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what causes break-up/rejection in synastry and composite

i wouldn't count on that always being the case, sounds like someone is justifying their specific situation because conjuncts are atypical in nature - they often don't have predictable results. some people say that they promote positivity (for example, venus person is enamored by pluto person and pluto person is obsessed with venus person like the twisted book series that went viral on tiktok) and some say that nothing good comes from them (like whichever post the example is from in the ask)...

i'm going to work off of what i already have posted (no asteroids discussed after this post will be included or added after the fact). finally, i would like to state that NO TWO CHARTS ARE THE SAME. what i am about to list out does not mean you will for sure need these exact things (or all of these things) to be shy, nervous, and/or anxious around one another. if you don't understand my thought process, feel free to comment with questions!

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8h/12h saturn

often the ending of this relationship is not pretty and involves a long-term coupling falling out of love with one another.

8h uranus

uranus person likely feels that the house person is too clingy for them and will be the first to pull away.

12h aries (1°, 13°, 25°) and/or mars

tends to indicate an ugly split.

12h capricorn (10°, 22°)

tends to indicate a harsh breakup/rejection from the house person which causes the saturn person to fall into a despair. this connection is often of a long-term variety.

12h aquarius (11°, 23°)

this might end with one of the partners in the connection asking for an open relationship, cheating on their partner, and/or ghosting the other partner.

sun negatively aspecting mars

sun person denies mars person. sun person tends to not like the mars person's energy and how passionate they are - they tend to not feel as deeply as the mars person.

mars negatively aspecting saturn

saturn person rejects mars person. usually the saturn person doesn't see the mars person as a good fit for them long-term - it tend to have to do with how clingy/possessive the mars person is. often the saturn person doesn't think that the mars person is worth fighting with, while the mars person sees the saturn person as someone worth fighting for.

mars negatively aspecting uranus

uranus person rejects mars person. the mars person often doesn't see this coming as an uranus person in this connection is quick to ghost/disappear from the mars person's life. the mars person tend to lack closure in the connection.

1h salome (562)

in oscar wilde's play salome, she is enticed by jokanaan but still wants him dead, and the play ends up with them both dead but him by salome's order.

apollo (1862) negatively aspecting kassandra (114)

kassandra person may seem interested at first but ends up just using the apollo person only to get ahead then rejects the apollo person.

medusa (149) negatively aspecting poseidon (4341 / h47)

poseidon person aggressively pursues medusa person but medusa person wants nothing to do with poseidon person

narcissus (37117) negatively aspecting echo (60)

echo might adore narcissus person, but narcissus person may either just enjoy that echo person likes them or they might decide they are too good for echo person.

rhea (577) negatively aspecting kronos (h43)

rhea person tend to be unhappy in the connection and plots against the kronos person.

zeus (h42 / 5731) negatively aspecting hera (103) and/or juno (3) negatively aspecting jupiter

typically, the hera/juno is hurt by the zeus/jupiter person because hera/juno person learns that they are being cheated on. oftentimes, this leads to a breakup. however, if there is a hera/juno prominent person in the connection, the relationship tends to continue but at the expense of the loyal (and unhappy) hera/juno person.

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Selene, according to Hesiod, is the daughter of the Titans Hyperion and Theia. It was said that this goddess flew the moon across the sky. The only time she did not was when she was ordered to stop by Zeus during the Gigantomachy so as cloak Heracles and Zeus who searched for an herb to defeat the giants. One of her most famous moments in myth was the story of her love affair with a mortal named Endymion. Selene once flew over the sky and saw the shepherd Endymion asleep on a hill (sometimes it is said that he spelt in a cave). She was enraptured by his beauty; she simply had to be with him on earth. So she waited for the new moon, when no one would notice her absence from the sky, and spent the night next to him as he slept. Selene was a lover of Zeus so it is a bit unclear what happened next - it is thought that she had two children with Zeus but likely 50 daughter with Endymion (possibly a rape situation if he was always asleep - some sources say he was cursed to sleep forevermore because he fell in love with Hera then toss out of the heavens). Some sources note that it was Endymion that chose to sleep forever, others state that Selene begged Zeus to put Endymion to sleep eternally so that he wouldn't age nor would he die, another option is that this was a punishment for Selene from Zeus that she had been having sexual relations with Endymion. IN MY OPINION Selene in your chart can represent a) femininity, b) transformation, c) secret tasks, d) fertility, e) inability to control your sexual temptations, and/or f) unhealthy romantic behaviors that go unchecked.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of selene along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of selene AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede selene!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: zeus (5731 / h42), endymion (342), tithonus (6998), hesiodos (8550), hera (103), and heracles (5143)!

