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You should also check whether or not you have similar indicators in your solar return chart, the position of the moon in the lunar return chart and where the ascendant falls in your natal chart and your solar return chart.

SRC/SR = Solar Return Chart LRC/LR = Lunar Return Chart

Indicators of Finding Love in Lunar Return Chart:

♡ Libra Rising ♡ Sun in 7H/5H ♡ Moon in 7H/5H ♡ LR ascendant in SR or Natal 7H ♡ Natal 7H ruler in LR 7H ♡ Natal or SR Venus in 1H of LRC ♡ LR chart ruler in 5H/7H (mostly 7H since 5H can also be read as pregnancy) ♡ Venus in 5H/7H ♡ Jupiter in 5H/7H or Part of Fortune in 5H/7H ♡ Mercury in 5H/7H/Mercury conjunct Venus can indicate to getting a love confession ♡ Mars in 7H can indicate rushing into a relationship (more if it's aspecting or in the same house as Jupiter/Venus/Juno) ♡ Vertex in 7H/5H or Vertex conjunct Venus (fated romantic encounters) ♡ Juno in 5H/7H ♡ 5H ruler in 5H/7H ♡ Venus-Saturn/Juno-Saturn positive aspects

Regarding your indicators. . .

Disclaimer: This is my opinion based on my experience with them.

neptune aspects: too many expectations and fantasies about the person and not having much of it met....just not for me

pluto conjunct moon/sun: If you think the relationship is intense, the breakup is a lot worse. I had this once and this one is also just not for me lol.

their lilith conjunct my sun/moon/venus: I've had this synastry twice and both times it didn't end well for me so it's just not for me 💀

My Experience With Lilith Synastry

General Meaning:

"Lilith relates to: love-triangles and infidelity, being the other man or woman, sexual allure and attraction; both feminism and misogyny; abortion, miscarriages, infertility; adoption and lost children; outsiders, wildness, taboo-breaking, rule-breaking, sheer outright craziness; wild beauty, wilderness itself and being cast into the wilderness; both inability to love and fierce desire; aloneness; witchcraft and magic; natural power; abuse and retribution. There is more, but suffice to say, I never disregard Lilith when looking at a chart." — https://oxfordastrologer.com

Usually Lilith in a hetero men's chart represents the woman he's both incredibly sexually attracted to, hates and fears, the woman he wants to tame and possess but can't, and Lilith for women represents the dark feminine side, the wild woman archetype, how and where you rebel, break taboos and face punishment, and why and where you get outcasted.

I never actually dated any of the guys I'm talking about but we were friends/in the talking stages. Also I apologize in advance if this is too negative, lilith synastry can have some positives from what I've heard, I personally just never had any unfortunately.

Guy 1: His Leo Lilith Conjunct My Sun

We were friends for a long time and he was very attracted to me — sexually more — and very obsessed with me but he also secretly hated me a lot. He was very possessive and would talk shit about anyone I talked to or was friends with, even though we were just friends and I made it clear that I don't see him in a romantic light. We were similar in terms of toxicity and we also brought out the worst in each other most times. When he first asked me out, I rejected him and he's been bitter ever since. After the rejection, the awkwardness made us fall out with each other for a bit until I saw him again after 2 years and he had a girlfriend at that time too so I thought we could be friends again because I felt bad for what happened. But what I didn't know is that for the time we weren't in touch he was cyberstalking me and was doing the most to tarnish my reputation as a way to get back at me the whole time. His girlfriend hated me a lot too but at that time I didn't know why but later I found out it was cause he would talk about how much he hates me a lot to her and his friends told me he hated me for ignoring him after the rejection (I didn't, he did lol). Then he made a move on me again and he also wanted me to be his side chick so I cut him off for good.

