Bath (or Shower but works best with bath) with running water
Rose Quartz
Red or Pink Candle (small is recommended)
White Candle (small is recommended)
Lavender Petals
Rose Petals
Rosemary incense
Small Cup
Steps:
Draw a warm-hot bath and sprinkle the Lavender and Rose Petals all over the bath water, if you're using a shower, place the petals in a small cup to place in the shower with you
Place the Rose Quartz to the side with the red/pink candle and white candle on either side of it
Light the candles and the incense together as you relax and clear your mind
Step into the water only thinking of your wish in silence (it is important to only think of your wish the entire time you're in the water)
With closed eyes, wash your hair & face, again only thinking of your wish in silence
When finished, slowly get out of the water and allow the candles to burn down completely as you think of your wish in silence
Drain the water while collecting the last few petals in a small cup with some of the water. If using a shower, collect a bit of the water in your cup of petals
Let the cup sit overnight or at least 12 hours before disposing outside.
Clean up and be patient, you should see the results within a week.
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- Baking Soda - Block busting, cleansing, protection
- Orange Peel - Attraction/prosperity
- Appropriate prayers/petitions/psalms
Instructions:
Light insence and pray over each individual ingredient for the above aspects, repeating the prayers/petitions at least 3 times over each ingredient before moving to the next. Add each ingredient into a pot of water and heat it up over the stove. Say more prayers/petitions, or pray a psalm over the mixture repeatedly. Ask that the heat from the stove heat up the work and continue to pray over it. Let it come to a boil and boil for 10 minutes, then strain out the solids. (You could also put them into a cheesecloth or reusable tea bag if you have that on hand.)
Let it cool to room temp
You can either use it all at once, or portion it for however many days you want to do the working for. The more days you do this for, the more powerful the working typically, as repetition compounds the effects
For the actual bath, you can either add it to a tub full of water, or you can take a shower and at the end of the shower pour it over your head. Either way, you need to be praying for it to cleanse you and strip away any blocks, any negative energies that are stuck to you, any unwanted energies. Then pray for protection from said energies and protection from any baneful or malefic magic that may be thrown your way in the near future, and finally pray for prosperity, wealth, blessings, and abundance. Also pray any psalms that you are drawn to that would work for this purpose
I hope this one gets circulated honestly, I don't think there's a lot of people that realize that a spell/working can have more than one purpose baked into it. I hope this one helps some people, too. More than that, this bath could also be used in your mop water or on your doors as well
As Pride Month winds down, I wanted to share some love spells for a subculture-within-a-subculture that often gets overlooked: queer polyamorous people.Ā
Polyamory (sometimes called Ethical Non-Monogamy --Ā as opposed to unethical non-monogamy, a.k.a. cheating)Ā is an umbrella term that covers many types of relationships in which everyone involved knows that their partner is seeing other people and is okay with that. Polyamory is more common than many people realize: about 5% of all adults are currently in non-monogamous relationships and about 20% have tried some form of polyamory in the past.
Not all polyamorous folks are queer, but polyamorous people are more likely to identify as queer, and poly folks have always been an important part of the LGBTQ+ community.Ā
Despite increasing awareness and acceptance around polyamory, it can be hard to find resources for polyamorous love spells. Most of the love spells you can find online or in books are designed for monogamous people. While some of these spells can be adapted for polyamorous love, here are a few designed specifically for poly folks.Ā
Spell for a Loving, Healthy Polycule
A polyculeĀ is a group of people who are linked by romantic relationships -- it consists of all members of a polyamorous group and all of their partners. Itās sort of like the poly alternative to saying that two people are aĀ ācouple.āĀ
Polycules can take lots of different shapes. For example, a three-person polycule might be a triad (three people who are all romantically involved with each other, sometimes called a throuple), or it might be a hinge (Person A is dating both Person B and Person C, but Person B and Person C are not dating). A five person polycule may all be dating each other, or it might be a combination of couples, triads, and/or hinges. Just because someone is in your polycule does not mean you are actively dating and/or having sex with them.
