Anyways don't fucking date somebody polyamorous if ur not actually ok with them choosing polyamory. my hosts partner of FOUR YEARS admitted they'd been lying to them THE ENTIRE FUCKING TIME about being ok with it being polyam and THIS IS NOT FUCKING OKAY!!!! THIS DESTROYS LIVES!!!! It's leading ppl on and leads to ABUSIVE AND TOXIC longterm relationships!! Nobody wants to be told they're loved and accepted only to have that fucking ripped out from under them just when they thought they were safe!! That fucks a person up for life and some people seem to not even fucking care. Stop fucking treating having a polyamorous identity as a fucking choice or a phase what the hell!!! I'm tired of seeing relationships fall apart because they thought they could just "ignore it"!!! We're not your fucking work in progress that'll eventually settle on monogamy!!!
I don't fucking care about your jealousy, treat polyamorous ppl with goddamn RESPECT and that means admitting when you can't fucking handle it