Guy 2: His Virgo Lilith Conjunct My Venus

I was in the talking stage with this guy I met in one of my classes. He was also very attracted to me (once again, more sexually than romantically) and very obsessed right from the start. I wasn't as attracted to him as he was to me. When he asked me out, I said yes and went out with him. After the first date, he started getting all entitled for sex and kept asking me for my nude pictures so I cut him off and ghosted him. A few days later I find out he also had a girl and he was talking shit about me to her and others. Then he broke up with her and started telling everyone and their mother that I'm the one who was desperate to date him and broke up their relationship, obviously none of that was true and I had to clear my name for months. I have yet to receive an apology for this bs >:(.

Final thoughts: This synastry is very sexual, obsessive and intense and in a way is similar to what people consider pluto & 8H synastry. I think lilith synastry really depends on individual charts and can work if both people have a prominent lilith or a lilith conjunction in natal cause then they would know how to handle this kind of energy.

Note: I also had nodal synastry with both of them and I've got natal venus in 12H so that probably played into this too.

reblog and answer as honestly as you can (you can answer with either tropical or sidereal placements, but do mention which one)

1 ✧ lunar ruled/lunar dominants, do you always feel eclipse energy? [lunar ruled = cancer asc or moon as chart ruler]

2 ✧ those who have pluto aspecting their sun/moon/rising (in either transit or natal), have people told you/been telling you that you look dead?

my answer: when pluto first entered aquarius and opposed my sun everybody and their mother were telling me that I was starting to look dead everyday.

3 ✧ venus ruled/venus in 1H/10H/venus conj. asc/mc, do people always tell you that you are pretty? Like is it the first thing? [venus ruled = libra/taurus asc or venus as chart ruler]

my answer: I'm a libra asc and I don't always get compliments but getting called pretty was the only ever compliment I used to get. Yeah it's usually the first thing people would tell me.

4 ✧ venus conj. jupiter/venus in 9H, have you ever crushed on your teacher? or dated a teacher?

5 ✧ what annoys you/makes you angry & how does your anger show up? what's your moon and mars placement/aspects?

my answer: nothing really offends me at firsthand anymore and even when it does I can hide it well, but what I do hate is when people just keep repeating the same things over and over again. In the past, I would get into physical fights ☠, but now I either call people out or stay quiet. I have a 8H taurus mars sq. saturn & neptune, and 4H capricorn moon opposite mercury.

6 ✧ which song(s) best describes how you feel in love/in a relationship & what is your moon and venus placement?

my answer: "religion" by lana del rey, "false god" by taylor swift, and "humen tumse pyar kitna" by kishore kumar and I have virgo venus in 12H and capricorn moon in 4H

7 ✧ what's your favorite placement in your birth chart + the least favorite?

It depends on the people involved, the relationship, other planetary aspects and what kind of aspect are the liliths making (i.e. conjunction, opposition, trine etc)

In general, it shows a deep emotional connection, unexplainable yet intense attraction, sexual attraction, expressing our vulnerable, dark and wild sides to the other person, rage, obsession, possessiveness and jealousy.

conjunction: even if they don't show it directly, the moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side and would be able to understand them. Both feel a deep emotional connection but also feel unsafe by it. Lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Moon person could be very enamored by the lilith person and help heal the lilith person's emotional wounds. There's an intense attraction between them. If one or both of them don't have evolved liliths, they could trigger each others emotional wounds. They could be possessive and controlling towards each other. Both/either of them could be become very obsessive towards the other. Lilith person might also become jealous of the moon person. This is also a stalker placement. If the people are evolved, both could feel emotionally comfortable to express their shadow sides and vulnerability to each other.

trine/sextile: lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Strong physical and sexual attraction towards each other. They are comfortable with each other's dark side because they're similar but they both express it differently. Both learn how to be vulnerable and feel safe with one another. It is more harmonious than conjunction, however, trine can also be an enabler if the people are unevolved.

square: a lot of tension and aggression between them. sexual tension too. Moon person would want to nurture lilith but feels rejected or lilith person would want to be nurtured by moon but feels rejected or misunderstood. They feel uneasy with each other's shadow side and can be triggered by it. The moon person might be caught off guard by the lilith person. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for moon person to deal with them. If the people are evolved, they could be comfortable with each other even if they don't understand.

opposite: magnetic pull towards one another. However, they could overstep each other's boundaries. They're attracted to each other but feel unsafe about each other as well. Moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side but can not understand why they are like this. If they are unevolved especially, this can create a power struggle. Lilith person can trigger the moon person's emotional wounds. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for the moon person to deal with the lilith person.

