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idk and then the worst part is that he found out that i was like mad kinda and dmed my friend about what he should do so i thought maybe wed be able to talk it about but then i get another dm from the girl who sent me the ss and apparently he just started flaming her instead of realizing what he did wrong and i just dont know what to do bc i really like care about this guy and i dont wanna stop talking to him bc of smth like this/with no closure

dear anon

i know, this feels horrible. if you find out, someone is talking behind your back and calling you names, this hurts. personally i think you have to call him out, confront him with what you heard and how it made you feel. tell him, you are hurt and it is not ok to call your friend names, you don't want to be called a hoe. it is just not ok. never! if he has to tell you something, he should tell you directly. depending on his reaction perhaps your friendship will change or you will stop talking at all. but you will have closure, you addressed the problem and lend him a hand.

all the best and a lot of strength!

keep your head up and your heart strong!

Ask those friends anything you want to know!

dear anon,

i am glad, that we were able to help you out. and i try my best to help you again :)well, it is always hard to find something to talk to with new people. so maybe you talk about things you have in common, like your school subjects or your teachers (i don’t know, if you are in school together). or maybe you have similar hobbies and interests, find out what they like and talk about that. it is possible that you listen to the same music or watch the same tv series. even if you have completely different music tastes f.ex. it could be interesting to discuss that and broaden one’s horizon.

i am sure, if you get to know each other a bit better, you have tons of topics to talk about. this is only at the beginning. and sometimes it is also very nice to have someone you don’t have to make conversation all the time, someone to enjoy the silence. :)

Cause all I wanna do is receiving your answers on GM :)

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