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"when talking about such a popular god/ goddess/hero i am going to for warn paraphrasing - of course all these stories have more details and all these popular gods have stories within stories. i would love to share them all/in detail but i would need a book and a lot more time to write it. my attempt in writing these posts are to inform you on the high level story of the god’s or goddess’s life. that being said if any one of the events regaled in the post pique you interest - please let me know i don’t mind giving a more in-depth tale of any of the events mentioned."

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Son of King Aeson and leader of the Argonauts, Jason was sent away at a young age before he was more than just a boy prince. His uncle seized the land his father ruled - his father sent Chiron to raise him due to this. When he returned to his homeland as a young man, he came upon an old woman near a river who asked him to help her cross it. Jason took the woman across on his shoulders - this woman was Hera, who his uncle allegedly had been neglecting to worship. Hera inspired the boy to see his uncle. Pelias immediately felt mortified as he noted Jason was missing a sandal - for years he worried that someone would challenge him. So, in those years, he visited with an oracle who told him that he should be wary of a man with only one sandal. He immediately feared his nephew was there to steal his throne - so he questioned Jason about what he would do if someone challenged his reign. Jason answered as that he would send them on a quest for the Golden Fleece - these words were spoken by Jason but were guided by Hera once more. Pelias told him that is what Jason would have to do to prove he was the rightful king of the land. Jason was off to start readying himself for the journey - with Athena's guidance, he found the shipbuilder Argus who crafted Jason's ship, the Argo. He then recruited the Argonauts: Heracles, Castor, Pollux, Meleager, Orpheus, Peleus, and Telamon. Jason and the Argonauts traveled to islands made up of cursed women, six-armed men, Amazons, etc. Eventually he received the fleece with the help of the enchantress Medea (this part of the story, I have told - I will leave it to her post because, let's face it, she did basically all the work). The two fled together under near constant chase of her family - until eventually they found that if they were married they would have no right to chase after her. The two married; as we know from her side of the myth their relationship is an odd one. She tricks his cousins into killing their father King Pelias, his cousin kicks him out, Jason remarries - not really because Medea burns her in her wedding gown, Medea kills their children, etc. Unsurprisingly, Jason is abandoned by the gods because of his disloyalty to Medea and their shared vows. Jason then lives out the rest of his days alone - ironically, the rotting Argo collapses on him and Jason dies from a crush wound in his sleep. IN MY OPINION Jason in your chart can represent a) how you can improve your leadership skills, b) where you are a pawn in karma's game, c) where the gods guide you, d) where you get a lot of help from others, and/or e) how/where your break vows.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of jason along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of jason AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede jason!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: hera (103), heracles (5143), athene (881), pallas (2), orpheus (3361), chiron (2060), peleus (11311), telamon (1749), and medea (212)!