(If anything here doesn't make sense or isn't right, feel free to let me know I'll correct or add to it. Also I would like to know what other people's experiences with lilith synastry are like cuz I normally don't see a lot about it and personally I have only dealt with a few conjunctions nothing else)

sorry for being gone for a really long time but here's a new set of notes.

Disclaimer: I am no professional astrologer. I do like to observe so here are some of my observations, there are also a few assumptions I make about some placements. If something doesn’t resonate with you, then leave it be.

💠 a common pattern i noticed with most aqua moons is that they never seem to have good romantic relationships. it's always like the relationship is just trapping them.

my mother and best friend both have aqua moons and they've had horribly failed relationships where the partner was cheating but was also rlly controlling of them other examples are: marilyn monroe, britney spears, princess diana

💠 2H also represents greed. Having jupiter in 2H can be a indicator of a very greedy person

💠since jupiter exaggerates anything it touches, 2H jupiter can also manifest as someone being extremely poor

💠 mercury in 10H or conj MC can manifest as someone having social anxiety, being anxious of being in the spotlight or anxiety surrounding your reputation or social status

💠 neptune in 5H can mean you have photography as a hobby or watch movies as a hobby

💠 neptune in 5H can also indicate having interest in astrology while uranus in 5H can indicate having interest in astronomy

💠 the moon rules over fluctuations

e.g. moon in 6H can indicate fluctuations in health

💠 libra placements with aries, scorpio or capricorn placements in their inner planets might not relate to the "libras are indecisive" stereotype

💠saw someone say that Capricorn NN find their true purpose and success when they travel away from their home because of their cancer SN. I just think that this is more accurate with sidereal astrology because if u use sidereal astrology most Capricorn NN (0º to 24º) are Sagittarius NNs and Sagittarius rules over travel to foreign lands

💠 I've seen many people say jupiter transiting your 1H or jupiter conjunct asc in sr chart indicates weight gain and i know why they make that interpretation, like jupiter maximizes what it touches so jupiter in 1H in transit/sr chart can indicate drastic changes in weight so people immediately think of weight gain, but the key point here is that jupiter basically takes things to the extreme so either you would gain too much weight or you lose too much weight.

💠 i saw this on another post that when your venus conjuncts somebody's asc u will have the hardest time moving on from them

💠 this is based on personal experience, with sun conj. moon synastry, you either love and understand each other or hate each other's guts.

i think it's cuz this aspect means that the moon person reflects the sun person and not everyone can stand seeing themselves in smbody else

💠 one time a guy liked me whose lilith conjuncted my saturn, moon conjuncted my venus and my asc conjuncted his south node. I rejected him cuz he was one of those "nice" guys and till this day he stalks me and actively tries to ruin all my relationships pls just save me from this guy 😭

no cuz i dont understand wtf is wrong with him he ruined his own relationships and friendships cuz of his obsession with me and he still says i'm the one to blame for everything he went through after meeting me he couldnt ruin my new relationship as my partner already knew what kind of person he was

sorry if it felt short anyways see u next time byie 🥰

Your Saturn sign can also show you what others could shame you into believing about yourself

credits to @sagistarbb for this info; the pic is from pinterest

but anyways I'll try to post astrology content again and I might do an ask game too later. Also speaking of that, since I've been into kpop again I wanted to know if people would be interested in an ask game related to it.