Gonna get slimed for this but
Some of yalls true colours really show when you meet a he/him lesbian jsyk
I joined the lesbian community and felt embraced with open arms, with the weirdgenders and the dykes and the butchfemmes but why is it that only now im running into people who are so??? Weird???? About me using he/him pronouns? Even a fellow butch was like "yeah.. but you arent like... a MAN are you?"
I hate feeling isolated even within my own community
What the hell happened to gender ≠ sexuality? Anyway?
My lesbianism is deeply tied to my gender, i am a lesbian who loves other lesbians, thats IT i dont give a fuck what your gender is as long as you're a lesbian we're good
Im a butch dyke and a punk and im trans and im on T and im gonna get top surgery
I hate the idea of someone's identity being the reason that one is uncomfortable with another
Like i get it for like the history of colourism and racism accross the globe, and the effects of the patriarchy
But it kinda fucking sucks when my entire experience with love has been unequivocally lesbian, and then someone is like
"yeah but like... are you a REAL lesbian?"