Hey, I'd love a matchup for Castlevania, if you're up for it (was not the person who wrote you those ask anons btw, although I appreciate them clearing things up).
Iām a heterosexual cis woman, although Iām starting to suspect Iām on the asexual spectrum. So, I'd prefer a male matchup. Also not super sure I'd be down with polygamy.
I'm a premed student (no time for irl dating unfortunately š). I also work as a volunteer EMS on weekends. Outside of my school and work my hobbies are singing (musical theatre and classical mostly), theatre (backstage work as well as performing), skiing (the only sport Iām any good at) and TTRPGs (was this close to getting my group to play a Castlevania campaign š).
Iām also a big nerd about history, American comics, and folklore. Iāll rant for hours about my special interests if nobody stops me. Iād describe myself as ambiverted. I'm socially awkward, but also very loud and expressive. Iām a bit oblivious, Iāll admit lol, but I do my best. My MBTI is ESTJ, and while I doubt MBTI's accuracy, I agree Iām very Type A. When it comes to the things Iām good at, Iām a major perfectionist, but Iām proud of how hard I work. I think my greatest weakness is probably thoughtlessness, but my greatest strength is humility.Ā
My giving love language is acts of service, and my receiving love language is quality time. I'm verbally affectionate towards friends but I freeze like a deer in headlights if somebody flirts with me.
Also: I know appearance isnāt super important, but I think itās important to know Iām only around 5ā0 tall.Ā As my friends say, "headpat size."
A/N: Okay for you my PreMed Student Anon (thatās amazing, congratulations by the way!)I have two potential matches in mind. You said youāre heterosexual and would prefer male results, so I chose two from that gender because I honestly couldnāt decide which would please you best. For you, Iām thinking either Dracula or Alucard would be your perfect romantic matchups! (It really does just come down to which man youād like better: father or son, lol.)Ā
Dracula (Vlad Tepes), as terrifying as he may be when he decides to enact justice on the human population, is a very reserved and intellectual man. Heās introverted and devoted much of his life to learning about anything and everything from medicine to history to poetry.Ā
In this instance letās pretend heās either never met Lisa or he did meet and fall in love with Lisa but she either lived a full life and died of natural causes, or Dracula was able to overcome the anger and blame he held for humanity following her murder.
Dracula is a patient man. Being immortal means he understands that you must dedicate much of your time to your studies and your volunteer work. So long as the few moments you do get to spend with him are uninterrupted and meaningful, I believe heād be understanding, and even supportive of your academic endeavors. He was more than happy to aid Lisa in her quest to learn more about biology, so I have no doubt heād do similarly for you. Any questions you have, heād gladly answer them. Any resource he has in his castle, any book or scroll, any record of any kind is yours to inspect. He has no doubts that youāre going to make a very accomplished professional one day, and he has every intention of doing whatever it takes to help you get there.
