i dont like how transmeds, when met with criticism of their community, will defend it and pretend like their community isnt THAT bad or things that were said about them didnt happen
or the people hurt by their community are making a big deal about it. or that their pain is their own fault
mf i was a transmed a few years ago (epic cringe, very sorry bros), and i saw how toxic this community is. it made ME toxic. it made my mental health toxic as well. being a transmed was the worst and lowest point of my fucking life.
stop pretending that everything is fine with the transmed community. stop pretending that youre not transphobic/nbphobic. stop pretending like its JUST about "you need dysphoria to be trans" bc it isnt??
ive seen the gaslighting, ive seen the toxicity, ive seen the transphobia. some ex transmeds report seeing racism and antisemitism as well. dont get me started about the allyship with TERFs. thats fucking disgusting. and dont say "we hate terfs too!!!" ive literally seen it wih my own two eyes, bucko. ive seen how youll bow to the feet of terfs for their slight validation
like the worst people flock to this ideology dont u see that? please just leave! theres better for you out there! you dont have to trudge through this misery!!
you can be more than a miserable little prick that attacks other trans people for EXISTING. you can live and let live and i promise its way more fun than whatever tf yall are doing
if youre new to this community im begging you to not enter it. for your own sake. please, it isnt worth it