, you may be tempted to dream up new and creative ways to draw him back towards you. Of course this is your prerogative, but it’s a bad idea. Never try to reignite his desire by doing anything at all that can be perceived as “chasing”. If a man has become distant and aloof, do not engage in any of the following “chasing behaviors”: Calling himTexting him“Accidentally” bumping into himAsking his friends what he is up toInviting him over for any purposeEmailing him interesting articlesDropping into his home or place of work because you “happened to be in the area” In fact, if your man has drifted away, the best and most positive course of action is to do nothing at all. Go on with your life and start dating and socializing as much as you can. By doing that, you may either ignite his interest again (although why would you want it?),or find yourself in a great new relationship, which is way more fun that racking your brains trying to lure a disinterested man back into your orbit! Replace him! Don’t Chase Him!

Welcome to RED FLAG MAN, where I will teach you how to avoid dating the wrong people (and the subsequent heartbreak), based on my research and experience.

My name is Brenda and I am a former international model and published writer. After growing up in New Jersey, I went on to travel the world, living and working in such places like Tokyo and Paris. As my world expanded, I was exposed to many cultures, and many types of people-- but one thing I learned is that there are consistent patterns in relationships, there are consistent warning signs in toxic relationships. I like call these “Red Flags”. We need to take these very seriously, for they can foretell the end of the story before it has even begun.

These days I live between Miami and New York, working as a realtor while putting the finishing touches on my book “Red Flag Man” which delves into the topic of this blog in great detail.

Follow me if you like what you see, and don’t hesitate to /ask me any relationship questions you may have.

Good luck out there!