#babysitting

Plus I get to not think about food or cleaning while my friend gets to chill without her baby for a bit:)

My cousin: boy time in here

Me: I am a boy

Him: how?

Me: I feel like a boy so I am a boy, I did use to be a girl tho

Him: you told me already. Boy time in here

Me: can I be in here

Cousin: *pointing at lockscreen* "What's that?"

Me: "That a drawing my friend did of my character, from the game we play. *Unlocks my phone, showing her a different drawing on the home screen* This is another drawing my other friend did."

Now she's at that age where, like any child, she's got a question to everything. So I'm expecting like "why did they draw that?" "What is he (either characters) from?" Something like that. I was not expecting;

Cousin: *looking up at me, with the most sincerity a curious six-year-old can give* "Why do you have two friends?"

(He/him) i already posted about me babysitting, but i have another story to tell. So i'm almosy 16, and last month i had a client, she was friends with my mom's friend. She wanted me to take care of her 8 years old girl, and she was paying me 12€ per hour, i said yes, but when i got there, i noticed that the child was disabled, i didn't want to be rude of course, so i just looked at the mom and asked if her child had any special needs, the mom said yes and explained the disability to me nefore leaving, i took care fo the kid, we had fun. I'm not mad the girl is disabled, i'm mad that her mom didn't warn me about the girl being disabled. I was a little shocked and suprised, not disgusted of course. Would 100% baby sit this girl again she was so joyful and sweet, just wish i knew about her problems before meeting her.

Reddit consensus: NOT OVERREACTING (NOR) (83% confidence)

Top comment: “NOR. At all. That's a shit thing for the parent to do. They probably didn't want to tell you because they thought you would charge more (rightfully so, if the kid requires extra care and work) or that you would refuse. Either way, that's a super shitty thing for the mom to do.”

Notable comment: “NOR. Frankly as the mother of a kid with a chronic illness that is disabling, I am shocked that this mother didn't say anything about it when scheduling you in the first place! You handled it like a champ, but not everyone has the ability or capacity to be able to care for different types of disabilities. I would have been worried the sitter would back out when surprised with this, leaving me scrambling to find someone else. And if they stayed, I would be worried that they were really displeased about being surprised with it and end up taking it out on my kid. Best case scenario, the sitter rolls with it like you did, but then mom has to rush through instructions making it easier to miss something important and/or for the sitter to forget or misunderstand the instructions.

If mom's whole approach is schedule a new sitter, surprise the sitter with the disabled child, and hope the sitter feels too guilty/uncomfortable about cancelling last second because of the disability, that's pretty messed up. It really adds this layer of uncertainty and unnecessarily risks her daughter not receiving adequate care and potentially even be harmed. I just can't even with this lady.

It's also sad because a good sitter would will often have ideas of games to play or activities to do. And if you come prepared like that, but then can't do them because they aren't accessible for that child's specific disability, it leaves you scrambling. Where if you knew, you could have figured out modifications to make it accessible and/or prepared other activities that the child is able to do.

You handled the situation well, which is a testament to your character. But I am just saddened for this child who is being put in difficult situations and likely missing out on experiences that could have been very pleasant.”

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We’ve all been there—standing on a stranger’s porch, keys jangling in our hands, suddenly wondering why on earth we thought watching someone else's kids was a good idea. Don't get me wrong, looking after children is incredibly rewarding and a blast, but that very first gig can make your stomach do absolute backflips.

If you’re currently trying to find steady work as a babysitter in Bangalore, or you just want to survive your first weekend on the job without losing your mind, you need a solid game plan.

Here is exactly how to handle it like a pro, keep your sanity completely intact, and make sure you get invited back.

1. Get Your Paperwork Sorted

- Handle the Legal Basics

Before you start hunting for families, look into local requirements. Some neighborhoods are super casual, but if you want to stand out from the crowd, it pays to do things properly from the start.

- Prioritize Safety Above Everything

Take a weekend first-aid and CPR course. Seriously, nothing gives a mom peace of mind like knowing you can handle a choked grape or a nasty scrape without losing your head. It builds instant trust before you even say hello.

2. Put Yourself Out There

- Word of Mouth is Everything

Start by telling everyone in your circle—neighbors, cousins, aunts—that you have open slots. Most parents prefer hiring a friend of a friend over a total stranger they found on a random internet forum.

- Join a Specialized Agency

If you want to skip the awkwardness of hunting for open babysitter jobs in Bangalore, consider registering with a dedicated childcare platform like Prenu. It bypasses the endless scrolling and connects you directly with vetted parents who actually pay on time.

3. The Pre-Game Interview

- Ask the Real Questions

When you meet the parents, don't just nod, smile, and say yes to everything. Ask about real bedtime routines, what foods are strictly off-limits, and how much screen time is actually allowed before they lose their minds.

- Know the Emergency Plan

Always write down emergency phone numbers on actual paper, know exactly where the first-aid kit lives, and double-check for any severe food or pet allergies before the parents walk out the front door.

4. Bring a Bag of Tricks

- Pack Your Own Fun

Never rely on the family's toy box to keep things moving. Show up with a backpack of simple stuff—cheap coloring books, a deck of cards, or some washable markers. The kids will think you’re the coolest person alive.

- Get Down on the Floor

Put your phone on silent and leave it in your jacket bag. Get right on the rug, build the giant Lego tower, and match their chaotic energy. If the kids love you, the parents will absolutely adore you.

5. Wrapping Up the Night

- Deal with Tantrums Calmly

Kids test boundaries; it is literally their job to see what they can get away with. When a meltdown happens, don't yell. Take a deep breath, distract them with a totally new game, and stay firm but kind.

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