#butchish

New gender just dropped.

Butchy Femme: a femme-leaning futch or futch-leaning femme; midway between femme and futch. The counterpart of soft butch. -Ap

How do I, a newly realized adult bisexual, dress gay, but not too gay? I go to a religious university and I want to dress gay enough that other gays will notice, but not so gay that I will call unwanted attention to myself. I consider myself to be butch-leaning (I know butch is more of a lesbian term, but I'm not sure how else to describe it), but I am plus sized with a pretty curvy body. My hips are super wide, and my waist is small in proportion, so there is no way I will ever fit comfortably into men's pants/trousers, and I love skinny jeans anyway. Any suggestions/website links/pictures are welcome! Thanks!