Along with that patience comes an understanding that sex is not the end all be all in life. Sure, it has its place for either pleasure or reproduction but it doesn't need to dominate relationships. If sex is something you're hesitant about, or against having, it doesn't make much difference to him. Dracula would be fine without sleeping with you, so long as he can have you in other ways. Holding you close, holding your hand, sitting next to you in front of a warm fire- those things are what make him feel close to your heart.Ā
Dracula also enjoys how animated you get when you go on rants about your special interests. Heās very versed in history and folklore as well, although not American comics, so he would listen intently as you teach him all you know.Ā
As an ESTJ, you would be very grounding for him (an INTJ), while still having a great deal in common. The both of you value an intellectual connection in a relationship while your more empathetic, extroverted side would help push him to see the truth of humanity where he may previously have only seen things in shades of black and white. You both strive for the best, and that suits you just fine with your perfectionism, but do be warned, there may be times you donāt see eye to eye. What you hold as most important in an issue or debate may be different than what he holds. Remember to be patient. INTJs are prone to stubbornness, but being a Type A personality, I do not doubt that youāll be able to handle any contrary moods of his just fine.Ā
Your thoughtlessness can also be a source of discourse within the relationship, as Dracula is bound to worry about you. Youāre human, you're fragile and under so much pressure. He cares deeply for you and does not want to see you hurt. The one advantage you do have, however, is your humility. It keeps you from being both arrogant and thoughtless which is a much more dangerous combination. So long as you are aware enough of your limits, and keep your wits about you the best you can, Dracula promises to trust you enough to let you come and go as you need to, so long as youāre willing to admit when you need help. But with your best trait being your humility, that shouldn't be a problem.Ā
Dracula is so touched by your acts of service. Being such an ancient and scary vampire no one ever thought to make him tea or ask if he needed help with anything. He feels so fortunate to have a partner who does not see him solely as āDraculaā, Lord of Vampires, but as Vlad Tepes, a man at heart.Ā
Not to mention your size difference is too adorable for words. Heās so tall and youāre so tiny⦠He always kneels whenever you ask for a kiss, heāll never ask you to step on a stool or climb a ladder to reach him. Heās more than happy to come to you. He loves you. You are his new light, his new reason to believe in humanity.Ā
Alucard (Adrian Tepes) could also be a good match for you! Heās an ambivert like you, although he may not admit it. Heās the son of a scholar and a doctor, so heās very understanding when it comes to your education and career. And his empathetic nature makes him extremely compatible with your considerate one.Ā
As Alucard is a dhampir and immortal, this matchup could work in either medieval times or modern times. For the sake of this matchup, imagine whatever you might prefer.Ā
Alucard hasnāt always had the best experience when it comes to sex. Granted, you canāt judge every potential future experience based on one horrible one, but heās not the kind of guy who jumps into bed easily. He has reservations and feels very insecure about the whole act. Should he ever engage in it, heād need a partner whoās very understanding, or just as nervous as he is about the whole thing. In hindsight, I donāt think Alucard would mind not having all that much sex: for him, your continued company means more than any sexual endeavor could.Ā
Alucard is very impressed with your decision to go into pre med. He knows how much work that means youāre going to be undertaking, and heāll do whatever he can to support you, either in your studies or in your personal life. Heās very well-read and rather educated on biology as his mother was a physician, so feel free to ask him any questions or have him quiz you before exams. Heās also a bit of an obsessive lover. When he decides he likes someone, he makes a point to memorize that person. (Recall the Trevor and Sypha dolls?) He wants to know what you think and why you think it. That way, he can anticipate your thoughts or needs.Ā
And he does quite enjoy it when you sing to him, especially if you sing him to sleep. Sleep hasn't always come easy to him, but with your presence and your lovely voice, itās as if an angel is singing him a lullaby. I also believe Alucard would absolutely thrive playing TTRPG: heās sarcastic, smart and strategic. I really think heād dominate any campaign he set his mind to. Plus, itād be great socialization for him besides you.Ā
As an ESTJ youāre fairly compatible with Alucardās INFJ. Youāre just extroverted enough to pull him out of his idealistic daydreams, but grounded and predictable enough not to shake his confidence or trust in you/your relationship. The only possible issue is that INFJs can sometimes get caught up in the fantastical destiny of it all: itās about people and purpose. Whereas ESTJs tend to be a bit more practical- you value reality and stability a bit more than potential and daydreams. But I donāt envision this to be a huge problem, so long as you push communication with Alucard. He internalizes a lot. Heāll need to be reminded to share his inner feelings. So long as you do that, I donāt see any major discourse between you two.Ā
Alucard may be a little disappointed in your moments of thoughtlessness, but at the same time, he finds them endearing. You try so hard: youāre a perfectionist like he is, and even though youāre only human, you strive for the same greatness. Itās rather admirable. He likes that about you.Ā
Alucard would also be very touched by your acts of service, mainly because he often finds himself doing the service for others. Itās nice to be taken care of for a change. And he is very happy to spend quality time with you. Heād follow you everywhere if you let him. So long as heās near you, he feels complete. Heās always leaning down to give you soft forehead kisses whenever youāre around. Youāre so precious to him.Ā