And there it is.

Men actually ADMITTING that they realize a lot of men are fully aware that they are generally unlikeable, have little substance and little to offer a woman in a relationship.

They're also admitting that said men are becoming butthurt about the fact that women now more than ever are making the conscious decision to no longer settle for them just so we won't have to deal with the "shame" of being single.

Insecure and self-entitled men are literally upset over the fact that women no longer need them the way we used to in the past. Their sense of self-worth is dependent on female validation and instead of stepping up their game, changing how they think, etc, they're starting to pout and throw tantrums over how useless they feel.

I see a lot of videos and posts of women encouraging women on how to vet men, make sure they have secure boundaries and standards, etc, which is all very important and necessary when it comes to trying to date and all that. But I just feel like no one talks about possibly embracing the reality that in the chance that you don't end up paired up with someone (especially for life) that it's okay and doesn't make you less of a person and that being happily, mindfully single is a real thing.

It's not that I think romantic love and romantic relationships are a bad thing, but I do think that they are highly overrated ideals in our society and too many people are going through life believing that someone "owes" it to them to pick them, find them desirable, or find them as a worthy partner.

I look around and folks sometimes and I see them obsessing/stressing about dating, and finding their "Forever Person" and treating singlehood like it's this disease for which the only cure is monogamy/matrimony, and sometimes I want to ask them "If you found out that you were never meant to be paired up with someone for the rest of your life, or if you knew that no one would ever find you romantically/sexually desirable again. . .would you live your life any differently?"

Again, I'm not saying that desiring romantic relationships is wrong, but people have a way of making seem like romantic love is superior to other types of love, and that other meaningful types of relationships or connections are of lesser value. I think that's why there are so many lonely people out here right now, they're so obsessed with having this one form of love that they don't know how to create or maintain non-physical, platonic bonds which can be just as strong, amazing, fulfilling, and life changing.

Like I literally forget to get upset now, I'm just bored.

Men pushing 40 walking around with the same sorry ass game they had when they were 16/17 years old.

ALL the audacity and none of the self-awareness.

There's no nice way to tell someone that having a dick and a pulse at the same time is not a substitute for having a real personality.

They want to accuse women of being gold diggers but can't recognize in themselves that they're whole energy diggers (or energy vampires is more like it).

Going through life just trying to find someone to give them free sex and/or free therapy.

I saw a guy on IG earlier asking why are there so many beautiful single women out here who just want to stay home all the time.

This blogger is an Unapologetic Black Atheist 😁

It's not my whole identity but it is an integral part of who I am.

I typically don't post content relating to atheism but I think moving forward that may change. I mean it's my blog, who gon' check me boo?? 😛