#axab

am i weird to feel weird about this?? for a few reasons (i blocked out part of the text to make it harder to find op by the way, this isn't a personal attack on anyone, but something i've noticed repeatedly by several people)

1. are amab and afab not intersex terms originally anyway??

2. this is just saying "afab = female/woman" "amab = male/man" to me, even though it doesn't mean to

3. even if the term wasn't coined by intersex people or used in intersex spaces originally, tons of intersex people present binarily male or female at birth?? and thus are AFAB or AMAB, even if they don't have genital differences (or didn't at birth)

Transvalerian

( ID 1: A flag with seven horizontal stripes, the middle stripe being thinner, in the following colors: dark purple, purple, lavender, off-white, lavender, purple and dark purple. End ID. )

( ID 2: A flag with seven horizontal stripes, the middle stripe being thinner, in the following colors: very dark blue, dark blue, blue, off-white, bubblegum pink, cherry red and dark red. End ID. )

( ID 3: A flag with seven horizontal stripes, the middle stripe being thinner, in the following colors: dark red, cherry red, bubblegum pink, off-white, blue, dark blue and very dark blue. End ID. )

This term has multiple definitions

Being AIAB / AXAB / UAB ( or having mixed markers / labels ) and viewing yourself as transitioning towards both a masculine and feminine identity, having a primarily masculine + feminine identity, or presenting mascfem / femmasc.

Not identifying with your AGAB(s) / lack of AGAB, and viewing your gender as being masculine + feminine / mascfem / femmasc, while being trans.

Being / identifying with both Transrainian & Transfieldian.

Being fluid between, or all of these definitions.

I choose -valerian because it sounded similar to -rainian and -fieldian but also because "Valerian" is a plant, which exists in fields and is nurtured by rain. So it's a little symbolic. It can be shortened to "Transval" if you'd like ( similar to the shortened Transrai and Transfie. )

The first flag is an exact 50 / 50 blend of the colors used in the Transrainian & Transfieldian flags ( credit to @eldorr . ) Purple is also a color which shows up in Valerian plants! The second and third are just me taking the top / bottom halves of the Transrainian & Transfieldian flags and putting them together. Use whichever you'd like!

Coined for my intersex experiences because I couldn't find a combo term and I relate to both. Not necessarily Intersex-exclusive but since it's so heavily steeped in my / others Intersex experiences, I ask perisex people to please be veryyyy respectful of Intersex people if you'd like to use these.

( "Respectful" meaning the bare bones basics btw. I.e. no "i'm transitioning to intersex!", using the H-slur, or fetishizing our bodies / variations, and similar things to that. )

"This button gets people killed"

Like yeah, fundamentally I have no gender, so it makes sense as a descriptive. But as a gender? Male, Female... Agender?

Nonbinary and genderqueer feel slightly better since nonbinary is so broad, hence there's ambiguity, plus it just means not being a binary identity. Genderqueer is also equally ambiguous and since queer simply means not part of the majority, it's just a synonym for not being cisgender.

My thanksgiving was okay. I ate a lot of food, and tried jelled cranberry for the first time, i dont know why the hell i wasnt eating it before, but i guess it was a texture issue that always deterred me. You know how it is with some of us autistic people.

If you're asking about the Animal Crossing gang though, turkey day was especially good. Phoebe helped Franklin with the cooking, and everyone else gathered up ingredients for him.

I don’t promise activity right now as my brain is on Super Paper Mario (and Nastasia) and it won’t end anytime soon, but I have been playing New Horizons a bit more since the direct! Here’s a bonus Velma image for you, it’s been a long time! 💗))