#anonymousdating

I was in a lot of the pictures. With the basketball team when we won the championship. The soccer team when we won regionals.

I was a handsome son of a gun back then, not that I’m too bad now.

I used to go to parties every weekend.  

I had a lot of girlfriends too, sometimes together at the same time. Nothing terrible, I was just having a good time.

I’m pretty happy with my life now, despite the settling down, the rules of my better half, work, the house…it’s just that sometimes I want to really relive those times, you know?

  Reconnecting with my old self again

When I started cyber dating, I found someone that I really connected with. Me.

Turns out that the anonymous dating I do isn’t really about meeting someone new. It’s more about getting to be just like my old self, before life narrowed my options down. 

Here are some of the things that I have been into, offline and on, after going on some virtual dates.

I’ve remembered my old interests. Offline, I even signed up for a recreational soccer game. It keeps in shape and is more fun that the gym, and I get to score once in a while as well.

I tell my old stories to a fresh audience. To new ladies who think I’m pretty funny.

I have fun and get away from the nuts and bolts of life. I get to whisk women off to exotic locations and treat them to alterD8s that I never get to do in real life anymore.

Overall, I feel like I’m getting more creative.

Here’s what I suggest you do on an alterD8 to relive your best times:

be spontaneous

date multiple partners

share stories and what the heck, embellish a little

talk about your old interests, you know, the ones you don’t really have time for anymore

ask questions. Women love to be heard. Just listen, don’t try to fix things (there’s a life lesson for you) 

  P.S. Looking to relive some of your glory days? Try out an alterD8 today. You can be chatting with a bunch of new women in minutes.

According to Time, the three key elements to strong relationships include:

knowing a partner extremely well

strong life skills

great communication

So how do you really get to know someone when cyber dating?

  Ask and you shall find out

Since my avatar is that of a pop psychologist, I love to ask people what they truly desire.

You’d be amazed at the kinds of intimate needs that people have and the craving they have to confess. I’ve heard about:

sexual orientation (I’ve met those who are into gay virtual dating)

dream careers

dream women

dream men

fantasies (anonymous cybersex

wild encounters

hurtful relationship experiences

The list goes on. Doesn’t it always?

There’s just something about anonymous dating that helps me click quickly and effectively with others.  

  Satisfying your partner

How does knowing a partner help your relationship?

I’ve found that knowing what my cyber dates want, and what they may try, is the key to knowing how to get them interested. It also keeps them satisfied and meets their needs.

That’s how I start training my fantasy partners to meet my needs.

In turn, having virtual relationships with those who know me extremely well keeps me satisfied. I like to be surprised and to experiment. It’s refreshing to have others come up with ideas and lead me into fresh sensual adventures.

A little role play never hurt either. Isn’t that the point of a virtual dating website in the first place?

P.S. When dating avatars, try playing 20 questions. Ask everything you wouldn’t dare to ask on an offline date. Sign up for alterD8 today to meet your new virtual date today.  

Dr. Delilah

    The science of summer love

Is it real? I read up on a number of articles. Live Science identified some factors that may influence summer love. These include:

A break from routine.

I know that feeling relaxed and enjoying the sun makes me feel more sociable. I love to walk through the parks and enjoy the beautiful flowers. At night, after I’ve cleared away the dishes I like to sit on my deck with a glass of wine… It all reminds me of when I was a young girl (except for the wine of course).

Cultural expectations.

As New Year’s Eve comes with many expectations, so does summer. Summer love may be a cultural phenomenon. That book I’m reading? All those movies about summer love? These help us create expectations around relationships in the summer. The relationships are not too heavy. Just a summer fling. Casual. Lighthearted. Temporary.

Light summer clothing.

The site of so many women in summer dresses, shorts and tank tops, bathing suits and shirtless men are all mighty tempting. Whenever I emerge from the house, I see the beauty of men and women with toned torsos and tanned legs on display. That certainly puts me in the mood for summer love.

  Do you feel more flirtatious in the summertime? Online or off?

This summer, I’ve been wearing long summer dresses and letting my hair flow about my shoulders. It definitely makes me feel far more flirtatious. I also like to wear golden sandals, have my toes painted, wear hats and gorgeous bright red lipsticks.

Running along the beach, meeting up with friends. These are all things that make me feel sensual in my own skin.

This summer I’ve been too busy to meet a summer prospect. I’m on a quest to see if that desire for summer love can be found through anonymous avatar chat.

I’m going to ask my anonymous online dating partners if they’ve found summer love online or if they think it’s possible.

  P.S. I dare you to have a fun summer online fling. Virtual relationships that never, ever end up offline. You can begin to chat anonymously here within minutes. Set up your avatar and start connecting. It’s fun. See you inside. Wink, wink.

  Dr. Delilah

    Betting on baby’s future

You can even bet on more than just this baby’s name.  People are wagering on just about everything including:

Sex

Names

Hair color

Time and date of birth

University choice

Future profession

This child’s life is being predicted even before he takes his first steps! 

  Popular name choices

When looking at infant names, there are many options being presented, from George, to Alexander, to William.  According to Ladbrokes, the chance of the royal baby being named Elvis is a slim 500 to 1.  Barack has is in a similar boat with the odds of 200 to 1.

Paddy Power gives the odds of 33 to 1 that this new royal addition will be strutting the runway as a fashion model.

One betting site’s PR manager stated that "If the money talk(ed), then the newest heir to the throne will be a 7-pound brunette princess named Alexandra, born sometime in the morning."  Looks like the betting world was a bit off.

  Fooled by look-alikes

People were so eager to have this heir born and named; so eager in fact that they were easily fooled by two lookalikes outside St. Mary’s Hospital in London last week.

A “Will” and “pregnant Kate” appeared outside the hospital where they stood for a few moments of fame.  The pair momentarily passed off as the royal couple and were photographed and filmed.

The bundle of royal joy has arrived and you can expect some people’s pocketbooks to be receiving good fortune.

As for the betting and wagers, what would you put your money on for this royal baby boy’s future?

  P.S. Inspired to try out one of the popular names for the royal babe? Click here to name (or rename) your avatar to engage the world of anonymous online dating.