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Hypnos was one of the original primordials of the world, the personification of sleep, and twin of Thanatos. The two lived in the underworld cave where their mother Nyx lived - no sunlight or moonlight could reach them. Through this cave ran the river of forgetfulness, Lethe, and surrounding the entrance of the cave were poppies. Hypnos the son of Nyx, night, and Erebus, darkness, is responsible for both of the greatest deceptions of Zeus in mythology. The first time Zeus was put to sleep I have written about in Nyx's post: Hera asked Hypnos to put Zeus to sleep. When Zeus woke he hunted Hypnos down, but Hypnos was saved by Nyx's presence. The second time Hypnos put Zeus to sleep Hera had to tempt him with his would be wife, Pasithea. Hypnos had Hera swear to give him Pasithea as a wife on the river Styx, and Hera agreed. Zeus fell asleep again, this time being the most infamous as Hera tried to gain power over the heavens just before the Trojan war. IN MY OPINION Hypnos in your chart can represent a) how you sleep and the importance of sleep to you, b) where you tend to forget things, c) where darkness makes you stronger, d) where you help others to gain power, and/or e) where you may feel hesitant to try something twice.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of hypnos along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of hypnos AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede hypnos!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: nyx (3908), zeus (5731 / h42), and hera (103)!

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lamia, the devourer (asteroid 248)

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Lamia was the daughter of Belus (some say she was the daughter of Poseidon) and Lybie - both were Egyptian rulers at the time. The Classical Antiquity poet, Aristophanes, states that Lamia was a queen of Libya who captivated Zeus. Hera was not at all pleased with this coupling so she aimed to ruin Lamia. Every time that Lamia had a child, Hera arranged for the child to be killed either at Lamia's hands or someone else's. As one could imagine, Lamia started to get paranoid, unhinged, and desperate - so she started stealing babies from others... and eating them (i did say unhinged). To stop this, Zeus had Lamia pluck out her own eyes (in some versions it is Lamia who tries to pluck out her eyes and fails to do so) - Hera however cursed her with sleeplessness (it is speculated that this curse was to see future events - Lamia would be plagued with the worst of the visions often seeing the death of her children or other children around her) and convinced her to keep her eyes in a jar. Sleepless, deranged, and desperate Lamia became a troubling creature who stalked the night. Many people at the time made her into the equalivent of "the boogeyman" - telling their children that Lamia would eat them if they were bad. IN MY OPINION Lameia in your chart can represent a) where you have a fall from grace, b) where other people make you do terrible things, c) where you are desperate, d) your reputation with children, e) where you have visions of terrible things, f) insomnia, and/or g) why/where others fear you.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of lameia along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of lameia AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede lameia!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: zeus (5731 / h42), hera (103), and aristophanes (2934)!

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Artemis is the daughter of Zeus and Leto. Previously stated in her twin’s myth, Hera was angered to hear of Zeus's infidelity with Leto and forbid Leto from having these illegitimate children on earth. So Leto had them in a tree - technically not touching the earth. Balancing on an olive tree branch she birthed Artemis. Hera heard this and sent her daughter, Eileithyia, to aid Leto in the birth of the other twin. Unfortunately, Eileithyia didn’t arrive on time - fortunately, Artemis learned how to aid in child-birthing and helped to deliver her brother, Apollo. Ever since this, each of these siblings protected their mother by whatever means necessary. Even if it came to bloodshed. Niobe said that she did more for Olympus than Leto by birthing more than two children. In response to this, Artemis and Apollo slaughter all her children. When Tityus gropped and tried to rape Leto, the twins killed him. To bear in mind, Artemis is one of the maiden goddesses of Olympus: recall that Diana (her Roman aspect) transformed Actaeon into a stag after seeing her naked then his dogs were set against him. Artemis's tale has the same spiel in which she goes to any lengths to protect her maidenhood. In some cases, like Actaeon (who’s story and myth are the same in Greek and Roman myth), she has a man killed, but in cases, like Siproites, she has the man transformed into a woman. Another extreme example, Agamemnon sacrificed one of Artemis's deer then boasted about how he is a better hunter than the goddess. This boasting held up the group from leaving for the Trojan War. To appease the goddess, Agamemnon then sacrificed his virginal daughter to Artemis - only then did Artemis let them leave for the war. Finally, Orion: in some versions he tries to rape her upon first encounter and Artemis kills him, but in others they fall in love with one another through shared interest in hunting. In the alternative, version Gaea sends the couple a scorpion to fight - either Artemis accidentally shoots Orion or Orion is stung with the scorpion's tail. An alternative to the alternative is her twin Apollo grows angry of the two’s connection and challenges Artemis to a hunt. Artemis askes what they are hunting and Apollo points to a distant creature in the lake - Artemis takes aim and fires and when she approaches her kill she sees it’s Orion. She then asks her father to place him in the heavens. IN MY OPINION Artemis in your chart can indicate a) how well you adapt or how good you are in a crisis, b) where you show loyalty to others, c) where you intend to stay pure, d) where in your life there is a lot of feminine energy, e) where you have a lot of spite, f) who you get along best with, and/or g) where your attempts in romance are diminished (if you have a lot of 6h synastry with a person and your artemis is in the 6h - you may find the relationship quickly fizzles out or they are removed from your life).

