#chasers

Here's the dilemma;

• Either you out yourself to somebody you don't know too well & don't even know if you wanna really do anything with, and you get killed. (because even if you did not engage with someone, them simply finding you attractive and realizing you're trans disgusts & embarrasses them enough they feel they need to compensate with violence)

• Or you don't tell them right away, you tell them when you feel closer/sure you're going to do anything/etc, and you get killed for "tricking" them.

There's truthfully not a good time to decide "when" is best, because every situation is entirely different.

To be perfectly clear, the dating pool for trans people is a landmind no matter what. There's people out there who will lie about beibg trans themselves/trans friendly to seek out trans women to commit acts of violence on.

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