This spell is designed primarily to strengthen existing polycules, but it could be adjusted to help a single person attract a polycule.
You will need:
One candle to represent each member of your polycule (These can be figure candles that match each personās gender identity, colored and/or scented candles that represent their personalities, or white candles with each personās name carved into one. If you are single and trying to attract a polycule, simply use one plain white or red candle.)
Lavender essential oil
Juice from a slice of orangeĀ
Rose petalsĀ
To perform the spell:
Dress each candle with the lavender oil. As you rub the oil into the candle, say something like,Ā āMay we communicate clearly and speak true. May your polycule bring peace and comfort to you.ā
Dress each candle with a few drops of orange juice. As you do, say something like,Ā āMay our love bring you joy and bliss. I seal this blessing with a kiss.ā Kiss the candle before setting it down in your workspace.
Sprinkle rose petals around the candles to form a circle, then sprinkle rose petals in the spaces in between the candles. Once there are no more noticeable empty spaces, say something like,Ā āOur love surrounds us and connects us. Our love supports us and uplifts us. Our relationship is perfect for us. Our polycule is strengthened thus.ā
Light the candles and, as they burn, visualize your polycule feeling happy, loved, and supported. Let the candles burn down completely.
Spell to Ease Relationship Transitions
One of the hallmarks of polyamory is less clearly defined expectations for relationship milestones. In her book The Smart Girlās Guide to Polyamory, Dedeker Winston explains this with theĀ ārelationship escalator.ā Our society treats romantic relationships (which are assumed to be monogamous) like an escalator, with couples moving up into increasing levels of commitment: first dating, then sexual intimacy, then moving in together, then marriage and/or shared finances, then having children. In polyamorous relationships, each person is free to choose how far up they want to go on the escaltor -- in other words, the level of commitment they are comfortable with.
This freedom of movement means that, sometimes, people change their minds. Dating more people does mean more potential for breakups, but it also means changes in the level of commitment each partner is willing and able to give. You may have a more casual relationship with someone but decide youāre ready to share a home with them -- but on the flip side, a partner you have lived with and paid bills with for years may decide that they need their own space and want to go back to a more casual level of commitment.
This spell is designed to ease all of the transitions that may occur within polyamorous relationships, from breakups to moving in together to deciding to see less of each other.
You will need:
A piece of paper
A pen or marker
Lavender essential oil OR eucalyptus essential oil
A bowl of water (this can be rosewater, full moon water, or just tap water)
To perform the spell:
Write out a description of the transition you are going through in your relationship(s), including the old state of the relationship and the change being made to your arrangement. Be sure to include a description of your feelings about the transition, both positive and negative.
Anoint the paper with the essential oil. Say something like,Ā āMay old energy be released. May our love give us strength and peace.ā
Submerge the paper in the bowl of water. As you hold it under the water, visualize yourself and your partner(s) surrounded by soothing, pale blue energy.
When you feel totally calm and supported, end the spell.
Spell for Friendship Between Metamours
Metamours are people who are dating the same person but are not dating each other. To put it another way, your metamours are your partnersā other partners. These are people you are not romantically or sexually involved with, but are still connected with by your shared love for your mutual partner(s) -- which makes them part of your polycule.Ā
While some people choose not to get to know their metamours, this spell is designed for people who want to have a connection with the other people their partner loves. While you might never be best friends, this spell creates an atmosphere of warmth and cooperation that can help keep things friendly.
You will need:
3+ pieces of string, yarn, or cord in different colors -- one for you, one for your partner, and one for each of your metamours (Choose colors that represent each personās personality to you)
Charms or beads that represent friendship and security to you (You can make your own with airdrying clay, or by writing your wishes on a slip of paper, folding it up, and then punching a hole through it so you can string it)
To perform the spell:
Tie the pieces of string together, with the string representing your partner in the middle and the others on either side. Say something like,Ā āFamily chosen, family found. By our shared love of [partnerās name] we are bound.ā
Begin to braid the strings together.
