How do you not go insane when people spam San/sa Tags with jn///sa? Idk if you like that ship but i am genuinely tired, i just want to appreciate my girl
I also post sansan content in Sansa’s tag, so it's easy for me to understand posting ships in the main character tags. It's all good.
Daensa, Sansa x Wyllas, Theonsa, Sansaery, Jonrya and Creepyshippers in my experience are all very nice and easy to get along with, even if we don't ship the same things. They respect my squicks, and I do the same. We tag appropriately. So I am happy to share the Sansa tag with other shippers.
I'm pretty ambivalent about J@nsa as a ship. With the unintended chemistry between the actors, it doesn’t surprise me. And some of the Jonsa shippers make beautiful edits.
My biggest peeve is a certain segment of the shippers who deliberately shit stir with everyone else. The whole "which ship is actually incest" arguments and comparisons made between real life sexual violence and other ships is especially gross to me as well. And the infighting among Sansa and Daenerys and Arya fans is just out of control.
Basic fandom etiquette and decency is to not harass real life people over which fictional characters you want to see kiss. No one has more right to these characters or fandoms, and I stand by that. I won't engage with anyone who can't or won't behave themselves, regardless of what they ship. So I block the shit stirrers and just enjoy the rest of the content, and remind myself that fandoms are communities and scroll past things whenever I feel annoyed.