i encourage you to look into the aspects of artemis along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of artemis AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede artemis!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS/COMETS: zeus (5731 / h42), leto (68), hera (103), apollo (1862), gaea (1184), halley (999044), niobe (71), and agamemnon (911)!

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echo, the mountain nymph (asteroid 60)

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Zeus's interests were sparked by a nymph in the mountains. Hera, of course, found out about this and followed Zeus to catch him in the act. Echo, the mountain nymph, slowed Hera's call for justice by distracting Hera with a long, colorful conversation/explanation as to how it all happened. Enraged due to having missed her opportunity to catch Zeus, Hera cursed the girl to only be able to repeat the last words said by another person around her. Echo was distraught until the handsome Narcissus crossed her path. She followed Narcissus into the woods. Eventually Narcissus stated he lost his hunting partner and called out “Is anyone there?” Hearing a twig snap he followed this question up with “Who are you?” Echo repeated the word “you”. Narcissus was stunned to hear a feminine reply, this is when he saw her entered his view. Echo immediately attempted to stand very close to him and touch his arm in awe of how handsome he was. Narcissus promptly rejected Echo, leaving her more dejected than ever before. She followed him because she still fancied him and, of course, Narcissus soon after discovered his own reflections - unable to look away, he died. Echo mourned him for a long time and eventually died herself alone in a cave leaving behind only her voice. IN MY OPINION Echo in your chart represents a) where you are eager to have the last word, b) where your storytelling may bother a lot of people, c) where you are cursed to be meek, and/or d) where you are most likely to encounter narcissists.

not me having a 11h echo - my neptune, SN, and black moon have a new friend…

i encourage you to look into the aspects of echo along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of echo AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede echo!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: zeus (5731 / h42), hera (103), and narcissus (37117)!

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Io was the daughter of the river god Inachus and the oceanid Melia. Io captured Zeus's attention - immediately Zeus became infatuated with her and covered the world in a blanket of storm clouds so Hera wouldn't see his pursuit of Io. His goal in this was to protect Io from Hera. To do so Zeus turned Io into a white cow; Hera then asked for the cow and had Argus (the creature with one hundred eyes) watch over her. Zeus knowing that Hera was on to him sent Hermes to Argus asking that Hermes get rid of Argus. When Argus fell asleep because of a pan flute, Hermes killed him and Io ran away. Hera was irate and sent gadflies after Io - after that the myth splits into a few different endings. Io has a child, Ceroessa, in some versions. In other versions, she keels over in Egypt near the Nile - with pity, Hera turns Io back into a human. Io is found by Telegonus, she marries him, and she has a child named Epaphus. Sometimes both children are born. IN MY OPINION Io in your chart can represent a) where you create strain in a relationship, b) where you are both something wonderful and something to be kept hidden, c) where you are tormented by other people's lack of control, and/or d) where you find yourself changed and forced to run away from a situation.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of io along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of io AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede io!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: hera (103), hermes (69230), and zeus (5731 / h42)!

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