Add your beads or charms. With each new bead/charm, repeat your incantation.Ā
When you are almost out of string, tie it off. Keep the braid in a safe place or give it to your metamour as a gift.
Spell to Heal Loneliness and Feelings of Being Left Out
We all feel lonely sometimes, and unfortunately loneliness, jealousy, and insecurity donāt go away with the addition of multiple romantic partners. No matter how many people youāre seeing, there will probably be times when all your partners are busy and you have to spend time alone. This can be especially rough if your partners are all on dates with other people, leaving you as the only one without romantic plans for the evening.
This spell is designed to help ease gross feelings at times when you feel like the odd one out. It uses bitter herbs to heal bitter emotions with a soothing act of self-care. Please note that this is not a substitute for talking to your partner(s) about your feelings. Also note that thereās a big difference between occasional lonely nights and legitimate neglect or emotional abuse. If you consistently feel ignored or shut out by your partner, that is a much more serious issue.
Note: This spell is partially adapted from theĀ āBitter Healing Bathā from Water Magic by Lilith Dorsey.
You will need:Ā
1/4 cup fresh basil (or 1 TBSP dried)
1/4 cup fresh sage leaves (or 1 TBSP dried)
1/4 cup garlic skin or, if you have them, garlic greens (This will not make your bath smell garlicky. If you donāt have garlic skins or greens, you can substitute 1-2 garlic cloves, but this WILL give your bath a slight garlic smell.)
1/4 cup fresh mint leaves (or 1 TBSP dried)
6 cups water
A sweet treat, floral tea, or glass of wine or fruit juice
(optional) an essential oil with a smell you like and a handful of salt or epsom salt
To perform the spell:
Add the basil, sage, garlic, and mint to a pot on the stove and pour the water over them. As you add each herb, ask it to heal your heart and relieve you of bitter emotions.
Bring the pot to a boil. Turn the heat down and let simmer for 20-30 minutes to create a potent herbal infusion.
While the herbs are simmering, run a bath.
After the simmer time is up, add the infusion to your bath water. Make sure to strain out the herbs! It should have a very earthy, herbal, almost grassy smell.
If you really canāt stand the smell, add an essential oil for scent. You can do this by mixing a few drops into salt or epsom salt and adding it to the tub. (Never add undiluted essential oil to your bath!)
As you soak in the bath, feel the loneliness, jealousy, and other negative feelings leaving your body.
After you get out of the bath, enjoy your sweet treat as a reminder to be kind to yourself.
Be sure to communicate your feelings with your partners if this loneliness is a recurring problem!Ā
Spell to Attract a Queerplatonic Partner
A queerplatonic relationshipĀ (QPR) isĀ a relationship that bends societyās rules for telling apart romantic relationships from non-romantic relationships. QPRs are not romantic in nature or do not fully fit the traditional idea of a romantic relationship. However, these relationships are more than just friendships and they go beyond what is considered normal between friends. For example, two people in a QPR might live together, have shared finances, and rely on each other for emotional support, all without romance.Ā These relationships are often (but not always!) nonsexual in nature.Ā
Queerplatonic relationships are an important part of queer culture that often gets overlooked. Aromantic and aroace people may find that a QPR fulfills their desire for emotional connection without the expectation of romance and sex. However, you donāt have to be aromantic, asexual, or even queer to be in a QPR. Some people just genuinely would rather spend their life with a good friend than with a lover, regardless of how they identify.Ā
One person may have more than one queerplatonic partner, and one or all of the people in a queerplatonic relationship may also date people outside the QPR, which is where these relationships can overlap with polyamory.
This spell is designed to help you attract the right queerplatonic partner for you. Like all love spells, this works best when you donāt have a specific person in mind and instead remain open to the possibilities.Ā
You will need:
A written description of the type of queerplatonic relationship you want to attract, including level of commitment, level of intimacy, any hard boundaries, etc.
