Have you been cheated on? What were some of the first thoughts that went through your head? I’ll go first… I remember leaning forward, putting my hands on my knees, taking some deep breaths and saying out loud , “Oh my god, you can change your WHOLE LIFE. You’re ok… you can change your entire life.” I remember feeling…HOPE! Yeeesss, there were feelings of anger, and of course there was sadness, betrayal, etc… but the DOMINANT thoughts were HOPE, focus on a new life, the future… *almost immediately. The core of me knew this was actually…exciting. As if in that very moment, the death of one thing was the immediate birth of a new life… Not your normal initial thoughts, eh…? But the DOMINANT thoughts are the most important, as they will take over and directly impact the rate at which you heal. How we do one thing is often how we do everything, so you can damn well be sure this mindset carries over into other areas of your life, and other areas of dating (when you are ready), including future relationships. Time may heal everything, but your mindset will determine how much time you spend in each phase of healing. If you’re finding yourself thinking, “Uh, NO, Danielle, time is NOT healing everything…”, how open are you to diving into your mindset? Because THIS is where you hold your power… This is one example, where mindset is everything. When ANY relationship ends, not just after cheating… #breakupsdonthavetobesad #breakupsdonthavetobehard #breakupssuck #heartbreak #cheating #mindsetwork #mindsetreset #mindsetiseverything #mindsetmatters #breakuprecovery #heartbreakheals #timeheals #cheatingsucks #selflove #selfrespect #breakupcoach #youdeservelove #yourmindsetiseverything #relationshipcoach #healingfromlove #breakingup #breakupquotes #breakingupquotes #loveyourself #lovequotes #loveagain #youcanloveagain #yourhealing #brokenheartrecovery #riseabove https://www.instagram.com/p/CdMZ76wu5cE/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
