Just further confirms what I've known for years--some people get triggered by teenage characters who act like actual teenagers (instead of 20-somethings playing teenagers behaving pretty much like adults).
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Just further confirms what I've known for years--some people get triggered by teenage characters who act like actual teenagers (instead of 20-somethings playing teenagers behaving pretty much like adults).

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Actually my mom's reaction has made me think. Very few people got Rey/Kylo back then, including some casual viewers that surely didn't dig into interviews. I wonder why it clicked only with a small fraction of people? The only thing I got from TFA was mild sexual tension during the interrogation scene. A fandom acquaintance used to share Reylo theories like the bridal carry and while I thought it made sense, Americans have the worst record when it comes to redemption & villain/hero stories. 1/2
2/2 I got some pieces of the puzzle because I was sure Rey wasn't Luke's daughter (I thought she'd be some other villain's offspring š) and I was sure she was not going to end up with Finn (misdirection like Luke/Leia in ANH). TBF I didn't like the movie so I never bothered to keep up until TLJ trailer dropped. As I said, my only problem is that I didn't trust this kind of medium to tell certain stories and I am still a little wary of that. If Star Wars were an anime I would be 101% sure.
I wrote a post aboutĀ āwhy people didnāt see Reyloā a while ago and I still stand by it, but to expand on it:
TFA did a fairly good job hiding things in plain sight. Like, the tropes in themselves are clear as day, but the characters never comment on remark on it and the dialogue does nothing to emphasize Reylo or convey it to the audience, which is quite unusual for a blockbuster movie and for Star Wars specifically, whose dialogue has always been extremely on the nose. Imagine if they had kept theĀ āyou have compassion for herā line. Or if Han and Leia discussed Kylo bridal-carrying Rey off and Han said something likeĀ āheās smitten by her, you know he isā, and Leia were like,Ā āI know. I sensed it, like I sensed sheās specialā. Or if Finn and Rey had a conversation post interrogation scene where Rey would describe, enraptured, theĀ āelectricityā that passed between them? It would have made Reylo instantly 200% clearer. Mainstream fiction normally uses third party characters toĀ āexplainā the romance to the audience, but TFA never does that. The characters---including Kylo and Rey themselves---are none the wiser about whatās happening between Rey and Kylo. Their interactions speak for themselves, but the explicit ātextā of the movie doesnāt remark them, which makes the whole thing unusually subtle, for something that employs not-so-subtle tropes. Itās show donāt tell at its finest, applied to the first stages of a budding romance.
the audience sees what the audience expects to see. And nobody was expecting a heroine x villain dynamic, going into TFA. Nothing in the marketing and promotion had prepared the audience for it (probably on purpose). And I think people, when it comes to blockbuster fiction, rely a lot on the tl;dr provided by trailers and promotional material to form their ideas on movies.Ā āIt wasnāt in the trailer and it isnāt technically a plot twist, so it canāt be that importantā. (and I donāt mean it in a condescending way---I didnātĀ āseeā Reylo either upon my first viewing, and it was only a few days of tumblring later that I started processing what I saw and looking deeper into the narrative of a movie that, at first, felt okay and occasionally very entertaining but not terribly different from 90% of current fantasy blockbusters, tbh)
I think, at least on Tumblr and at least initially, TFA attracted a demographic that isnāt particularly primed to recognize & appreciate heroine x villain tropes when it sees them.Ā And it was that demographic that dictated the initial tone of the fannish discourse around TFA, which inevitably shaped most peopleās understanding of the movie.
and yes, what you said: american fiction isnāt particularly heroine x villain-friendly. Thereās a disconnect between the tropes that are employed in Reylo---which are common in the romance genre, but rare in mainstreamĀ āmasculineā fiction---and the kind of narrative that one reasonably expects Star Wars to be (as I said in that post I linked: "neither specifically female-centric nor romantic").Ā
Personally I don't understand how can anyone come out of watching Season 7 without being seeing the clear signs of canon Destiel.