A pink candle
Rosewater or rose essence
Dandelion root
Dried catnip
To perform the spell:
Dress the candle with your rosewater/rose essence, then sprinkle it with your herbs. Place it on top of the description of your desired relationship.
As you light your candle, say something like,Ā āOur love transcends labels and rules. To my queerplatonic partner I will be true.ā
As the candle burns, hold your desired partner and relationship in your mindās eye.
Let the candle burn down completely before ending the spell.Ā
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Two days ago, my entire body was sore beyond belief from working two days in a row for nearly eight hours each doing my new job. Itās highly labor demanding and includes doing tasks like squatting nearly constantly, carrying crates and pushing floats, lifting heavy objects both up and down to guide them into specific places, etc. Because Iām a artist/editor and mainly spend my days at home watching cartoons and making silly indulgent YouTube videos I quickly realized just how out of it the shifts had made me, so after that last shift I decided to do something about it.
I thought to myself, āAphrodite is the queen of all things self love and taking care of yourself outside of physical conditions (since Apollo is the god of health/ailments/plague as well as the sun and poetry and music and prophecy etc) right?ā So, I decided to buy some various self care products and cast a small bath spell to help heal my body and take care of myself under Aphroditeās influence. Keep in mind that a part of the spell I did included putting eggshells into the bath, to represent my ācrackedā or ābrokenā body that I was asking Aphrodite to help me amend/put back together myself so I can come out of my recovery period stronger then ever.
I shouldāve worded myself a bit better there, either that or what my body needed to recover actually did need to include more pain then relief.
The next morning I wake up only to find my period had started, and not just started, full on fucking drowning me in waves of blood and agony. All throughout the day I was having my usual terrible cramps that only stopped after I did things like eat, drink water, and take painkillers. The entire day I was cursing at myself and my body for doing this to me literally the day after doing such hard work, since my legs and back were still sore as all hell from my job on top of the period cramps. However, Iām just now realizing that this may have been brought on to me so suddenly not only because of how I worded a part of my bath spell, but also because Aphrodite likely sensed that I was due for my time of the month anyway and is trying to get my body to let it all out in her own way so I can feel better later down the line. I feel like itās also notable to say that the pain has been feeling better when I took care of myself.
Alright, alright. You made your point here, Lady Of Love. Lesson learnt. Tonight Iām going to bed with blue lace agate, dream amethyst, and my rose quartz in a pink pouch under my pillow along with my garnet bracelet just for you. And maybe to also help me feel better from your lesson by the time I wake up nfndfnbfjwoqnfkfnskndmfd
today Iām going to share with you guys one of my favorite spells of all time! itās from the book spellwork for self care. it works best on a Friday, and/or during a waxing moon or full moon.
you will need:
-essential oil of rose (I bought a huge bottle for cheap here)
-rose petals, fresh or dried
-one or more pieces of rose quartz
-a self-love mantra
Run hot water for your bath and add a few drops of the essential oil. As you do so, say: āInto this water I pour love, let it flow from within me, around, and above.ā Repeat three times, adding a little more oil to the bathwater each time. Skim your hand across the water to distribute the scent. Add rose petals and rose quartz, and concentrate on the love that is flowing through the water.
Once youāre in the bath, savor the soothing heat of the water, the pleasing scent, and the beauty that surrounds you. You have given this to yourself because youāre inherently worthy of pleasure. Repeat your chosen mantra five times as you soak in the bath. Soak up all of the love you have poured into the water.
When youāre ready, drain the bath, visualizing all of your self-criticism flowing out of you and away with the water, down the drain. Visualize yourself surrounded in a radiant green light. Say: āBy the power of Venus, I have bathed myself in love. Love flows from within me, around, and above. So mote it be.ā
Candles are a wonderful addition to a relaxing bath, though not necessary. Pink candles are good for self-love. I also like to do a face mask as soon as I get out so I can look as beautiful as I feel within.
I apologize for my recent absence, I have been suffering a lot with seasonal depression but things are starting to get better now that the sun is coming back out. I hope everyone is doing well. Here is a love and lust bath ritual.
