So I had a daily reminder today that starts with "remember sadness is just a chapter in your life..." And I want to say I appreciate the effort, I love that you're main reason for writing this is to cheer me up but I kind off disagree? You see, I believe that sadness isn't just a chapter in your life...a chapter begins and ends...never to be heard of again unless revisited..it's a memory but sadness is more than that... sadness is like that one side couple in a novel series that you're pretty sure you've seen the last of but they pop up in Every! Single! Book!...and more so very unexpectedly! And you're just there like "damn! Ok you're still around apparently" and I know somebody's just going "oh but CJ, sadness usually comes with death Soo.." yes Jennifer but there are some deaths that come with joy! Like the 3 constants in life are probably Death, Sadness and Joy...I like to see them as siblings cause each one of these feelings could either maximize or minimize change..so yeah, but I digress. It's like the ending of season 2 of Good Omens, I mean I cried my eyes out...my heart broke awfully, and I just don't want to revisit that memory but you get what I'm saying right? Nobody died (well maybe except my heart) but still...i was in extreme anguish ( which is like sadness pro max) but again I digress. So what I'm saying is, in summary, sadness is an unexpected motherfucker and it always will be..it's not a chapter, heavens no...it's a mini-novella taking place in my ,probably million pages, novel of a life to give it-you know a little spice🔥 so think all you want but always remember sadness will find you no matter what you do. But letting it be the MC of your story is a no-no zone...you throwdown like every stereotypical hero-villain fight and you whoop it's ass cause guess what? In your story/AU YOU WIN! EVERY-GOD-DAMNED-TIME!!... Now go out and slay!💕