Season 7 is an interesting choice tbh nonny. Lots of people watched season 7 thinking Destiel was dead.Ā
I think subtextually season 7 is a great look at grief and Dean acts like a widow mourning the loss of his partner. Also Casās return in 7x17 definitely reads romantically if you are looking for it. I think at that point it was still embedded deeply enough in subtext that anyone still wearing their heteronormative glasses wouldnāt pick up on it though.
As I have said in other asks, I think the real point of no return when Destiel is basically brought into main text as much as possible without them outright saying that they are in love with each other, is season 12. Everything pre season 12 is still pretty much deep subtext. We can argue that pre season 12 seasons still embed Destiel into the main narrative and there are seasons such as season 11 where the story line itself is extremely confusing in parts if you donāt just assume that Dean and Cas are in love, but Season 12 pushed those boundaries to the point at which the general audience picked up on it, and the antis basically busted a vein screaming to the writers about it because they could see it too. Early season 13 continued that trend right up until the end of 13x05 which was the most romantic bullshit this show has ever pulled.
I think most people do see it now. There will still be lots that donāt ship it and donāt really care about it, but anyone saying they still donāt see it at this stage is either blind or in deep denial.Ā
Why do you think the most popular assumption was a F/R romance if TFA was trying to deflate it? Because pop culture critics/writers for geek sites, fans on Reddit and Tumblr who were antis and Reylos alike, the people who interviewed John, a significant number of the GA all left TFA thinking F/R not only was a romantic relationship but the central romantic relationship of the trilogy, which is how there are some people who still think itās endgame despite Finnās romance with Rose and the kiss.
Because theyāre the heroes, theyāre a boy and girl, and they cared about each other. Thatās how deep it is for the media and most casuals. It is a not-reading, itās a default assumption- there could be nothing else whatsoever and people would still make that assumption. The path of least resistance tends to be hard to get off, so even when (if) you step back and think āhmm, this has pretty much zero dramatic potential and makes no sense as a SW love storyā, itās hard to get away from the idea that itās somehow too obvious not to be true.
But people going āyeah, I guess thatās gonna be a thing, thatās fineā is not shipping it or being invested in it. Did the film create huge investment in it as a romance? Gonna say no considering all the normal critics and the normal entertainment media felt no qualms whatsoever about jumping ship to Reylo when it became text. Gonna point to the shipping engagement and content creation- did people have a burning need to explore this dynamic and bring it to romantic fruition? Was the focus of the backlash in the mainstream about f/r not happening, or was it almost entirely about Luke, Snoke, the plot, and general whining about new female characters?
The fact that some shippers still canāt let go of their ādefaultā status or have talked themselves into believing an elaborate racist conspiracy against them is the only possible explanation for f/r not being canon with the help of tumblr slacktivism doesnāt mean thereās substance to their arguments. That they can out-and-out completely ignore the Finn/Rose kiss 99% of the time shows how little this is about whatās actually in the films.
Iām sorry to any sane, normal f/r shippers, because I donāt mean to imply thereās no reason to ship it or that youāre shallow if you do, just that it was never something canon promised and it got wrapped up in shallow readings for reasons that have nothing to do with the ship itself.

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Altho the Nervous Nellies of the fandom could always use a reminder of the casual audienceās reaction to this scene and the fact that theyāre the ones these mega tentpole movies are primarily meant to be enjoyed and understood by, not Fandom People With An Agenda or Blue Checks With A Smart Opinion No One Asked For, Iām honestly mainly posting this for the sentence āThey cheered for the man who stabbed Han Solo in the chest.ā šš
My mom has seen The Last Jedi. She's hooked now. She said she's going to watch TROS on her own because no distraction. She said the imagery throughout the movie was beautiful, and she liked this one better because it's more emotional and sentimental. She thinks Rey and Kylo will team up against General Hux and get together in the end. She also woobified Kylo a lot, telling me "this guy must have gone thru a lot". I told her very few people got Reylo from TFA so now she's bragging she did.
Your mom is a OG reylo, basically