#blacklibesmatter

I GENUINELY BELIEVE THAT A MAN WHO WANTS TO BE APART OF HIS CHILD/REN’S LIFE DESERVES JUST THAT! WE AS WOMEN, OR JUST PEOPLE IN GENERAL, NEED TO STOP FOCUSING ON HOW WE FEEL ABOUT THE PERSON AND FOCUS ON THEIR ABILITY TO BE A BETTER PARENT. WE REALLY NEED TO UNDERSTAND THE AFFECT THAT IT HAS ON THAT CHILD. IF HE LOVES HIS KID, DO NOT DENY THAT BABY OF THAT LOVE, AND DO NOT DENY YOURSELF OF THAT EXPERIENCE TO WITNESS WHAT WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME YOUR CHILD’S TESTIMONY! 

Most of us our products of a single parent household, and the struggle is outrageous. But even with that, as a growing person, only seeing one side or hearing one perspective definitely leaves us with an unbalanced outlook on life. Especially because we all grow up to realize how often we were lied to. Just because he broke your heart doesn’t mean he will break your kids heart. And even if he does, that opportunity should be up to the child to deny.